My own personal labia survey

KnottyAbbeyV

KnottyAbbeyV

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This has been on my mind for a long time. It's no secret that I have long labia. Watching a lot of amateur women and professional models......more than I expected........I've seen more women with longer labia into this lifestyle. I'm curious if they chose it because of judgement of their labia in a "normal" swinger or open lifestyle and we all know K9's don't judge or if their labia wasn't a consideration and they just like to be kinky as fuck.
 
Honestly, a lot of guys -and girls- LOVE long labia. I don’t think longer labia ladies skew toward k9 sex for the lack of judgement from their k9 partners. The reason LLL seem to be so well represented in the lifestyle? Fluke? Also, as I’m sure you know better than me, arousal will lead to some plumping up of the vagina and labia. Maybe you’re just seeing women in k9 vids who are in a heightened state of arousal. Hence the appearance of longer labia.

On the other hand, I’m just a dude, so my opinions should be taken with a grain of salt.
 
Jim1085 said:
Honestly, a lot of guys -and girls- LOVE long labia. I don’t think longer labia ladies skew toward k9 sex for the lack of judgement from their k9 partners. The reason LLL seem to be so well represented in the lifestyle? Fluke? Also, as I’m sure you know better than me, arousal will lead to some plumping up of the vagina and labia. Maybe you’re just seeing women in k9 vids who are in a heightened state of arousal. Hence the appearance of longer labia.

On the other hand, I’m just a dude, so my opinions should be taken with a grain of salt.
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Since I didn't specify I wanted opinions from a specific gender , I'm taking your opinion seriously. I only have my point of view to see things and of course I'm biased because I have long labia. So appreciate all points of view
 
KnottyAbbeyV said:
Since I didn't specify I wanted opinions from a specific gender , I'm taking your opinion seriously. I only have my point of view to see things and of course I'm biased because I have long labia. So appreciate all points of view
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Have you ever felt self conscious about your labia? I’ve heard women say that before and it baffles me. Longer labia are so much more fun to play with.

Again: one man’s opinion.
 
Jim1085 said:
Have you ever felt self conscious about your labia? I’ve heard women say that before and it baffles me. Longer labia are so much more fun to play with.

Again: one man’s opinion.
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Of course I have. I still do. I grew up surrounded by girls that did have a vagina like mine. If they did have long labia they sure didn't say anything. I got all the same ridicule about them. The myths about having a lot of sex stretching them out so I must be a whore.....blah blah blah........chicken gizzard lips. Beef curtains, piss flaps, roast beef lips. All of those. I still hear some of those sometimes and it bothers me but I get more positive attention about them now that I'm older. Benefits of being a cougar I guess lol
 
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Off of your topic a bit but the younger generation is not embracing long labia as you call it. There is a trend, you might have seen it on Tiktok, where young girls are having what they call the "roast beef" surgery. It's some kind of cosmetic procedure where they reshape or cut your labia. The goal is that girls want a more uniform, slender looking vagina. The videos were very popular for a while about a year ago, with some discussion of it in the news media. Seems to just be the younger generation and I don't know if it's a fad or something that will be around for a while.

Me personally, I've been with women of all shapes and sizes of vaginas and it's all good as long as she is clean. I have no preference for or against.
 
Dgordon22 said:
Off of your topic a bit but the younger generation is not embracing long labia as you call it. There is a trend, you might have seen it on Tiktok, where young girls are having what they call the "roast beef" surgery. It's some kind of cosmetic procedure where they reshape or cut your labia. The goal is that girls want a more uniform, slender looking vagina. The videos were very popular for a while about a year ago, with some discussion of it in the news media. Seems to just be the younger generation and I don't know if it's a fad or something that will be around for a while.

Me personally, I've been with women of all shapes and sizes of vaginas and it's all good as long as she is clean. I have no preference for or against.
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It was thing when I was younger too. My mother was so concerned about my labia that she actually made an appointment for me to have mine "reshaped". The fear of taking something away that was truly mine and part of my body was terrifying. There is a small part of me that has wondered how my life would be if I went to that appointment but I am happy I didn't.
 
I dont think thats a true correlation, and probably represents the statistical diversity of inner and outer lip variations. Us Guys have our own body and penis hangups and once you leave studio porn and get to homemade stuff, you really see the diversity. It is maybe a detection bias: maybe since larger labia is on your mind you pay attention more. Keep in mind the small sample size-and the fact that being stretched in a session can pout lips more . My last gf was not into zoo but had quite large clit and inner lips. An ex gf who confessed getting oral from her dog as a teen (we had an attempt at dog mounting with her rottie but he was not interested) didn't have comparatively larger lips than others. I never realized women had lip envy until I had a conversation with an ex neighbor of mine who felt self conscious because hers was bigger than her girlfriends. I did my best to tell her that guys dont have this view and she should never worry about that. I also told her we have issues with our that women dont care about.

As a single , eligible bachelor, ladies..please ignore you peers or gfs!. Us guys dont care about that. Honestly if the attraction/chemistry is there and I feel you are really interested in me..thats all I care about. I have been with tall, short, lean/athletic, curvy..big tit, small tit, bigger lips, smaller lips. IN every case I enjoyed the pursuit, romance and coupling-thats really all that matters.
Love your body--we do
 
zulu said:
I dont think thats a true correlation, and probably represents the statistical diversity of inner and outer lip variations. Us Guys have our own body and penis hangups and once you leave studio porn and get to homemade stuff, you really see the diversity. It is maybe a detection bias: maybe since larger labia is on your mind you pay attention more. Keep in mind the small sample size-and the fact that being stretched in a session can pout lips more . My last gf was not into zoo but had quite large clit and inner lips. An ex gf who confessed getting oral from her dog as a teen (we had an attempt at dog mounting with her rottie but he was not interested) didn't have comparatively larger lips than others. I never realized women had lip envy until I had a conversation with an ex neighbor of mine who felt self conscious because hers was bigger than her girlfriends. I did my best to tell her that guys dont have this view and she should never worry about that. I also told her we have issues with our that women dont care about.

As a single , eligible bachelor, ladies..please ignore you peers or gfs!. Us guys dont care about that. Honestly if the attraction/chemistry is there and I feel you are really interested in me..thats all I care about. I have been with tall, short, lean/athletic, curvy..big tit, small tit, bigger lips, smaller lips. IN every case I enjoyed the pursuit, romance and coupling-thats really all that matters.
Love your body--we do
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I'm sure I'm biased. Regardless, it's just seemed like more women with longer labia are in this lifestyle. I was just curious if it had anything to do with any judgement from the standard swinger lifestyle. I hope my post didn't come across as some kind of soap box pedestal rant about labia. I do love all vaginas too. I definitely don't judge lol. I'm very bisexual and I love being with women.
 
KnottyAbbeyV said:
I'm sure I'm biased. Regardless, it's just seemed like more women with longer labia are in this lifestyle. I was just curious if it had anything to do with any judgement from the standard swinger lifestyle. I hope my post didn't come across as some kind of soap box pedestal rant about labia. I do love all vaginas too. I definitely don't judge lol. I'm very bisexual and I love being with women.
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no you didnt come across that way =).
Interesting hypothesis though. I will start observing!. testing this hypothesis will be fun=).
We need a research grant!
 
KnottyAbbeyV said:
This has been on my mind for a long time. It's no secret that I have long labia. Watching a lot of amateur women and professional models......more than I expected........I've seen more women with longer labia into this lifestyle. I'm curious if they chose it because of judgement of their labia in a "normal" swinger or open lifestyle and we all know K9's don't judge or if their labia wasn't a consideration and they just like to be kinky as fuck.
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I would say for the most part no connection, though possible a few women that self conscious about their bodies?
 
cdnfrog said:
Long labia does not define an individual, like a lot of male individuals, I also like very much longer labia.
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It shouldn't define an individual. We all know how that works out. Take John Holmes for example.......or Nicole Love. I'm proud of my labia. I love showing them off. The internet has also made it possible to connect with other people that feel the same way. Thanks to sites like this I can share myself and my kinks and feel comfortable
 
KnottyAbbeyV said:
It shouldn't define an individual. We all know how that works out. Take John Holmes for example.......or Nicole Love. I'm proud of my labia. I love showing them off. The internet has also made it possible to connect with other people that feel the same way. Thanks to sites like this I can share myself and my kinks and feel comfortable
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Well said, we all have kinks that we share or are not ready yet to share. Keep on being you, you are beautiful
 
I love both. But i wished people in general could be more happy with their own body. Confidense is sexy. And it doesnt matter what shape your body or labia or whatever is. Please ladys and gents, try to be happy with what you have. Bcs thats pure beauty (to me). 😊
 
KnottyAbbeyV said:
This has been on my mind for a long time. It's no secret that I have long labia. Watching a lot of amateur women and professional models......more than I expected........I've seen more women with longer labia into this lifestyle. I'm curious if they chose it because of judgement of their labia in a "normal" swinger or open lifestyle and we all know K9's don't judge or if their labia wasn't a consideration and they just like to be kinky as fuck.
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Long Labia is something I find more attractive and honestly prefer it longer. Is it just me or the sounds that are made with long labia just so much better 🥵👅 You and all people should be proud and use it to your advantage!
 
So, by long labia, you refer to the idea that your inner labia stick out from between the outer labia? That the inner lips are larger or protrude outside the outer lips? I thought it was normal...

I mean there are lots of variation in the size of labia but my experience has shown me that more protrude, especially when aroused and more engorged, than those that stay hidden.

Isn't this much like the infinite variety of penises in terms of shape and size? Could larger, protruding labia be the female equivalent of being well hung?

Imagine someone complaining about your swollen labia. Can't even imagine. Bring on the tasty beef drapes!
 
Never thought much of my own genitalia. I still get laid so why does it matter if it’s long. I don’t do kink or swinging because I’m shy lol

From a sex standpoint. Any vulva is good as long as it’s std free and sitting on my face ;)
 
I am not sure why people so much care about shape of vagina. Like isn't every fucking vagina beautiful? It doesn't really matter to me if a guy has a small dick or a large dick (extra large would hurt yeah) so why does it matter? Same goes with breasts/belly/neck/face.. Like fucking get off the fake beauty standards, and start living a life outside of these.
 
queen4doggo said:
I am not sure why people so much care about shape of vagina. Like isn't every fucking vagina beautiful? It doesn't really matter to me if a guy has a small dick or a large dick (extra large would hurt yeah) so why does it matter? Same goes with breasts/belly/neck/face.. Like fucking get off the fake beauty standards, and start living a life outside of these.
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I totally agree with this. It is hard for me to understand when people are so particular. I love fat pussies with big lips and clits, but small little pussies with small lips and small clits are great as well! Same for whether a pussy is looser or tighter. I like gaped holes you can fit a horse cock in as much as tight ones that cut of the circulation of my cock 😂. All are beautiful and sexy, as long as their clean. Same for cocks, big or small as long as it's clean it is hot.

Skinny, thick, or BBW, all are beautiful in their own way. I actually really like women with body hair (particularly asses and armpits) but completely shaved or waxed is fun and sexy too. In that regard like other body decisions it is something that should be left to the other person to decide what makes them feel the most comfortable and sexy. People are way more sexual when you allow them leeway to be themselves.

Besides, the person's mind is what most attraction comes from for me. Talk nerdy to me, be a naughty perv, and be respectful and nice and that's like 80% at least of attraction for me. Doesn't matter how perfectly someone matches my preferences of outward looks, if the mind and personality isn't there I just can't be that attracted.
 
Its been said before here, but I have never seen a pussy or its labia, I didnt like. Every pussy brings something different and I enjoy them all, for their differences as much as their similarities.
 
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