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PLEASE HELP @CetaceanLover23! He is getting kicked out by his parents in few days

LeoHusky01

Citizen of Zooville
He is getting kicked out by his parents in few days and has no where to go. I hope someone in that lives in Morgan hill or the bay area could give him a place to stay for while until he gets back up on his feet. Please help my boyfriend. Your kindness will be greatly appreciated. If you want to help him, message him personally.
 
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If you can't help, please contact people you know that live in the bay area who might have an extra room, and will be willing to let my boyfriend stay for while. Please I don't want him to be homeless ?
 
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He has up till either Wednesday or Thursday to find a place to stay before he is homeless. Please help him if you can
 
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If I was in that situation I would hope for the best but prepare for the worst.

If he has a vehicle, have him get a tent and other camping gear, the eccetials..food water ect.

Yea the situation sucks but this will be a time of character change and trials.

It will be tougher and easier at the same time. Yea he won't have a room, but he won't have his parents breathing down his neck either.

Honestly it would give me the drive t9 survive I think.. If for nothing other than pissing my parents off and show them I don't need you, and now they can fuck off.

I can't help except for some knowledge I can give to help live off grid.
 
I was homeless for a while, and it was the most free that I had ever felt up until that point. It is not as good as having a steady job and roommates that are not insane or on drugs, but if you have spent most of your life, up to that point, under the thumb of oppressive parents, it is like coming awake.

Homelessness is not the end of the world but for many young people a beginning, and while it is stressful, it usually only lasts a few weeks to a couple of months.

Tell him, take any work he can get, and take any roommates that are not mentally unhinged junkies.

Keep good relations with cops. In fact, it might be beneficial to go straight to the police station, and tell them outright, "My parents just kicked me out, and I really have no idea what to do, at this point." The cops deal with this shit all the time. They are used to it and unsurprised by it. They could tell him where he is allowed to go and what he is allowed to do that would not get him in trouble. If you are homeless, always cooperate with cops and keep open communication with them. Tell them even if you are hungry or feeling pain or just lonely. They do a lot of services besides arresting people, but they are also friends and liaisons to the community if you let them be.

If you are feeling hungry enough that you are literally getting sick like getting weird symptoms you did not know were even possible, check into an ER. They have to take you if you are seriously sick.

When I cut loose from my parents, I will not lie: it was during the 2007-2009 recession, and it was pretty crazy trying to survive during that without any support. I righted myself fully only by 2010 if you count times when I was with toxic and mentally ill roomies I never felt safe around as still being "homeless." I was paying those insane people for a room I was terrified to sleep in. Just because you are paying somebody for the privilege of being there does not mean that you are better off than you were on the street. FYI roommates that are crazy really are worse than nothing.

If your boyfriend stays in a homeless shelter for any length of time, he needs to document it. This can be used as grounds for getting treated as "independent" for purposes of financial aid for college, and if he can enroll in an institution with cheap on campus housing, I think college loans will still pay for all or most of it. It's better than nothing if he can stand living in a concrete room the size of a horse stall that smells like alcohol. The cheap dorms really suck, and you should really consider getting a job and trying to get something better if you have to stay in one. If he felt he was out of alternatives, that is one route, although having a job and a better place to stay is smarter if he can swing it. Even if he does not want to do this right away, he must save all documentation of everything, always. Records are your friend if you have essentially honest motives. Records are literally more important to you than clothing.

Make sure he gets his social security card. If his parents can't find it, he should kick their ass.

Good luck to him.
 
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Listen to this guy! HE had the situation that your friend is going to face right now. The best and most honest advice right there and i'd suggest you take it! Good luck to both of you for this crisis.

And kudos to you SigmatoZeta.
My boyfriend has read it
 
I honestly hope that he would consider trying to enroll in a university. In his area, this is the smart way to deal with a situation of being young and homeless. It makes the transition out of one's parents' custody a lot easier.

The last day of the year to submit a FAFSA form is June 30 if he wants to try to enroll in a college and get aid. I think the state of California might actually have generous grants for college students, and if that is the case, then he might be able to enroll in an engineering or IT program at a local university. If he can get a degree from any institution in the Bay Area, even a technical college, he's probably employable in most parts of the world after that.

Again, you have to escape that "dependent student" designation. It exists because there are actually tax deductions for dependents that are worth about the same as the grants you can get in most states, so it's not that the government doesn't want to help just because you are young. They just assume that the best way to help you is to give your mom and dad a tax-deduction if they need it. The only way they know that your mom and dad have really genuinely fucked up is if you get documentation anytime you have to stay in a homeless shelter for any length of time, and it is clear that you cannot even rely on them for a place to wash your clothes. You go to the financial aid office at any college, and you keep hanging out there until they let you talk to an administrator that can help line you up with a dependent status exemption. Once they have realized how perilous your situation is, they will walk you through it. They only know you are telling the truth and not just high if you have documentation stating that you have been having to stay at shelters.

I am going to say that California tends to have superior higher education grants to most other states, and after textbooks and classes, he would probably be able to earn enough working weekends to pay for a single room. If he were living in Bumfuck County, Mississippi, then I would have to tell him he was looking at having to apply for subsidized loans, which are a pain in the donkey to pay off, but we are not talking about Bumfuck County, Mississippi. We are talking about the Bay Area, California, and they actually fund their education system, there. A good degree from a college, tech school, or university there would be more than adequate to get him into a comfortable apartment and a used Tesla.

As with everything else he ever tries to do, his health and possibly his life depend on him hanging onto everything he gets anywhere that is printed on paper, or if it is stored digitally in the cloud, he needs to know where in the cloud to find it. He needs to know that he must never lose track of any documents. If he does not feel confident about his ability to keep them safe while on the street, then he must find a friend or relative that can hang onto those documents for him. It's no big deal if he is naked: he is in the Bay Area, man. People go naked there for fun. If he wants to, he can spend the entire summer living naked in the trees and eating fruit like a primitive animal. People have done that, while tripping acid. Not having access to important documents is literally worse than being bare ass naked. This is the most important lesson that a young person should ever learn. He must know to hang onto them, and keep them safe. It can take you several weeks and no end of running around from one place to another to get them replaced, and you can't really do much of anything until you have them.

I honestly and truly hope that getting enrolled in a college fast is an option for him. If he can get enrolled in a college, then he can sleep in a public park and pretend he's in summer camp or something while waiting for move-in day at the dorm. If he can get that dependent student status exemption, then there is a lot of money in grants waiting for him, and that plus a weekend job can actually pay for a very good quality of life. He just has to get documentation anytime he stays in a homeless shelter or has any other interactions with society that are related to him being homeless, such as getting arrested for vagrancy for falling asleep in the wrong place.

On documents, here's one thing: sometimes, police do arrest people for petty and stupid reasons if you are homeless, but if they do, they are really helping you if you are college age. Judges almost always throw those cases out, and that just leaves the police report that acts as evidence that someone is not actually able to get adequate shelter. It's one more document that you could take to financial aid to get around that dependent status. The thing to do is find out how to get access to the police report, and ask for printouts.

All documents, including receipts, are important. Sometimes, a financial aid administrator is in hot water for allowing too many exemptions that turned out to be phony, but if someone comes with a pile of papers that include police reports, printouts from homeless shelters, receipts from food banks and thrift stores, and any other evidence you can bring that shows you are seriously, not kidding around, not able to rely on your parents for jack shit if your life depended on it, it gives the financial aid administrator a shield to say, "this one was real." That person can get in serious trouble for letting too many phony exemptions get claimed. You have to do anything you can to help protect that person. This is really true for getting anything done. Financial aid exemptions are only one example. Everything you do in your entire life goes easier if you keep documents handy.
 
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I am talking to a friend that lives near the Bay Area. He says that San Jose probably has the most options for someone in his situation if he can get there.
 
Is it wrong to wish this virus on these jerkwads who abandon their own? Thats how i feel. This thought just came up considering theres a pandemic happening
 
I'm not sure if this will be helpful and I'm not a lawyer but I think you have legal rights to stay in your parents house until your evicted or emancipated. That might give you time to look for a job. You could always call the cops if they are refusing you let you enter the house or if your under 18 years old and they are refusing to support you with food and essentials.
Legal action is being taken
 
It is meaningful that the support of other zoos may have eased this person's transition into adult life. I hope that this will leave him informed that there is a community out there that genuinely has his back.
 
It is meaningful that the support of other zoos may have eased this person's transition into adult life. I hope that this will leave him informed that there is a community out there that genuinely has his back.
Hopefully the zoo community will continue to help and support each other
 
Hopefully the zoo community will continue to help and support each other
And themselves. I would lean on him to get all of the paperwork he can that is related to this legal action. He could get benefits from the government that can help him transition into living independently. Vocational rehabilitation, temporary housing, and many other things that can get him quickly to a place in life where he never has to depend on others again. He deserves to have a great career that he believes in and a lifestyle he is comfortable with.
 
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And themselves. I would lean on him to get all of the paperwork he can that is related to this legal action. He could get benefits from the government that can help him transition into living independently. Vocational rehabilitation, temporary housing, and many other things that can get him quickly to a place in life where he never has to depend on others again. He deserves to have a great career that he believes in and a lifestyle he us comfortable with.
I will always support him and make sure he gets through this. I agree that he does deserve an amazing career, he is one of the nicest humans I have ever met
 
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