Ok, this is difficult to explain for me, cause my english is not good, but i explored a lot of spanish forums and the dialogue quality in them is very poor (they only talk about sex, and thats it). So i wanna try to explain it, the best i could and then i will read your comments (when i read is more easy to understand the language, and your coments are helpful)
I dont like the heat itself. Completily change the attitude of my pets cause the hormons, of course. I have a female and a male. The female looks up for my boy, she stand close to the backdoor (my boys is in the backyard) and when she see me, she looks happy and salute me but automatically go for the door again cause she wanna be out. She prefer being with my boy that me. She not raise the tail for me, never did. And that hurts me, because i dont recognise my girl, and its obvious that i'm not "atracctive" for her. The male crys a lot, the only thing he wants is mount her and be with her. He ignores me and that attitude hurts me (cause i dont recognice my boy). Yes, i understand that is a normal behavior, and a heat can last 21 days... But i dont like it at all. I dont like that change of the personality in pets in general. When she or he salutes me or similar in this period, i feel that she/he only to that because she/he NEEDS ME TO OPEN THE DOOR THAT SEPARATES THEM, nothing else. It feels that all the afecction i received is fake. That feeling destroys me, seriously.
So, you can say "neuter your dog" or "do her vasectomy"... but that's not the point. Why the sexual behavior in animals have to works like that? Why dogs can not enjoy sex whenever they wants, like primates for example? It would be nice to wake up in the morning and see my girl raising the tail and vulva for me or for my boy without being in heat (something that never happens in life: a bitch raising the tail asking for dick only happens in heat). I saw a lot of male dogs become stupids when a female in heat appears. Even i see dogs escaping from his home and returning a week later. I saw a male dog protecting a house every day, but i saw the same dog too neglect the house cause a female in heat was around: the house was stolen, for real.
Well... what's your opinions? You understand my point of view? i want to clarify, that i love my pets and i dont wanna neuter them, but when she is in heat, none of us had a good time. Thanks for reading me and i hope the text is almost "understandable".
I dont like the heat itself. Completily change the attitude of my pets cause the hormons, of course. I have a female and a male. The female looks up for my boy, she stand close to the backdoor (my boys is in the backyard) and when she see me, she looks happy and salute me but automatically go for the door again cause she wanna be out. She prefer being with my boy that me. She not raise the tail for me, never did. And that hurts me, because i dont recognise my girl, and its obvious that i'm not "atracctive" for her. The male crys a lot, the only thing he wants is mount her and be with her. He ignores me and that attitude hurts me (cause i dont recognice my boy). Yes, i understand that is a normal behavior, and a heat can last 21 days... But i dont like it at all. I dont like that change of the personality in pets in general. When she or he salutes me or similar in this period, i feel that she/he only to that because she/he NEEDS ME TO OPEN THE DOOR THAT SEPARATES THEM, nothing else. It feels that all the afecction i received is fake. That feeling destroys me, seriously.
So, you can say "neuter your dog" or "do her vasectomy"... but that's not the point. Why the sexual behavior in animals have to works like that? Why dogs can not enjoy sex whenever they wants, like primates for example? It would be nice to wake up in the morning and see my girl raising the tail and vulva for me or for my boy without being in heat (something that never happens in life: a bitch raising the tail asking for dick only happens in heat). I saw a lot of male dogs become stupids when a female in heat appears. Even i see dogs escaping from his home and returning a week later. I saw a male dog protecting a house every day, but i saw the same dog too neglect the house cause a female in heat was around: the house was stolen, for real.
Well... what's your opinions? You understand my point of view? i want to clarify, that i love my pets and i dont wanna neuter them, but when she is in heat, none of us had a good time. Thanks for reading me and i hope the text is almost "understandable".