If you don't have 20 posts in general, then you don't get the ability to. Its just being signed up in general for 30 days and having 20 posts, if you don't have 20 within 30, then no pm. Till you get 30.Firstly, I completely understand.
So to clarify, first you said to PM you must be member 30 days and then also have 20 posts, and then you say we may loose ability to PM if we dont meet both thresholds...
I understand not being able to send photos in PMs without meeting a higher threshold, but do i now have to post 120 more times to be able to privately message other users now?
Also doesn't mean quickly spam 20 posts just to get it, because one of us will just happen to delete all of them.
Its not that you should make it a job to post on here everyday, find a thread you like to respond to. Or make one of interests that fits a category. You just take as long as you like.Im here to meet other people who feel the same way I do, and I am not one who likes to say something if i dont feel like i have something to say. I also cant spend every waking hour here looking for something to respond to publicly. Im an introvert and these topics are sensitive already, so for me to have to post 120 more times - and not spamming - will take months. Ive already been around a while on here so it kinda feels pretty crappy to loose access to starting private conversations with people. Most of those conversations I have been able to start havent gone anywhere - so i do understand creating some systems to clear out the "wank brigade" as you say, it just feels like im being punished and I didnt do anything wrong.