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Any men who hide this fetish from their wives?

here ^^

I just can't open up about it to her. I'm too afraid of her considering it disgusting enough to leave me.
I haven't yet opened up to her about me liking cock and receiving anal, either....but I'm sure that I'll tell her about that at least.
 
Well i dont like that i have had to hide it but i have done so for many years..i would not know how to tell her but i have thought about letting her catch me knotted with my male because just fuck it and see where it went but im way to nervous
 
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No wife, but have had to hide my interest when I've been in relationships - I definitely don't feel comfortable doing it, and wish I could be far more open. I don't feel like it's a sense of shame or guilt around those interests and experiences though, more just from fear of being outed or rejected. Always hopeful that I'll find a like-minded partner in the future, but being realistic about the prospects of that.
 
My wife doesn’t know. She’s not really into it, from what I could tell by just owning a knotted dildo, so I haven’t bothered to communicate beyond that. It’s fine if she isn’t, and sucks I can’t express my interest, but I have freedom to do “gay things” within communication and reason in my marriage. So it’s mostly fine.
 
yeah, would be nice if it were that easy.
It is. It’s your moral imperative to find a partner you can be honest with, or don’t have a partner. Telling the truth shouldn’t be difficult under normal circumstances.

All zoo stuff aside, what’s the deal with everyone wanting to wear a mask and lie about who they are for acceptance?

Do the right thing, even when it’s the hard thing. Don’t keep secrets from your spouse.
 
Well i dont like that i have had to hide it but i have done so for many years..i would not know how to tell her but i have thought about letting her catch me knotted with my male because just fuck it and see where it went but im way to nervous
I would agree with you I want to get caught
 
My wife doesn’t know. She’s not really into it, from what I could tell by just owning a knotted dildo, so I haven’t bothered to communicate beyond that. It’s fine if she isn’t, and sucks I can’t express my interest, but I have freedom to do “gay things” within communication and reason in my marriage. So it’s mostly fine.
Yeah I’m one. I did express my interest in it once while drunk after we had been dating. She was repulsed by it.

So I’ve kept it secret.

I’m sure there are many who do, who might be on this board or not.

It does suck, it’s kind of a reason I joined as there are no people I can talk to about this without risking looking like a sick freak / sexual deviant / in the same category as pedophiles (yeah I know)
 
I've mentioned zoo porn. She was meh about it, but has taken a few different K-9 dildos and loved it. I've while we've been together, had a female give me oral, and fingered her pussy. I'm hoping to soon start sucking some dog cock on a regular basis, maybe even mounted. I'm going to try desperately to setup where the male might sneak in and participate.
 
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