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I told my SO...

werewolf92

werewolf92

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Hey,

So, as written in my introduction, I'm in couple with a lovely man, we've been together for nearly 3 years and before going farther I wanted him to know all truth about me, so a couple weeks ago I told him about my attraction to my dog and my will to please him, but it didn't go as I wished...

He can't understand why I want to have sex with my dog, he is jealous of him and obviously don't want me to have sex with him...

He doesn't know yet that before him I use to love my dog all the way. When I got in couple, I tried to shut off my attraction to animals, but it didn't work and only produced relational trouble with my furry lover. Today I want to leave fully and not to shut a part of myself, but I don't really know what to do... How to explain it to him and convince him... He want me to be all his, he don't want to share me even with the dog...


So... Anyone with advice or similar experience ? Knowing that breaking up is not an option for me, I don't want to leave him, I want him and my dog both in my life
 
You might be amazed at how open someone can become to an idea once they are exposed to it, and are forced to sit with it for a while. The fact he didn't end the relationship outright is a good sign, and means that he values you more than the idea the zoophilia is gross. I'd suggest you sit with him and talk each day until you both come to an understanding of each other's opinions and feelings, and make sure he understands this is a part of you that you cannot push down and ignore, that it hurts your feelings to do so. Be understanding of him and ask for his understanding in return.

I haven't been trough this myself, so that's all I can really suggest, bit I wish you all the luck in the world and I hope it all works out OK.
 
I wish you all the luck and fortune in the world, and I admire your courage! ? I suppose what your husband needs most now is reassurance and time.
 
werewolf92 said:
Hey,

So, as written in my introduction, I'm in couple with a lovely man, we've been together for nearly 3 years and before going farther I wanted him to know all truth about me, so a couple weeks ago I told him about my attraction to my dog and my will to please him, but it didn't go as I wished...

He can't understand why I want to have sex with my dog, he is jealous of him and obviously don't want me to have sex with him...

He doesn't know yet that before him I use to love my dog all the way. When I got in couple, I tried to shut off my attraction to animals, but it didn't work and only produced relational trouble with my furry lover. Today I want to leave fully and not to shut a part of myself, but I don't really know what to do... How to explain it to him and convince him... He want me to be all his, he don't want to share me even with the dog...


So... Anyone with advice or similar experience ? Knowing that breaking up is not an option for me, I don't want to leave him, I want him and my dog both in my life
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It sounds like he just does not want to share you with anyone, man or beast.

If someone needs fidelity in a relationship, then they cannot change that about themselves. They can no more change that about themselves than you can change the fact that you are attracted to animals. It might be possible for them to fake being okay with it, but it will emotionally exhaust them. You have been unfair toward yourself by attempting to suppress your feelings toward dogs, but he would likewise be unfair toward himself if he tried to deny his need to have someone for his very own.

If you and this man can find a solution to this conundrum that works, then let us know.
 
Thanks for all your replies!

I already tried telling him that it won't change our relation and I told him that if I spoke about it it's because I want to build my life with him without secret, and I think that with a few weeks he'll really understand that, but as SigmatoZeta said I think it's more about not sharing me and he told me few days ago that he's not sure we should be together if it hurts me, yet we both want to stay together...

It's difficult to speak about all that to him, he tend to have emotional difficulties and speaking about that hurt him, he don't want to speak about that and want to forget about it, even if he tells me that I did right telling him about my attraction. That make it even more difficult...

Another problem is that I tend to have more difficulties in the bed with him as I'm mainly thinking of the dog, even more now that I told him about it. I'm less motivated because I want something else currently, but frequent intercourse are important to him and he's sad because of my reduced activity. He don't really know that the dog is the reason, but he told me that when I speak about it he feel like I don't want to do it with him because I prefer the dog and that also hurts him... I know that if I have my animal part satisfied I will be more balanced and will satisfy him much more, but I'm not sure I can really explain it to him...



It's a really complicated situation :/
 
Hey,

So, some quick updates. I tried letting my boyfriend know how I feel, but it only made him depressed, I really feel like it's a dead end and he will never accept. I'm a bit lost because I really don't know what to do :/ I know him and when someone try to convince him to do something he block and want to do the exact oopposite, even when it's the right thing to do.

I think he's kind of jealous and in the same time he seems to think that if I want the dog it's because I'm not satisfied enough with him, which is false and I already told him :/
 
Last part of the story, after long discussion my boyfriend agreed for me to fap my furry love and I'm also allowed to please myself while he lick me, and I can also watch zoo video. While fapping the dog my SO told me it pleased him to see me do it, even though he find dog dick ugly (I did too in the beginning XD) and it seems he may be into zoo as well. I believe he may allow me to do more once he get used to my relation with my dog ^^
I'm not sure, but I think all this was really new to him and he may have been repressing his attraction to that. Also he is a bit jealous of my relationship with my dog and want a dog too, he admited he may want to fap his dog too once he can :p

It's still a bit too soon to tell, but I believe it's a happy ending and my love for my human lover is only greater now than before ^^
 
Congrats!! I'm so happy things seem to be turning out well! I'm glad your relationship seems stronger than before and that you don't have to hide anything from him anymore. Much love to both you and your human and furry lovers!
 
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