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Rhino27xxx

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So i am having problems in my mind about liking what i like. Meaning i like zoophilia porn or bestiality porn. Well i struggle and fight myslelf in my head everyday about what it is that i not necessarily do but things i look up. How do i find peace in my mind with what i like? I have been into this stuff for about 10 years now and at 1 time i was at peace with myself. Now for about the last year i have started to have a sorta side of depression from what i like. I am starting to feel a sorta bit of guilt i guess... Maybe anyone can help me sort things out in my mind. And before anyone asks this is not a person crying or wishing not, but just trying to sort things out maybe for the better or who knows. Thanks in advance. Also ive been a lurker here for about 5 months so im not going anywhere. PS: not sure where to post this as this is my first time posting. Thanks again!. Also ill check about once a day maybe every other day or so.
 
What gunslinger said above. If you're going to judge yourself based on what you perceive everyone else deems moral you're gonna have a bad time. I should also say that lots of other people (probably everyone) have kinks that they most likely judge themselves on too just like you are.

You just have to accept this is who you are and what you are into.
 
Gunslinger1X said:
Look mate, you either need to find a way to accept yourself, or remain miserable.

Preconceived notions about the morality are nothing more than someone else dictating how we should feel and live.
Fuck that, be who you are and be happy with it else you'll never enjoy life.
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That's easier said than done!
 
Rhino27xxx said:
So i am having problems in my mind about liking what i like. Meaning i like zoophilia porn or bestiality porn. Well i struggle and fight myslelf in my head everyday about what it is that i not necessarily do but things i look up. How do i find peace in my mind with what i like? I have been into this stuff for about 10 years now and at 1 time i was at peace with myself. Now for about the last year i have started to have a sorta side of depression from what i like. I am starting to feel a sorta bit of guilt i guess... Maybe anyone can help me sort things out in my mind. And before anyone asks this is not a person crying or wishing not, but just trying to sort things out maybe for the better or who knows. Thanks in advance. Also ive been a lurker here for about 5 months so im not going anywhere. PS: not sure where to post this as this is my first time posting. Thanks again!. Also ill check about once a day maybe every other day or so.
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What are your religious leanings? I ask because it takes some very strong leverage to force people into a Jimmy Carter styled "I sinned in my mind." Most understand that fantasy is exactly that, not the same thing at all as real world action. Look at the number of people killed every night in the TV universe and not a single murder charge.

"How do i find peace in my mind with what i like?" You start by accepting that there is a difference between thinking about something and doing it. 90% of the people on this site just watch, that's all.
 
caikgoch said:
What are your religious leanings? I ask because it takes some very strong leverage to force people into a Jimmy Carter styled "I sinned in my mind." Most understand that fantasy is exactly that, not the same thing at all as real world action. Look at the number of people killed every night in the TV universe and not a single murder charge.

"How do i find peace in my mind with what i like?" You start by accepting that there is a difference between thinking about something and doing it. 90% of the people on this site just watch, that's all.
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Thank you for your reply! Was once a christian now not so much, for religiin i really dont have a preference anymore. I sorta lean more on the side of atheist. Hence i say aorta lean more as i stilo have things on lets say baco burners waiting to die down and move out. Still sorta wonder a little bit though as it was once burned inti my mind the whole religion thing. Also i see what you say about murder and all that charges never happening. I must say with everything i am not innocent with saying just watching, but that was a long time ago now. Sometimes i guess my worst enemy is my own mind. I tend to let it wander a little to far. Thanks again for your perspective ill shall keep it in mind.
 
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Gunslinger1X said:
Look mate, you either need to find a way to accept yourself, or remain miserable.

Preconceived notions about the morality are nothing more than someone else dictating how we should feel and live.
Fuck that, be who you are and be happy with it else you'll never enjoy life.
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You know your right! I guess i am a little scared for others to find out. But still try my best to hide it. I knew this was the right place to post about my problems as there are others at where i wish to be at in my mind! Thanks again! You may have mived mountians with me! What is right and wrong there really is no such thing just whats in the mind!
 
Rhino27xxx said:
You know your right! I guess i am a little scared for others to find out. But still try my best to hide it. I knew this was the right place to post about my problems as there are others at where i wish to be at in my mind! Thanks again! You may have mived mountians with me! What is right and wrong there really is no such thing just whats in the mind!
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Remember the inly acceptance you will ever need is from yourself
 
Thank you also. It was hard for me to even post this here and open up. I never post anything to do with this sorta stuff about myself anywhere ever! Was a big step for self acceptance for me today!
 
Keaden said:
What gunslinger said above. If you're going to judge yourself based on what you perceive everyone else deems moral you're gonna have a bad time. I should also say that lots of other people (probably everyone) have kinks that they most likely judge themselves on too just like you are.

You just have to accept this is who you are and what you are into.
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You know just reading these comments from you guys telling me about self acceptance has helped more than you guys will ever know! Its true thinking about what others think how things should be i guess maybe for them but its just an opinion fron thier side. Thanks for your reply. Really thank you!
 
Can you get allergies from your dog.
My wife got allergies after playing and penetrating the dog.
And we don't know now whether from the dog or the bath products.
And one more thing in the movies, all dogs are calm during intercourse, they stand playfully and ours behaves like crazy. Do they add any sedatives to dogs when they make movies? Ours is a normal madman, he will not stand still for a moment.
 
geronimo78 said:
Can you get allergies from your dog.
My wife got allergies after playing and penetrating the dog.
And we don't know now whether from the dog or the bath products.
And one more thing in the movies, all dogs are calm during intercourse, they stand playfully and ours behaves like crazy. Do they add any sedatives to dogs when they make movies? Ours is a normal madman, he will not stand still for a moment.
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Why ask this here? Try here: https://www.zoovilleforum.net/forums/how-tos-and-educational.10/
 
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