I think my bf is dropping hints?

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Kitten4Lease

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…Okay, before you say that’s it’s obviously either of the options, let me just state that I’m autistic, so it can be easy for me to miss obvious things.

Anyways, I’ve been with my partner for over 4 years. I’ve had a thing for being eaten out by dogs ever since I learned about sex…. It’s something I’m embarrassed of and that I don’t do often, but I have still done it multiple times throughout my life.

I am with a guy who isn’t exactly consistent with what his current big fetish is. It seems in some cases at least, certain things he likes, he only likes them for the taboo aspect of it, if that makes any sense.

Well, I’m a bit of a fiction writer. When he found this out, he asked if I could write something for him. I’ve written various types of kinky stories for him at this point…. But one stuck out to me more than the rest. In one story, he wanted me to tie him down to something and let a horse have it’s way with him. I asked him what exactly about the fantasy that he liked, he said it was less about the horse itself, and more so that’s it’s something huge and unstoppable that’s dominating him.


Later on in the relationship, one time he gets tipsy. We’re talking about past sexual encounters, and he tells me about a girl he used to have phone sex with. Apparently one time, he told her to let her dog “use her.” When I asked about the situation later on, he said he thinks she didn’t actually do it, and that he only said it because it was just a taboo thing to do.

Another time, we were both a bit tipsy and flirting, joking around with it. He knows I have a thing for monsters (which I have lied and said that it’s exclusively the humanoid kind.) Basically, he held me open while we were both standing up. I asked what for, he said so the monster has room… I asked what kind, expecting him to say something like an elf or a demon. He replies: “some sort of demon dog.” I try my best not to visibly freeze. I laugh and “play along.” He stares at me for a second and then says that we need to get a German Shepherd. (Coincidentally one of my favorites.) I asked why that specific kind, he just said that they’re big and strong. I just keep on awkwardly laughing, unsure how to tell if he’s joking or not. After a bit he laughs and tells me he’s joking…

Is it obvious that’s he’s trying to gage my reaction? Or do you think it’s moreso just him generally liking things taboo… more because of the act’s social status than the actual act itself?

I’ve left everything for this man, I’m too paranoid to risk scaring him away… But if he’s actually interested in seeing me and a dog, I’d at least want to talk to him about it… what do you all think?
 
Definitely sounds like he's dropping hints to me. But you can always go the route of my erotic stories. Say you've been experimenting with different taboos and read a few different categories including bestiality. Then ask him to pick which one he wants to read.
 
sounds like a domination fetish... especially the "he told the girl over phone to let her dog use her". does he happen to be possessive? not in a rude way, just clearly defining what's his or what he wants?.. or the "he's big and strong" reasoning why to get a gsd...
 
Be careful he's not doing it just to see what he can push you into doing, and if you do anything, be sure he's not going to tell anyone, or take any photos or video.
 
Kitten4Lease said:
…Okay, before you say that’s it’s obviously either of the options, let me just state that I’m autistic, so it can be easy for me to miss obvious things.

Anyways, I’ve been with my partner for over 4 years. I’ve had a thing for being eaten out by dogs ever since I learned about sex…. It’s something I’m embarrassed of and that I don’t do often, but I have still done it multiple times throughout my life.

I am with a guy who isn’t exactly consistent with what his current big fetish is. It seems in some cases at least, certain things he likes, he only likes them for the taboo aspect of it, if that makes any sense.

Well, I’m a bit of a fiction writer. When he found this out, he asked if I could write something for him. I’ve written various types of kinky stories for him at this point…. But one stuck out to me more than the rest. In one story, he wanted me to tie him down to something and let a horse have it’s way with him. I asked him what exactly about the fantasy that he liked, he said it was less about the horse itself, and more so that’s it’s something huge and unstoppable that’s dominating him.


Later on in the relationship, one time he gets tipsy. We’re talking about past sexual encounters, and he tells me about a girl he used to have phone sex with. Apparently one time, he told her to let her dog “use her.” When I asked about the situation later on, he said he thinks she didn’t actually do it, and that he only said it because it was just a taboo thing to do.

Another time, we were both a bit tipsy and flirting, joking around with it. He knows I have a thing for monsters (which I have lied and said that it’s exclusively the humanoid kind.) Basically, he held me open while we were both standing up. I asked what for, he said so the monster has room… I asked what kind, expecting him to say something like an elf or a demon. He replies: “some sort of demon dog.” I try my best not to visibly freeze. I laugh and “play along.” He stares at me for a second and then says that we need to get a German Shepherd. (Coincidentally one of my favorites.) I asked why that specific kind, he just said that they’re big and strong. I just keep on awkwardly laughing, unsure how to tell if he’s joking or not. After a bit he laughs and tells me he’s joking…

Is it obvious that’s he’s trying to gage my reaction? Or do you think it’s moreso just him generally liking things taboo… more because of the act’s social status than the actual act itself?

I’ve left everything for this man, I’m too paranoid to risk scaring him away… But if he’s actually interested in seeing me and a dog, I’d at least want to talk to him about it… what do you all think?
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I think you should ask him and then fuck a dog in front of him!
 
I don't know what to say as you're the one who knows him best. But at some of that kind of questions and comments, i'd be cautious as Maui69 said, but also i'd be trying to figure out if he's really pushing that out for himself or for yourself. Be aware of that as well
 
yea he definitely wants to see u doing it, I don't him but from the way u say he talked about the monster and then the dog idea outta sudden he wanted to chick if he can get u to his corner u might try to talk with him about dogs who knows what would come out
 
StillWanting said:
Next conversation just tell him your up to do anything he does first.
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Shit... If I wasn't still only 8 days post-op from fissure-repair surgery, and I got an offer like that, I'd be outta my pants and assuming the position for the pooch too quick to be seen without a slo-mo camera :)

(No, the fissure wasn't a "battle scar" from critter-sex - or even any-sex - Just the result of a bout with constipation. Made the entire idea of "catchin' some poop-chute action" more "cringe" than "Oh yeah!" for the last few months, I can tell you...)
 
UR20Z said:
Shit... If I wasn't still only 8 days post-op from fissure-repair surgery, and I got an offer like that, I'd be outta my pants and assuming the position for the pooch too quick to be seen without a slo-mo camera :)

(No, the fissure wasn't a "battle scar" from critter-sex - or even any-sex - Just the result of a bout with constipation. Made the entire idea of "catchin' some poop-chute action" more "cringe" than "Oh yeah!" for the last few months, I can tell you...)
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Music needs more cowbell, you need more fiber.
 
StillWanting said:
Music needs more cowbell, you need more fiber.
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Actually, the doc tells me that it's almost certain the cause was dehydration during the broke-every-record-on-the-books heatwave we had this summer, then trying to "offload" the damn-near-a-concrete-block (felt like that would have been a good description whether speaking of texture or size) of a turd that built up as a consequence of not enough fluid intake.
 
Wetterthbetter said:
Why not make a night of watching porn together. Try ******** and go through all sorts of categories.. Gage his reaction, take the first step and select the beast section after you're both warmed up.. You can verify with how hard his dick gets.
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DO NOT use ********. It has tons of stuff most people will find disgusting, such as sounding with worms. Geh.

https://femefun.com/ is better, but it's basically mostly Zoo, so maybe too obvious. Could be that you googled "feme fun porn" - like you're trying to find fun porn for women.
 
***************.co seems to be mostly dogs. Maybe find the repost on that site of knotmeharder's first time video that she and a friend uploaded here. I can't find the original here any longer and her profile is unavailable.
 
But yeah, to echo everyone else here. He very obviously is trying to gage your reaction, and is interested in at least the kink of you fucking a dog.
 
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