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Was all set to meet someone off here, but he was a flake

Gsd4ever

Tourist
I talked to a guy on here for weeks. All hours of the day, lots of no face photos, etc. He had a dog who was experienced and he loved watching and getting sloppy seconds. Lot of kinks matched up for us. I was so excited! We kept planning to meet but things kept coming up- occasionally on my side, constantly on his side. He would say alright we are meeting tonight! And then I wouldn't hear from him until the following day with an excuse.

We were supposed to meet last Friday night. Last I heard was 8pm. He would normally answer my message within about 5 hours, and if we were both online then it would be a contonous chat for a while. On Saturday I messaged him "Honestly I'm starting to think you don't wanna actually meet and it's just a fantasy. If that's it, that's fine. I can start looking elsewhere for a guy and a dog and just dirty talk with you. I'm cool with that. I just wanna know if that's what it is."

I havent heard from him since. Message still isn't saying read, but I'm pretty sure he has read and he bailed after realizing I know what's going on.

I was so excited :(
 

pupwhoshaggedme

Citizen of Zooville
I'm sorry ...really sorry I know exactly what your going through.... people here are total flakes or stright fakes.....I've only ever had one great experience with meeting a fellow zoo and I'm truly hoping I can make more great connections but on so many accounts people talk themselves up then do not deliver.....or I'm cast aside without so much as a sentence because I'm male.....or if I meet a zoo they turn out to be very odd and nothing like they were online.

One day I hope things work out for you man. It will, it may take a long ass time but your luck will get better :)
 

Gsd4ever

Tourist
It's super frustrating- I wanted him to tie me down and have his dog fuck me, he fuck me afterwards, swap until my pussy is gaping and messy. Isn't that kinda the dream for a lot of guys lol
 

Bonz

Tourist

It's super frustrating- I wanted him to tie me down and have his dog fuck me, he fuck me afterwards, swap until my pussy is gaping and messy. Isn't that kinda the dream for a lot of guys lol
That is a big fantasy of mine.
 

Renegadewa1

Citizen of Zooville
I think the same thing has happened to most of us.

I had two different women seemingly crawling out of their skin to have a get together with my pup and at the last minute both seemed to get cold feet.

I think it scared them when they came to the realization that I was for real and was not going to back out.

I have had some very good meets in the past but there have been a few disappointments as well.

You just take it for what it is.
 

Gsd4ever

Tourist
I think the same thing has happened to most of us.

I had two different women seemingly crawling out of their skin to have a get together with my pup and at the last minute both seemed to get cold feet.

I think it scared them when they came to the realization that I was for real and was not going to back out.

I have had some very good meets in the past but there have been a few disappointments as well.

You just take it for what it is.
Yeah I hear you. I'm sure he is a real person with a real dog- I requested some very specific proof photos. But it's like when he realized that I'm serious he was like oh shit it's just a fantasy
 

KennelDad

Tourist
I talked to a guy on here for weeks. All hours of the day, lots of no face photos, etc. He had a dog who was experienced and he loved watching and getting sloppy seconds. Lot of kinks matched up for us. I was so excited! We kept planning to meet but things kept coming up- occasionally on my side, constantly on his side. He would say alright we are meeting tonight! And then I wouldn't hear from him until the following day with an excuse.

We were supposed to meet last Friday night. Last I heard was 8pm. He would normally answer my message within about 5 hours, and if we were both online then it would be a contonous chat for a while. On Saturday I messaged him "Honestly I'm starting to think you don't wanna actually meet and it's just a fantasy. If that's it, that's fine. I can start looking elsewhere for a guy and a dog and just dirty talk with you. I'm cool with that. I just wanna know if that's what it is."

I havent heard from him since. Message still isn't saying read, but I'm pretty sure he has read and he bailed after realizing I know what's going on.

I was so excited :(
What ever you do, don't suggest there should be some system for members to verify they are who they claim to be.
You'll be burnt at the stake for suggesting such heresy!
 

mavericksboy

Citizen of Zooville
I wish people like you were near me! I love to meet others and share the "love". I many....many....many ways! :husky_happysmile:
 

Zebby

Citizen of Zooville
It does make for an elevated level of cynicism and caution doesn't it?

Good luck for next time.
 

A-Knot-ymous

Tourist
Sorry to hear that, that must have been really frustrating. I know I'd be really disappointed if I had experienced the same thing. I hope you don't let it bother you too much though, TBH it sounds like his loss. I hope you get a chance to meet someone more genuine and have better luck next time. Wishing you luck! 😄
 

K9sully

Citizen of Zooville
He sounds like a real person with a dog and a WIFE. Probably kids, as well. Very uncool to have led you on like that. As a guy, I find that sort of deception to be a sign that you’re better off living the fantasy rather than actually meeting.
 

Reconscope

Esteemed Citizen of ZV
My goodness talk about all that wasted time you deserve better then someone leading you on then dropping you.

That kinda behavior is inexcusable. You dodged a bullet however whoever that ghoster was.

Im sure your a amazing individual you will find someone absolutely capable of doing great prolonged pleasurable activities. Based on your energy levels of how hyped you are theres no reason to be sad.
 

saddlebum66

Prized Citizen of ZV
The reality of online- generated beasty relationships is this....Very, very few people are willing to take the chance of a realtime meet. It seems most of the dwellers in this world are convinced that there are plants in the ants, ears in the woodwork and reds under the beds. The type of fear that describes is mostly ego...." of COURSE theyre all out to get ME!". Some are of course, but its likely an inverse number to the belief of most people.
The need for instant or quick gratification is a big part of the issue. It takes time to develop any relationship, but only worthwhile people will do the work. You will find people that seem interesting and interested but when challenged to meet, they tend to revert to type. Add in the incels of all stripes, the burnt out, the basement dwellers and all the other possibles, and the pool is shrunken considerably.
Still, for those who ARE willing to do the work, the rewards are sweet.
 

cbutton

Tourist
most people online are fantasy-driven. we can remain anonymous and live out our most desired and deepest fantasies without any judgement or recourse.

to the OP... live and learn, plus you get the added benefit of being female so there are no shortages of men on here that will be spamming your inbox. just take your pick from the litter. good luck with the next venture and maybe vet the new guy up front with the expectation of meeting sooner than later or move on.
 

Schuppentier

Citizen of Zooville
It's super frustrating- I wanted him to tie me down and have his dog fuck me, he fuck me afterwards, swap until my pussy is gaping and messy. Isn't that kinda the dream for a lot of guys lol

And that's the problem. If you are searching for a dream Szenario, you only get in contact with dreamers. If it soundslike it is to good, it probably is.

If you really wanna meet a zoo, the first meeting should be not about sex. If he's trying to get you with sexy pictures, and kinky promises, he's probably just a keyboard wanker, or a fake.
 
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