You two really need to actually talk about these feelings if you or him are having them.
Humans and dogs are a different experience. It's okay to have your preferences, but it's only going to lead to animosity if you leave it unaddressed. When everything is out in the open is also the time when you can then work together to see how you can both have the best time possible.
The answer to pretty much every relationship question is always going to be "Talk to your partner." It's not always easy, but it's always valuable and worth it in the end.