It's not up to you to determine how this lifestyle works. It's different for everybody. And why have a personals section then? You don't have to look at them or read them, but some people use them as a way to communicate with others around them who might be interested. It is very much one of the several different ways this "lifestyle" works.Well screw them. That ad would never lead to anything. That's not how this "lifestyle" works.
