Is my freind zoo, how can I approach the subject?

knotyourdog

Zooville Settler
Long story short a close freind of mine admitted to a group including me that he had at one point in his life wanted to have sex with his dog whilst on a night out.

It was very brief and burried alongside a host of other non sexual things related to his mental health / disorders. He sounded ashamed as he did with all the other stuff and talked about how through therapy this was no longer the case (although he diddnt say that for the zoo bit).

There were more important things to descuss after he said that but there was no auquward silence or bad vibe between any of us after he said that.

It's possible that's he's zoo but what's the best way to enquire? He may have suppressed it / be very hostile to talking about it. I don't really want to out myself to him without knowing and want to do this the right way.

Any help is greatly apricated
 
feels like the right way would be to not directly approach him with it at all.. maybe drop some hints that you're "like this" too and see whatever he picks up on it and maybe opens on his own. to put it bluntly, it's his business not yours.
 
I have a friend who knew/suspected i was zoo. There were rumors about me since I was a teenager when my furry porn folder was discovered on my computer by someone.

My friend broached the issue sensitively with me years after the fact. He brought up a story about how his dad came across one of his friends/classmates in the woods having sex with a dog when his dad was young.

He normalized the situation in his discussion with me by quoting his dad's own words in recounting the situation to him "People did that back then."

He never really pushed me on this issue, and I didn't admit to anything at the time. But that is how he broached issue with me, and I appreciated how he approached it.

... People do these type of things and they always have.
 
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