bearcarlos
Tourist
Since I am new to any of this outside of watching porn here and there, I want to understand something off the bat in order to be as respectful as possible to everyone in this community at large.
What attracted me the most and got interested in pursuing some of this IRL, had less to do with the animals, and more to do with my instant attraction to the women who bottom for them. I have a cum fetish and oral fixation, but I'm hetero romantic (I only have romantic relationships with women) and while I'm not physically attracted to men, I love the pleasure they give me when I bottom for them. Its all a part of my hypersexuality, and so when I see women take pig/dog/horse dick I ASSUME that they do so because they are too.
But in just a very short time of browsing on here I see that I should NOT be making this assumption. In fact it reminded me of learning about those into play with non human dildos and straps, and why those kinks exist (which I dont think would be appropriate to explain atm). Should I assume that a lot of - maybe most? all? of the women who engage in this type of play / lifestyle essentially do not prefer ANY sexual contact with human men? (absolutely NO disrespect intended if that is the case) Are there women who enjoy this type of play because of some cause of hyper sexuality? Should I not ask this? Am I overthinking it?
I ask because, well....like- i probably made half a dozen comments about wanting "sloppy seconds" after a woman is cummed in..because to me I see the act as degrading or demeaning, but the in fact the opposite! I see it as women who will go to the same extremes as I would for the same reasons as I would.
Anyways...no answer will turn me away...i got a LOT on my list of things to explore atm...but I want to be respectful navigating in the space of an established community where its probably not easy to discuss or even understand all of our desires. And ultimately I'm an ethical hedonist where I not only want everyone to experience the same sexual freedom as I do - but to make sure that my pleasure is not at the cost of another person's well being.
What attracted me the most and got interested in pursuing some of this IRL, had less to do with the animals, and more to do with my instant attraction to the women who bottom for them. I have a cum fetish and oral fixation, but I'm hetero romantic (I only have romantic relationships with women) and while I'm not physically attracted to men, I love the pleasure they give me when I bottom for them. Its all a part of my hypersexuality, and so when I see women take pig/dog/horse dick I ASSUME that they do so because they are too.
But in just a very short time of browsing on here I see that I should NOT be making this assumption. In fact it reminded me of learning about those into play with non human dildos and straps, and why those kinks exist (which I dont think would be appropriate to explain atm). Should I assume that a lot of - maybe most? all? of the women who engage in this type of play / lifestyle essentially do not prefer ANY sexual contact with human men? (absolutely NO disrespect intended if that is the case) Are there women who enjoy this type of play because of some cause of hyper sexuality? Should I not ask this? Am I overthinking it?
I ask because, well....like- i probably made half a dozen comments about wanting "sloppy seconds" after a woman is cummed in..because to me I see the act as degrading or demeaning, but the in fact the opposite! I see it as women who will go to the same extremes as I would for the same reasons as I would.
Anyways...no answer will turn me away...i got a LOT on my list of things to explore atm...but I want to be respectful navigating in the space of an established community where its probably not easy to discuss or even understand all of our desires. And ultimately I'm an ethical hedonist where I not only want everyone to experience the same sexual freedom as I do - but to make sure that my pleasure is not at the cost of another person's well being.
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