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Question about meeting someone

bottom4lover

bottom4lover

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i apologize for asking i am sure this question has been asked before many times. i am currently chatting with someone that seems very nice and we seem to be compatible. Without breaking any rules and also safety consideration what recommendations do you have for sharing contact information ?
 
Either a secure email account or secure messaging app. If you decide to meet in person, and think very carefully before doing so, always meet in a busy public place initially. JMHO of course and if against any rules then apologies and please delete.
 
Don't share anything you aren't entirely comfortable sharing. If possible, meet with them in person at a neutral (public, not closely tied to either of your lives) location before exchanging identifiable information. A good show of trust for each of you is to exchange first names so you can put a real name to the person you are talking to.

If all goes well and you both feel comfortable (hopefully once you have met in person) exchanging things like phone numbers can happen. It pays to be wary, but undue fear will keep you from meeting someone that could become very meaningful to you. Just be cautious and make sure the other person knows that you want to get to know them, but that you also need to balance that with the need for security, both yours and theirs.
 
Like most others have already said, yours and their safety should be top priority. Meeting for lunch, or at a public park, or a mall are always good choices. And you can usually tell after a few minutes of conversation if intentions are honorable or not. If they are equally as nervous or jittery as you, then it's a pretty good sign they are legit. If they are overly confident and extra reassuring that everything will be fine and really push you to meet somewhere private first, then I'd be hesitant to meet up.
Additionally, every one will struggle with cold feet, and if that happens, try not to get too upset over it, let everyone regather their composer and try again.
 
raks said:
Like most others have already said, yours and their safety should be top priority. Meeting for lunch, or at a public park, or a mall are always good choices. And you can usually tell after a few minutes of conversation if intentions are honorable or not. If they are equally as nervous or jittery as you, then it's a pretty good sign they are legit. If they are overly confident and extra reassuring that everything will be fine and really push you to meet somewhere private first, then I'd be hesitant to meet up.
Additionally, every one will struggle with cold feet, and if that happens, try not to get too upset over it, let everyone regather their composer and try again.
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thank you what is a safe way to chat first ?
 
I've used Riot since you can sign up a secure email. Discord is a little iffy. And telegram you can use a google voice number to sign up
I ended up ditching telegram until I can figure out how to keep it more secure on my phone since it doesn't look like there is a way to log out perse
I've enjoyed using Riot so far
 
raks said:
I've used Riot since you can sign up a secure email. Discord is a little iffy. And telegram you can use a google voice number to sign up
I ended up ditching telegram until I can figure out how to keep it more secure on my phone since it doesn't look like there is a way to log out perse
I've enjoyed using Riot so far
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thank you !
 
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