ZOO EXCLUSIVE......BUT MARRIED

ZooBetty

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Are there any married zoo girls but feeling or willing to be exclusive?

In the passed i had many ask me how can it be possible???

Entering this lifestyle,when already married, i lost with time (and by noticing the difference), the interest in men and became a zoo exclusive.
Hubby was put sexually aside becoming with time a sort of sub.
- Chastity caged for some time, when he raises his head too much.
- Making him only watch but no sex with dogs nor me.
- Only licking my partners after they mount me.
- Sexual gift only for Birthday and Christmas (he can suck and cum swallow my partners)

Do other exclusive think i'm treating this human male in wrong way?
considering that:
- he wanted and approved me being in this lifestyle
- he felt (and became) less important in bed just by noticing the size and the time they last

Be honest in answering.

* if how i say things way is too clear and offends or is considered "dirty talk", i would like to know and change.
 
ZooBetty said:
Are there any married zoo girls but feeling or willing to be exclusive?

In the passed i had many ask me how can it be possible???

Entering this lifestyle,when already married, i lost with time (and by noticing the difference), the interest in men and became a zoo exclusive.
Hubby was put sexually aside becoming with time a sort of sub.
- Chastity caged for some time, when he raises his head too much.
- Making him only watch but no sex with dogs nor me.
- Only licking my partners after they mount me.
- Sexual gift only for Birthday and Christmas (he can suck and cum swallow my partners)

Do other exclusive think i'm treating this human male in wrong way?
considering that:
- he wanted and approved me being in this lifestyle
- he felt (and became) less important in bed just by noticing the size and the time they last

Be honest in answering.

* if how i say things way is too clear and offends or is considered "dirty talk", i would like to know and change.
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This is really interesting. It taps into my love of women with high libidos. Making your dogs superior than your husband because of performance is really amazing. You’re being true to yourself and your husband holds you in high regard. I’m looking forward to reading your posts
 
lovingfreely said:
This is really interesting. It taps into my love of women with high libidos. Making your dogs superior than your husband because of performance is really amazing. You’re being true to yourself and your husband holds you in high regard. I’m looking forward to reading your posts
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I will start with saying that it is not my fault :

1) if he felt less important because he started a challenge in his mind already knowing the results regarding the performance

2) if before entering this lifestyle i was told almost every day that i "NEEDED" to be mounted by a proper size dog

3) if for some time he almost became a dog sitter for his friends and convince me......

4) if he seemed to be so happy/satisfied in JUST watching me while being mounted

Now if i became zoo exclusive and consider my furry partners better than hubby i can't blame myself.

Certain facts can't be changed, and as you can see there is always an explanation.
 
I would love to have a husband who was okay with my being zoo exclusive. I'd love to have an outwardly "normal" life, with a husband who loves me and my sexuality. I just feel like that man has to be a unicorn or something lol.
ZooBetty said:
Do other exclusive think i'm treating this human male in wrong way?
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Consent is paramount to all else. If all parties are enthusiastic participants in this lifestyle, then I fail to see the problem. ❤️
 
ZooBetty said:
I will start with saying that it is not my fault :

1) if he felt less important because he started a challenge in his mind already knowing the results regarding the performance

2) if before entering this lifestyle i was told almost every day that i "NEEDED" to be mounted by a proper size dog

3) if for some time he almost became a dog sitter for his friends and convince me......

4) if he seemed to be so happy/satisfied in JUST watching me while being mounted

Now if i became zoo exclusive and consider my furry partners better than hubby i can't blame myself.

Certain facts can't be changed, and as you can see there is always an explanation.
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Zoo Betty I’m glad that you let the truth be your guide.

I agree we don’t choose and we’re simply victims of circumstances.

If the boys fulfill your needs than your husband needs to understand that this and I believe he does.

I need to mention that the message you wrote has turned some cogs in my mind. Really impressed by the way you lead your family life

Would you mind if I DM’d you?
 
BreedingPlay said:
I would love to have a husband who was okay with my being zoo exclusive. I'd love to have an outwardly "normal" life, with a husband who loves me and my sexuality. I just feel like that man has to be a unicorn or something lol.

Consent is paramount to all else. If all parties are enthusiastic participants in this lifestyle, then I fail to see the problem. ❤️
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Great way to put it (both posts above this one). Women who understand what K9 can add to their lives, especially with dogs that they really know well ..and yes, being true to themselves, their sex-drives and accept and embrace it. I don't know that dogs need to take precedence over their spouse .. just depends on how they see things. and yes consent always.
 
ZooBetty said:
Are there any married zoo girls but feeling or willing to be exclusive?

In the passed i had many ask me how can it be possible???

Entering this lifestyle,when already married, i lost with time (and by noticing the difference), the interest in men and became a zoo exclusive.
Hubby was put sexually aside becoming with time a sort of sub.
- Chastity caged for some time, when he raises his head too much.
- Making him only watch but no sex with dogs nor me.
- Only licking my partners after they mount me.
- Sexual gift only for Birthday and Christmas (he can suck and cum swallow my partners)

Do other exclusive think i'm treating this human male in wrong way?
considering that:
- he wanted and approved me being in this lifestyle
- he felt (and became) less important in bed just by noticing the size and the time they last

Be honest in answering.

* if how i say things way is too clear and offends or is considered "dirty talk", i would like to know and change.
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Unless your husband is absolutely satisfied with this arraignment, I think you're being disrespectful to him. He loves you and respects your boundaries, but you force him to be involved in a quasi-voyeurist position, being locked in a chastity cage and cuckolded by a dog in front of him. If that isn't exactly what he wants, I would stop involving him at all and keep your marriage platonic or romantic only.
 
This.

Not being sexually interested in your partner is not a reason to degrade him.

It is fairly possible he is playing it because he loves being with you, but would actually be happier with an equal relationship and making love when both of you would like to. Did hecever show those interests before that?

After all, even if you do not get full sexual satisfaction from sex with him, there is still the thing about being close to a loved one, sharing and and giving him pleasure.

So. Are you really interested in having him around? If you really like him as a person. Have you consifered an open arrangement where you have your dog sex freely, and he can get his sex from man, woman or mule if he so wishes?

All that, obviously if he does not really love your present game, but I think you both would benefit from some honest talking one to the other, but also with you own selves about needs and desires.

(Feel free to disagree. You asked and this is my opinion. You may want to ask him, though.
As you can guess I believe in equal partner relationship and I have always considered those slave and cock cage games absolutely abusive on a mental level if they go beyond a limited (short) stablished game time period)
 
Goattobeloved said:
As you can guess I believe in equal partner relationship and I have always considered those slave and cock cage games absolutely abusive on a mental level if they go beyond a limited (short) stablished game time period)
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maybe i don't get the "game" part of this (admittedly, i have no idea what's so pleasurable about the who cuckholding thing as well), but it seems to me that anything like that for any amount of time (even short amount) is psychological abuse.
chances are, the husband started to do this to please the wife and now continues doing so out of being used to it... i wouldn't want to be around anyone who gets a "cock cage" spring to mind at any time.
 
I understand that many are considering me bad for what i posted.
I also noticed that it's easy ti point a finger when certain things are missunderstood.
Maybe your opinion will change of i add the face that i was sexually ignored and pressure into this lifestyle by the hubby.
And kept being ignored when my zoo experience started and kept on going.
Did he want a substitute (a dog)??
Do real men love women in this way?
I'm sorry if i don't beleive much in men anymore.
Perhaps this also explains why i feel to be zoo esclusive
 
I mean consent is the most important factor to everything. You can't really call him a partner if you don't really do anything together. On his part this seems a little masochistic as well as cucking. This is a weird predicament indeed. I am guessing that he wants this for the "porn factor"
 
ZooBetty said:
I understand that many are considering me bad for what i posted.
I also noticed that it's easy ti point a finger when certain things are missunderstood.
Maybe your opinion will change of i add the face that i was sexually ignored and pressure into this lifestyle by the hubby.
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On my side at least, count it as an answer to a question as written. I am not to judge people and circumstances I ignore.

You mean includding the dog was hubbies idea *groan*

ZooBetty said:
And kept being ignored when my zoo experience started and kept on going.
Did he want a substitute (a dog)??
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Honestly, being together is a compromise of honestity and confidence. Maybe you should ask him?

Hurting back dies not appear to me as a solution. I'd rather oart ways if I was with someone I could not rely.
But honestly, I am zoo exclusive so I may not be the best one to advice here.
ZooBetty said:
Do real men love women in this way?
I'm sorry if i don't beleive much in men anymore.
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No worries, same happens to me with women, but I still appreciate them 😛
ZooBetty said:
Perhaps this also explains why i feel to be zoo esclusive
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No.
 
I wouldnt mind a similar situation. Lets be honest as zoo exclusive individuals. I love my dog above all others. It wouldnt be fair to a human partner that wants to be number 1. I think an ideal situation would be one where our human love is there, and the companionship, loyalty and care are all intact... until it comes to sex. Ideally we could participate together, but if we are BOTH zoo exclusives, we just love our dog partners instead.

There are wants and needs that a dog cannot fullfill in a relationship. Lets be honest. And you cant have kids with them if you even want them. Imagine a scenario where you and a human partner have a normal, loving life, with shared expenses and responsibilities. One that can be at your side in bad times, go on date nights, massage and carress eachother, and sleep together at night, after having long, meaningful conversations about life. But at the same time, our dog partners share the bed and cuddle up with us just the same.
 
WOW, a very interesting and unique post! I would ask why you remain married, is your husband your primary means of support or are you capable of supporting yourself and your canine lover(s)? I am highly suspect that there could be some deep undercurrents here because of basic human nature unless your husband is actually a cuckold.

In my youth I was more 'idealistic' purchasing humanity's propaganda regarding marriage and children, even after I discovered my first love was equines. At least I was open with my ex about my equine love and relationship before we ever married. I managed to endure marriage until our two children were independent, self-supporting adults even supporting two households throughout our separation. I finally realized I am NOT good husband material and probably a less than 'perfect' parent.

In my retired, senior years I'm grateful to be single as I have ZERO interest in humans sexually and little interest in most as even close friends. My focus now is exclusively on my beloved equine companions, lovers and partners...
 
ZooBetty said:
I understand that many are considering me bad for what i posted.
I also noticed that it's easy ti point a finger when certain things are missunderstood.
Maybe your opinion will change of i add the face that i was sexually ignored and pressure into this lifestyle by the hubby.
And kept being ignored when my zoo experience started and kept on going.
Did he want a substitute (a dog)??
Do real men love women in this way?
I'm sorry if i don't beleive much in men anymore.
Perhaps this also explains why i feel to be zoo esclusive
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>"My husband pressured me into this lifestyle!"

Oh, so he "ignored you" then, but now is involved? You're not giving us a very clear picture, here.

>"I was sexually ignored!"

Doesn't seem like he's ignoring you now. Sounds to me like you didn't communicate your sexual needs to him earlier in your marriage, considering he is very receptive now. It also sounds to me like you never respected your husband, and not wishing to cheat and lose the benefits of your marriage, you resorted to screwing your dog. Through a spiral of rationalization, self-hatred, and hatred for your husband that you reached by circumstances that were your own fault, you slowly became zoo-exclusive. After your husband found out, he, mistakenly, blamed himself for the situation, so he decided to try to join in on your fun, which leads us to today.

>"I'm sorry if I don't believe much in men anymore."

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Cowboi69 said:
Lol what a simp.
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He absolutely is a simp, but I can't help but feel for him. Imagine that your wife doesn't communicate her needs to you, than blames you for the resulting sex problems. Then, you find out that she now refuses to have sex with you, instead forcing you to watch as she rails your dog, your best friend, and this is the ONLY way you can be involved in your wife's sex life.

I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
 
zzenon1234 said:
>"My husband pressured me into this lifestyle!"

Oh, so he "ignored you" then, but now is involved? You're not giving us a very clear picture, here.

>"I was sexually ignored!"

Doesn't seem like he's ignoring you now. Sounds to me like you didn't communicate your sexual needs to him earlier in your marriage, considering he is very receptive now. It also sounds to me like you never respected your husband, and not wishing to cheat and lose the benefits of your marriage, you resorted to screwing your dog. Through a spiral of rationalization, self-hatred, and hatred for your husband that you reached by circumstances that were your own fault, you slowly became zoo-exclusive. After your husband found out, he, mistakenly, blamed himself for the situation, so he decided to try to join in on your fun, which leads us to today.

>"I'm sorry if I don't believe much in men anymore."

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From OP's post, it sounds like he's in to it. Only the most desperate or beta of men would subject themselves to this.
 
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I dont think this is a discussion to be had with strangers, instead having a real talk with your husband. If he sincerely wants this, then our opinions dont matter. Try talking with him and finding out if it's something he's really ok with or just endures it. Even in marriages there are miscommunications, even if other party might think it's a clear matter.
 
ZooBetty said:
I understand that many are considering me bad for what i posted.
I also noticed that it's easy ti point a finger when certain things are missunderstood.
Maybe your opinion will change of i add the face that i was sexually ignored and pressure into this lifestyle by the hubby.
And kept being ignored when my zoo experience started and kept on going.
Did he want a substitute (a dog)??
Do real men love women in this way?
I'm sorry if i don't beleive much in men anymore.
Perhaps this also explains why i feel to be zoo esclusive
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See just you saying you don't believe much in men anymore and having this attitude about his treatment as if it's something he deserves says it all about your point of view and how unhealthy it is. You justify training him into submission by insinuating that he did the very same to you which is literally pitching the idea that two wrongs make a right and childish in philosophy. Sometimes what people want isn't what is what's best for their health and your attitude implicates you seem to know it's not what's best for him and don't care.
 
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