Intimacy Rituals

Hey everyone! I wanted to see if anyone else has any specific actions/places they take or go to prior to making love to their partner.
Perhaps a sort of when I years ago lived on a farm with cows and sows. At first it had to be (almost) dark when I went to the stable. Not sure to call it a ritual, but with the sows I had to get stark naked so I could feel her warm and hairy body scratch against mine.
 
Even if it's just a moment, I try to take a quick still instance to think about what I'm doing, how special it is to communicate through sex, how good we're making each other feel. Just taking a second to acknowledge the situation really elevates things compared to just quickly doing something to get yourself off.
 
Even if it's just a moment, I try to take a quick still instance to think about what I'm doing, how special it is to communicate through sex, how good we're making each other feel. Just taking a second to acknowledge the situation really elevates things compared to just quickly doing something to get yourself off.
That's dope fam. Practicing mindfulness with it definitely enhances things.
 
We often start playing after a walk, hike, or some other outside exploration, which typically means general roughhousing, foreplay teasing/me or her mounting, penetration tease to see her pulsing, then sex.

Sometimes we also start slowly while laying next to each other... And often go outside after playing.

Either way she typically runs around all crazy happy afterwards :love:. Gotta watch out for her flailing paws!
 
There's two ways sex is initiated with my Newfie girl. 1) She starts flagging me and backing her rear end into me. Or 2) I'll strip naked in front of her and she in turn gets excited because she knows she's about to get some pleasure. No matter which way it's initiated the next thing I do is hop in the shower and thoroughly rinse off my crotch. Normally she'll sit just outside the bathroom patiently waiting for me to get done. I'll start with a bit of fingering and lubing her up, which normally gets her off 1 or 2 times. Then I'll head towards the bed and she'll hop onto it, since she insists on standing, and doesn't like any other sexual position. After that, love making happens, and I pretty much always finish inside of her as deep as I can go, usually right after she has another orgasm herself.

Since basically the same thing happens every time we make love, I guess you could call it a ritual that we do.
 
Does she ever lose interest while waiting for you?
Eh, not especially. Sometimes she will get a bit bored and lay down waiting for me, but she normally gets right back up after I exit the shower. I'm usually only in there for a few minutes. Just long enough to thoroughly rinse off my junk. I always do so, even if I've fully showed only a few hours ago. And while that might be a little overkill, I mainly want to make sure I go in as cleanly as possible.
 
Indoors:
Watch zoo erotica
Take a shower/clean/shave/lube
Dress up/apply makeup etc etc
Watch more erotica together
Mutual teasing
Put on a long but enticing zoo porn
Commense "festivities"

Outdoors:
First three
Take a "walk"
Find a secluded area
Etc etc etc
 
My girl is spayed and too small for penetration so that type of interaction isn't that often or regular but I have still come up with a way to see if she is in the mood.

If nobody can hear me, I say the word for funtimes. Usually she will perk up and rush to follow me back to my room. Sometimes she will not care at all.

If I can't say anything out loud, I will just put some lube on my fingers and let her smell it. Then I go to a more private spot in the house. If she follows me and presents to me she gets a good time. :)

She usually gets fingered in my room, but if we're alone it can be wherever. I usually wash my hands before doing her. My hands get licked after she's done and then I wash them again unless she wants round 2 or 3.
Glad you still found a way to pleasure her, despite her being spayed!
 
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