Nerdy questions, wanting to learn from other's experiences

zoofanm41

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Hello everyone. This is such a great community, I've been on other beast forums before but never have I found such a great mix of people! I've been lurking and now ready to interact more and learn from all you amazing people. I'm the male half of a M/F couple and very interested in learning from the experiences of others. The goal is to help my female partner eventually experience a little k9 love. I'm here to read, interact, learn and be supportive. I'm also looking for new friends, people who would be willing to share more about their experiences, preferences, tips and tricks, things like that. Even better if you don't mind some nerdy questions from an eternally curious person like myself. So please do reach out, lets connect and chat. I promise I won't make things weird, I'm not the typical "guy" here. I can share a bit more about us in chat as well, discreetly of course. So don't be afraid to say hello, I'm looking forward to getting to know some of you and engaging more in beast/sexuality topics as we move forward.

If I had to leave everyone with a question for group discussion - I suppose it would be this. What do you folks make of content online of females with a male k9 where its very mechanical. The woman stays quiet, doesn't show any signs of obvious enjoyment/pleasure. Do you think those are abusive, inappropriate or otherwise wrong somehow? I feel like it might be those are women who aren't really into zoo and perhaps got forced into trying it somehow. Just curious what you all think. I much prefer seeing a woman enjoying her k9 lover, getting caught up in the pleasure of the moment and really getting into it. My favorite is the ones where the woman is very submissive and gets into that sub headspace - beyond just the physical intensity/pleasure of the experience.
 
why is your "goal" to make your partner do something for you? you're just a voyeur or something?

i don't really have an answer to your online content question. i'm more into doing things with my partners myself, tho sometimes they're not in the mood or i just want to sit down and jerk off. i don't watch m/f stuff (i find human vaginas kinda repulsive), i watch m/m stuff pretty much exclusively. seems a lot less plagued by "commercial porn crap" like fake cum, dildogging, obviously disinterested participants (the animal, the human or both in some cases) etc
 
why is your "goal" to make your partner do something for you? you're just a voyeur or something?

i don't really have an answer to your online content question. i'm more into doing things with my partners myself, tho sometimes they're not in the mood or i just want to sit down and jerk off. i don't watch m/f stuff (i find human vaginas kinda repulsive), i watch m/m stuff pretty much exclusively. seems a lot less plagued by "commercial porn crap" like fake cum, dildogging, obviously disinterested participants (the animal, the human or both in some cases) etc
I never used the word “make” - you injected that.

Thanks for sharing your perspective
 
I never used the word “make” - you injected that.

Thanks for sharing your perspective
okay, why is your goal "helping" your female partner getting some k9 love? or to be a tad more specific, why isn't she looking for that help herself? she does know she wants to do this eventually, doesn't she?
 
If I had to leave everyone with a question for group discussion - I suppose it would be this. What do you folks make of content online of females with a male k9 where its very mechanical. The woman stays quiet, doesn't show any signs of obvious enjoyment/pleasure. Do you think those are abusive, inappropriate or otherwise wrong somehow? I feel like it might be those are women who aren't really into zoo and perhaps got forced into trying it somehow. Just curious what you all think. I much prefer seeing a woman enjoying her k9 lover, getting caught up in the pleasure of the moment and really getting into it. My favorite is the ones where the woman is very submissive and gets into that sub headspace - beyond just the physical intensity/pleasure of the experience.
You are probably right that some women are coerced into doing porn or forced by seeing no other way to get out of financial trouble. But then I can also imagine that some who do it for the first time are more camera shy than they thought and get nervous. Keep in mind that the situation in porn production isn't exactly romantic. You've often got at least one guy, maybe more, in the room, who stick cameras and lights near you and may be more or less professional about it. And then even if you are into dogs, you may not really have much time to get to know that dog and build an intimate connection beforehand. Porn actresses do a job, it isn't a honeymoon.
 
Hello everyone. This is such a great community, I've been on other beast forums before but never have I found such a great mix of people! I've been lurking and now ready to interact more and learn from all you amazing people. I'm the male half of a M/F couple and very interested in learning from the experiences of others. The goal is to help my female partner eventually experience a little k9 love. I'm here to read, interact, learn and be supportive. I'm also looking for new friends, people who would be willing to share more about their experiences, preferences, tips and tricks, things like that. Even better if you don't mind some nerdy questions from an eternally curious person like myself. So please do reach out, lets connect and chat. I promise I won't make things weird, I'm not the typical "guy" here. I can share a bit more about us in chat as well, discreetly of course. So don't be afraid to say hello, I'm looking forward to getting to know some of you and engaging more in beast/sexuality topics as we move forward.

If I had to leave everyone with a question for group discussion - I suppose it would be this. What do you folks make of content online of females with a male k9 where its very mechanical. The woman stays quiet, doesn't show any signs of obvious enjoyment/pleasure. Do you think those are abusive, inappropriate or otherwise wrong somehow? I feel like it might be those are women who aren't really into zoo and perhaps got forced into trying it somehow. Just curious what you all think. I much prefer seeing a woman enjoying her k9 lover, getting caught up in the pleasure of the moment and really getting into it. My favorite is the ones where the woman is very submissive and gets into that sub headspace - beyond just the physical intensity/pleasure of the experience.

Many women do it (initially) for the sake of their partner. I hope your wife doesn't do it just for you. Then she might look like that too.
 
So far all of the responses have completed missed or ignored the point of my post. I am not forcing my female partner into anything, I am not coercing her, she is interested on her own. Please move on and abandon the false assumptions that were made earlier. Calling out incorrect assumptions and baseless assertions from other forum posters is NOT the equivalent to being sensitive. Happy to discuss/interact with anyone who wants to actually engage with the original spirit of this thread. Otherwise I will not be responding to any further trolling.
 
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So far all of the responses have completed missed or ignored the point of my post. I am not forcing my female partner into anything, I am not coercing her, she is interested on her own. Please move on and abandon the false assumptions that were made earlier.
Someone is sensitive!
But if you are already so sensitive, it is already surprising when a guy always asks for his wife! Does she have no computer, no fingers to type?
 
If she has an interest, she can come ask her own questions. Or does that put the whole scenario outside your control? You want something from HER that you aren't interested in doing yourself( Heaven Forfend!)....but we have only your word that youre not one of" those guys"....What guys do you mean? The other hundred and ninety two thousand that come here "asking for the wife"?........She wants answers? Fine. Let her do the asking. Its her bottom half thats on the line, you say. What will be your investment? Popping the Corn?
 
"you're just trolling me" card, yay!

nah man, we are not. we're genuinely concerned for your significant other. lots of "i want a zoo wife"/"i want her to do a thing for me and just watch" folk joining on a daily basis. so far, you're ticking off all the flags. like it or not, it makes the assumption of you being "just another one" not at all baseless.
 
"you're just trolling me" card, yay!

nah man, we are not. we're genuinely concerned for your significant other. lots of "i want a zoo wife"/"i want her to do a thing for me and just watch" folk joining on a daily basis. so far, you're ticking off all the flags. like it or not, it makes the assumption of you being "just another one" not at all baseless.

For a community that already has to deal with a ton of shit from the masses, I'd think we'd be a little more sensitive and not jump to such rash conclusions on each other. Nothing from the initial posts sceams at me that they're forcing their partner into any kind of situation, and these remarks are simply rude and unnecessary. We're a niche community as it is, and this guy came over innocently to ask for advice. Is this really how we should be treating him?
 
For a community that already has to deal with a ton of shit from the masses, I'd think we'd be a little more sensitive and not jump to such rash conclusions on each other. Nothing from the initial posts sceams at me that they're forcing their partner into any kind of situation, and these remarks are simply rude and unnecessary. We're a niche community as it is, and this guy came over innocently to ask for advice. Is this really how we should be treating him?
do notice how he never answered the initial "why is XY your goal?" and tell me again how is he not at all suspicious, please.
 
do notice how he never answered the initial "why is XY your goal?" and tell me again how is he not at all suspicious, please.

That doesn't prove anything. As he mentioned, very few even addressed the questions he was asking, and just jumped on him for not having his partner initiate the conversation. Given the treatment he's getting, I can't say I blame him. If I had significant other of my own, I don't know if I'd point him here for advice with these kind of responses.
 
That doesn't prove anything. As he mentioned, very few even addressed the questions he was asking, and just jumped on him for not having his partner initiate the conversation. Given the treatment he's getting, I can't say I blame him.
no one says it proves anything, it's just shady.

If I had significant other of my own, I don't know if I'd point him here for advice with these kind of responses.
and that's the thing you seem to be ignoring... the theoretical significant other would not be getting any responses like these since they'd be asking the questions themselves. that's the fishy part about this individual. as is shoving questions aside with "you're just trolling anyway"
 
that's the fishy part about this individual. as is shoving questions aside with "you're just trolling anyway"

Well, you guys are harassing him. What do you expect? This doesn't seem like a very friendly welcome to someone that's asked innocent-enough questions. Why would he explain himself to a hostile crowd?
 
His partner might also be more shy than him, and while comfortable sharing that kind of things with her significant other, she might not be as much asking a crowd of stranger, and admitting her kink to a whole community.
It could also be that she shared an interest in trying bestiality, and that her partner want to learn more about it to give her a surprise, while keeping it safe and enjoyable for her.

I understand that it can look shady, but it isn't necessarily. Some people trust their other half enough to lead to that kind of scenario.
 
Trust is what it is. Assuming ANYTHING in this little hobby is pretty foolish. More....some of us have been seeing this scenario for 20-30 years....many of you
" defenders of the faith" weren't born yet. The OP COULD be legit....if so, why doesn't his inquiring mind get him reading first, and then asking questions? No adult should ask to be or require being spoon fed answers that are already there. 25 minutes of reading might have answered all his queries( or hers).....or at least made him realize that perhaps his questions have no easy answers. Would you, any if you, offer a four year old a loaded gun? We here have no control over what happens if we answer and the OP applies the knowledge badly. She gets hurt, the dog gets removed by animal control, He gets arrested....HOW will we know what happened? This is not a game, and hurt and damage can be done. End of the lesson....use it as you will
 
Maybe you've seen this scenario crop up hundreds of times over the course of decades, but jumping the gun without any conclusive evidence is just as harmful as the things you're implying of him. Everyone is free to seek out information in whatever way they choose, whether that be by reading through existing guides, or seeking a chat from users on the forum. I don't think anything he's done deserves this harsh criticism, and rather than blaming me for having a lack of experience dealing with these kinds of individuals that you claim them to be, maybe it's a bad idea to immediately be so jaded towards a user that is merely expressing curiosity about a subject he's not experienced in.
 
I have to agree with @Zenaris. This is a pretty terrible way to welcome someone to our community, and more so considering he complimented it too. Is it really so hard to imagine that he’s interested in learning to better please his SO or to prevent hurting his SO or the dog involved? Every relationship is different, and we don’t know, nor can we assume the dynamic they have and it’s rude to do so. His reasons are irrelevant. It’s not shady or sketchy. He’s simply looking to connect with more experienced people to learn. That’s all. Maybes he likes me, where a “one size fits all” guide doesn’t answer all of your questions, or you prefer real experiences to something somebody wrote. The guides were of absolutely 0 help to me when it came to my shepherd. It was reaching out to different members and learning the things they did and have to overcome that worked for me.
 
So far all of the responses have completed missed or ignored the point of my post. I am not forcing my female partner into anything, I am not coercing her, she is interested on her own. Please move on and abandon the false assumptions that were made earlier. Calling out incorrect assumptions and baseless assertions from other forum posters is NOT the equivalent to being sensitive. Happy to discuss/interact with anyone who wants to actually engage with the original spirit of this thread. Otherwise I will not be responding to any further trolling.
How did I miss or ignore the point of your post?
 
That doesn't prove anything. As he mentioned, very few even addressed the questions he was asking, and just jumped on him for not having his partner initiate the conversation. Given the treatment he's getting, I can't say I blame him. If I had significant other of my own, I don't know if I'd point him here for advice with these kind of responses.
who is pouncing on him? all answers were factual and he will have his reasons for his sensitivity! keep your feet on the ground.
 
Well, you guys are harassing him. What do you expect? This doesn't seem like a very friendly welcome to someone that's asked innocent-enough questions. Why would he explain himself to a hostile crowd?
care to elaborate how is a simple question harassment?
 
What? Asking justified questions is tactless and insulting? Oops, now i'm being tactless again because i'm asking. Let it go! this is really too stupid for me. :rolleyes:

All you're doing is showing more and more how disrespectful you're capable of being, and completely unwarranted, too. Remember, this guy said from the beginning he was new to the community, and however he and his significant other choose to approach this community for information is their decision. Pressuring him to put his partner here (which she might not even be comfortable with) is just presumptuous and rude.

I don't expect to ever get through to you though. We'll likely just have this back and forth ad infinitum, and only detract from the point of the OP's post, so I'm going to stop here and drop my input entirely.

And to the OP: I'm sorry that some of the users decided to attack you like this. Don't let them discourage you though. I appreciate that you took the chance to reach out and try to learn more about the community, and I hope you find the answers you're looking for.
 
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