Generally, the people asking not to discuss politics are the reasonable ones, because they know the others see it as a personal slight.
The reasonableness depends on the goal and the scope.
Is it reasonable to never discuss a subject of great importance because
people are so
unreasonable on average?
That's such an American thing to say.
It's very American to make a political choice part of one's identity.
Maybe, but plenty of Europeans do the same thing whether they describe it that way or not. SimSexrets comes to mind.
What the actual fuck? You need to be a sociopath to have a polite discussion about politics?
I certainly did not say that.
I implied that sociopaths are advantaged in contexts where less than 100% honesty is required because they are expert liars.
The sociopath can expertly pretend to agree with people on controversial issues, find what they care about and pretend to care as well. That means if person A filters their conversations and contacts to only people who don't disagree with them they're going to more than proportional sociopathic suitors.
We're not talking about friendship here. We're talking about getting rid of all the political garbage.
I'm drawing a connection between the two.
Friendship is built on honesty.
Those who output 'garbage' at any hint of serious controversy do not have the foundation to form real friendships.
You lost me there... Who are the snakes, and who are the heroes in this?
Heroes in this context are the people who can attack arguments while respecting the person who made them, and can see their arguments and conclusions attacked without taking personal offense.
Heroes are honest and consistent. They don't pretend to be someone else depending on who they are talking to.
Snakes react to contradictory assertions like they were stabbed. They confuse character with beliefs and treat error (as they perceive it) as the result of an evil character.
They respond to 'attacks' with hate, and the worst reveal the perverted and insane fantasies about personal suffering and degradation.
The snakes do not take responsibility for their words or actions. They always find an excuse for their abuses. They rarely or never admit to being proven wrong or even to making a bad prediction or recalling something incorrectly.
How does any of this have to do with this being a zoo safe space?
Safe from what?
I am telling you exactly why I think freespeech aids safety, you can see who the bad apples are and thereby save yourself from the mistake of trusting them in any way.