Gay male, In my 60s now, started when I was about 8. I grew up in farming country plus back then dogs in the neighborhood roamed freely. So it was inevitable! Dogs helped me figure out what my own bits did as I grew, and friends helped me make connections.
Then lots of fun with our family dog and many frustrated attempts with geldings because I had no clue about such things!
I’ve had many relationships with people (men and women) where I’ve always been very open about my experiences. It’s always just seemed natural and normal and private.
Lately I’ve been surprised at how many guys want to experience this lifestyle. I don’t know if it’s because people are more open nowadays or I’m just hanging out with a different crowd, but when I chat online to guys about the subject, I don’t find a single person with any real experience.
I find that strange, but I suspect the very fact that I find that strange should be a warning to myself that this is still a very forbidden thing. Which is weird.
For those much younger than I, back in the 1970s women having sex with dogs was a popular humorous in-joke in adult magazines. You could easily buy trashy paperbacks (Greenleaf) with it as the main story arc. I remember as a teenager going into an adult book store and rummaging around in their paperbacks section to find such stories. I amassed a large collection of those and other family titles (another area that used to be considered slightly off-beat but easily obtainable legally in adult book stores back then). Laws change, mores change, and we have to stay abreast of what’s acceptable.
So the reason I’m here after all these years is because I was again chatting online with someone who could only express his fantasies, and he pointed me to this forum. So I thought it would be nice to chat and share experiences with the community that I’ve always been part of but never thought to find.
I also have a not-so-hidden agenda to find a very dear old friend from around 1997 in NZ. Also was a well known nifty.org author and a great host. I suspect he’s lurking here somewhere!
Peace and feel free to ask me about the distant past, growing up in rural heaven, and any of the decades of partnerships and companions I’ve been lucky enough to be part of.