Erocker7126
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I believe I have said this in a different thread but I have told my current partner and they are 100% supportive of it. They may not want to participate but want to watch it happen
It's possible that she was viewing "zooromantic" as him saying he was no longer in love with her., i.e. zoo-EXCLUSIVE.That's kinda pot calling the kettle black as far as that girl goes...sorry that happened, it was definitely hypocritical of her I feel.
Good luck in your upcoming search for a new job.I actually just told my co-worker tonight. She isn't into it but didn't judge.
Right...Good luck in your upcoming search for a new job.
Right...
And just like you can't unfuck a horse or dog, you can't untell someone either...
Why the burning need to spill one's guts in the first place?
I mean, in a way, it must have been nice way back in the days before anyone had negative opinions about it, but that isn't the case now..
Exactly! I mean to feel like you aren't alone there are places like this forum. Took me years to gut up to get involved, but it fills the need to commune with people of like mind. AND if for some reason you need to go further, make some friends anonymously and maybe over time meet up with them after a long ass time of vetting. Just to drop a bomb to a co-worker who is probably just a friend of convenience because you work together is risky AF, with no upside in sight. Well unless you hit the lottery and they love on animals as well, but even if they did I bet they'd still hide it for the aforementioned reasons.Why the burning need to spill one's guts in the first place?
Another thing I've noticed about myself through this forum, is that now that I'm here and did spill my guts in an acceptable place, I no longer spend very much time at all in the sex sections..Exactly! I mean to feel like you aren't alone there are places like this forum. Took me years to gut up to get involved, but it fills the need to commune with people of like mind. AND if for some reason you need to go further, make some friends anonymously and maybe over time meet up with them after a long ass time of vetting. Just to drop a bomb to a co-worker who is probably just a friend of convenience because you work together is risky AF, with no upside in sight. Well unless you hit the lottery and they love on animals as well, but even if they did I bet they'd still hide it for the aforementioned reasons.
I did; I told a few people back when I was in school. It was because there was a girl it was rumored was into horses, and I was trying to see if it was true. People were surprisingly cool about it for whatever reason, and I don’t think it really spread to anyone.(first post sorry if i did something wrong)
Have you told anyone about your lifestyle? If so, how did it go and how did it change your relationship?
For me, this is a secret i’m taking to the grave
Funny how that works, huh?Another thing I've noticed about myself through this forum, is that now that I'm here and did spill my guts in an acceptable place, I no longer spend very much time at all in the sex sections..
I spend most of my time here in TDF, talking about just about everything BUT critter sex...
This 1000%. I had a similar "evolution", I was a lurker for years mostly porn oriented, and the occasional random reads here and there. Since participating the porn has been a "yea I'll keep an eye on anything good that pops up" and I've been spending the vast majority of my time reading and posting. I contemplate sometimes "giving back" to the porn section with media but too so far. I give a lot of credit to media posters, even if you have lovely animals in your life already, it is fun to expand horizons of the mind (fancy for jerking it to stranger's experiences).Another thing I've noticed about myself through this forum, is that now that I'm here and did spill my guts in an acceptable place, I no longer spend very much time at all in the sex sections..
I spend most of my time here in TDF, talking about just about everything BUT critter sex...
Were you looking for help, attention, absolution, or all of the above?Looking back ive actually told a lot of people. From when i was at school i told the first person when i was 13. Which is when i sort of realized that was my sexual identity. Pubity and all that. Later i told family, chrch leadership and freinds. I informed the CID police at 24 and later other people. And a friend most recently before everyone i told on zoo sites. Oh and 2 different psychiatrists
Nah I've been working with her for years, she knows a lot about me that no one else does. Basically my work wife.Good luck in your upcoming search for a new job.
I have had this conversation twice and it went both ways.(first post sorry if i did something wrong)
Have you told anyone about your lifestyle? If so, how did it go and how did it change your relationship?
For me, this is a secret i’m taking to the grave
Yeah I can be a hit and miss and I said I usually start off hanting around videos or something like that before I bring up the full conversationI have had this conversation twice and it went both ways.
One friend who seemed open to listening…he completely ghosted me after calling me names.
One friend found it fascinating and asked me questions and is enamored with the idea.
I LOVE bestiality, have since I was young. Kept it a secret from my husband for YEARS. He caught me by finding the porn on my phone while using it to google something. Surprised me with a dog to knot me the following weekend. Wish I had told him from the beginning, the fun we could’ve had way sooner!(first post sorry if i did something wrong)
Have you told anyone about your lifestyle? If so, how did it go and how did it change your relationship?
For me, this is a secret i’m taking to the grave
I 100% am in the same boat as you. I live a normal life outside of this and have a gf and cool family but would be outcasted if they knew. Such a shame that this is what gets me the horniest(first post sorry if i did something wrong)
Have you told anyone about your lifestyle? If so, how did it go and how did it change your relationship?
For me, this is a secret i’m taking to the grave
Wow yeah well I'm another one 100% the same boatI 100% am in the same boat as you. I live a normal life outside of this and have a gf and cool family but would be outcasted if they knew. Such a shame that this is what gets me the horniest
HEllo lolFunny how that works, huh?
I ain't averse to the various flavors of porn - There's some great stuff to be seen. But it doesn't drive my existence. And like you, I have little urge to brag, or whine, or whatever-you-wanna-call-it about my sex life - Why is it ANYBODY'S biz other than me and who/whatever I'm boinking/being boinked by??? I've never been able to figure that out.
Tough one. If you tell emotionally intelligent person this it's fine. Doesent matter if they like it or not. But it's hard to take chances on those that lack it a bit. People are different. I can't do preschool maths. But get other things on high levelDecided to go out on a limb with a friend who was becoming more than a friend and be an open book, something I had avoided doing in other relationships out of fear.
Not only did she not runaway screaming, after allowing me to explain exactly what it is, what I’ve done in the past, and how it makes me feel. She accepted it and told me she’d think no less of me, and was happy I could be honest. Not 3 days later she come to me and told be about her curiosity with the family dog when she was growing up and the lines that she crossed with the beloved pet, she doesn’t mind me saying, but her and her dog had a very special bond she kept very secret for some years. After he died she started to doubt who she was and hate what she’d done because it was so socially unacceptable and after a while managed to just suppress the memories all together in a way. Until I told her who I was and she realised perhaps it wasn’t so wrong what happened all those years ago.
After many open discussions and honest truths everything was out on the table and we’re taking the first step to living the lifestyle openly (openly between us lol) together.
Fair to say, personally I couldn’t be happier and she is feeling much better about herself too.
My dishonesty to myself and previous partners about who I am has no doubt hurt if not killed some of those relationships. Honesty definitely is not always the best policy but sometimes, it is. Just don’t lie about what you do, whether it be what was in your deleted search history or hidden in your photo vault to your life partners. It will slowly erode the relationship. Be honest or don’t do it!