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Am i a horrible person? Ive discovered i want the zoo life after being a partner for 2 years

theperson22838

theperson22838

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So long story short ive been with my partner for a while, and ive notices some imcompatability issues, on top of that there are needs i have that are not being met, i feel as if my sexual side is being controlled, this has made me realize i dont want this life, i want to have a big dog that will unconditonally love me no matter how weird i am, having a animal isnt just sex for me, ive own 3 dogs in the past and thr connection ive felt with them is unmatched, i love my partner but, if i stay with them i feel like i will be unfulfulled, i just feel confused and lost what to do 😢😢😢
 
pes said:
Now quite obviously you are looking for confirmation bias. Someone telling you, that leaving your partner is what you should do.
So I am not going to tell you that.
It is your life and your partner and nobody here understands your situation. You have to make that decision yourself.
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True, i just feel horrible, like ive led them on
 
I wont say that either. But I will say this....

After many years of dealing with that kind of shit, I no longer tolerate ANY bullshit of that nature. I no longer play the 'pussy power' game.

Anyone who even slightly moves toward that, is real quickly going to find themselves on the outside wondering how come that fucking game didnt work the way it always has before.

I'm over it. That shit will no longer be tolerated by me, personally. You want to play that game, great for you. You will just be playing it with some other sucker but you for damn sure wont be playing it with me very long. I dont play games with people and I no longer allow others to play them with me. Fuck you, take that shit somewhere else.

I dont expect sex on demand and I dont operate that way, but if the games start up, I dont give a fuck who you are OR who you think you are. You're done here. I have zero issues finding partners, so, you wont be missed. Some fucking people, particulary pretty women, think they simply cant be replaced. I got news, bitch, you can be replaced overnight, your pussy isnt that special and it certainly isn't irreplacable in my life.

Find yourself some incel or desperate fuck who will hang around and deal with your bullshit because they HAVE no other options. I aint that fuckin desperate for anything.

See ya!!
 
keriam said:
The best thing you can do is talk to them about what you’re seeing as incompatibilities between the two of you. Give your partner a chance to fulfill you instead of taking it all on your own shoulders.
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True. Sometimes, it isnt what you think it is. Most times, it is though.

So, you get 1 and ONLY 1 notice that I dont like what I'm seeing or getting from you. After that, bye bye.
 
Dogdaddy69 said:
I wont say that either. But I will say this....

After many years of dealing with that kind of shit, I no longer tolerate ANY bullshit of that nature. I no longer play the 'pussy power' game.

Anyone who even slightly moves toward that, is real quickly going to find themselves on the outside wondering how come that fucking game didnt work the way it always has before.

I'm over it. That shit will no longer be tolerated by me, personally. You want to play that game, great for you. You will just be playing it with some other sucker but you for damn sure wont be playing it with me very long. I dont play games with people and I no longer allow others to play them with me. Fuck you, take that shit somewhere else.

I dont expect sex on demand and I dont operate that way, but if the games start up, I dont give a fuck who you are OR who you think you are. You're done here. I have zero issues finding partners, so, you wont be missed. Some fucking people, particulary pretty women, think they simply cant be replaced. I got news, bitch, you can be replaced overnight, your pussy isnt that special and it certainly isn't irreplacable in my life.

Find yourself some incel or desperate fuck who will hang around and deal with your bullshit because they HAVE no other options. I aint that fuckin desperate for anything.

See ya!!
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Is this directed twords me? :0
 
theperson22838 said:
Is this directed twords me? :0
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Not unless you're playing sexual power games with me..........otherwise, that's directed to anyone who wants to read it.

I simply gave MY feelings about situations similar to what you were initially talking about. As it pertains to MY life. Your life is your rules. Those are simply my rules and how I go about things. I don't play games, and I don't tolerate them being played on me.

The First statement was directed at you specifically, because it isn't my place to advise anyone to do this or do that. That's a decision you have to make, no one can make it for you, and if someone is, then it isn't you in control of your life. Personally, I don't want to control the world, but I will damn sure be in control of MY world, as much as I possibly can, but, that's just me.
 
I'd recommend to slow it all down and have an adult conversation where your boundaries are and why. It's really in the end all about respect. If he can still respect you and he give your relationship another chance. If he simply cannot show you the respect you deserve then either you leave or send him packing.

Good luck
 
pes said:
Now quite obviously you are looking for confirmation bias. Someone telling you, that leaving your partner is what you should do.
So I am not going to tell you that.
It is your life and your partner and nobody here understands your situation. You have to make that decision yourself.
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confirmation bias is a good thing if you're looking for an excuse when that choice turns out to be bad in the long run. it was not your choice, someone else made it sound nice to you.

i won't be doing that either.
it's your life.
 
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