I just came out, now what?

lizlane443

Tourist
After a short conversation with my girlfriend, I came out to her about my love for animals.

Attached is the conversation, let me remind you that she does not really know the correct terms to use.

She seems genuinely interested in learning more about this,
What are some things I should show her/ talk to her about to ease her into it?

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ChestnutDane

Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Great news, don't push, let her show you where she wants to go. She will be intrigued and hopefully interested. She will show you the way, let her explore at her own pace.
 
That is great friend! Looks like it couldnt have gone better. Chestnut gave great advice. Dont push her, sounds like her interest will pull her in the right direction.
 

lizlane443

Tourist
I've gotta ask, how does '😬' lead somebody to ask whether you're into zoo? Lol
The conversation started with me asking if I should get the elypseart realistic dildo. A week later I played a game with bestiality context in it.
And now here we are.
I guess I kinda just hinted it to her, and waited to see how she responded.
After every interaction, I noticed she would ask tons of questions and seemed okay with it.
She then asked me yesterday if there was anything I wanted to tell her, and I kinda shyed away from answering,
That was a flag for her to probe more.
It's kinda weird how it all happened.

There is way way way more to the conversation that I am not showing that led her to that. It was not just a shot in the dark from her. She had an idea
 
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I didnt try hinting to my girlfriend that I was into bestiality but decided I'd hide it from everyone. I dont know if its fortunate or not but she called me out on it one day and I thought we were over, she asked a few questions but aside from that she want content but we dont talk about it.
 

ChestnutDane

Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Last night we hung out on discord and I just kinda sat and explained all the questions she had. So I think it went as good as it could.

Thank you for your advice!
Great news! Sounds like your doing great. She clearly has a interest! Key now is not to push her. She will be more comfortable moving at her own pace. I'm sure wonderful things will happen for you both ☺️
 

Doggyboy22

Zooville Settler
The conversation started with me asking if I should get the elypseart realistic dildo. A week later I played a game with beastiality context in it.
And now here we are.
I guess I kinda just hinted it to her, and waited to see how she responded.
After every interaction, I noticed she would ask tons of questions and seemed okay with it.
She then asked me yesterday if there was anything I wanted to tell her, and I kinda shyed away from answering,
That was a flag for her to probe more.
It's kinda weird how it all happened.

There is way way way more to the conversation that I am not showing that led her to that. It was not just a shot in the dark from her. She had an idea
Ah right, well sounds like you have a keeper there buddy haha good for you. And for what it's worth yes you should get a toy from elypse art I have the vixen and it's amazing
 

tommers

Lurker
wow lizlane sounds like the plan worked and everything seems to go in the right way. Just doing small steps and look / feel whether she likes it or not. Do little steps and when succeed, you both can enjoy the same interests. So nice to read bout your progress.

Play together with the toy in the next step and get her reactions, maybe looking some porn or artwork together.
 

Oily

Zooville Settler
The conversation started with me asking if I should get the elypseart realistic dildo. A week later I played a game with beastiality context in it.
And now here we are.
I guess I kinda just hinted it to her, and waited to see how she responded.
After every interaction, I noticed she would ask tons of questions and seemed okay with it.
She then asked me yesterday if there was anything I wanted to tell her, and I kinda shyed away from answering,
That was a flag for her to probe more.
It's kinda weird how it all happened.

There is way way way more to the conversation that I am not showing that led her to that. It was not just a shot in the dark from her. She had an idea
To be fair, I expect a fair few would the conversation/relationship cut off at the elypseart part, but part of me wonders what lead up to that.
I can only assume that you're insanely lucky for having snagged such an open-minded girlfriend, that she guessed it that accurately and fortunately responded that reasonable to it. And the conversations leading up to that.

I'm also curious what game you played with bestiality context in it. I know a few that throw a hint at it jokingly, Mass Effect is the only one that indirectly implies it. But perhaps it was a more lewdness oriented game?

I have many more questions like what lead you up to this for the sake of gaining experience in the "reveal your most inner taboo secrets to your SO" category, but it would likely cut too much into detailing personal

Anyway, I am green with envy.

Edit
Nitpick, but: bestiality not beastiality, remember that by the fact it's the best
 

lizlane443

Tourist
To be fair, I expect a fair few would the conversation/relationship cut off at the elypseart part, but part of me wonders what lead up to that.
I can only assume that you're insanely lucky for having snagged such an open-minded girlfriend, that she guessed it that accurately and fortunately responded that reasonable to it. And the conversations leading up to that.

I'm also curious what game you played with bestiality context in it. I know a few that throw a hint at it jokingly, Mass Effect is the only one that indirectly implies it. But perhaps it was a more lewdness oriented game?

I have many more questions like what lead you up to this for the sake of gaining experience in the "reveal your most inner taboo secrets to your SO" category, but it would likely cut too much into detailing personal

Anyway, I am green with envy.

Edit
Nitpick, but: bestiality not beastiality, remember that by the fact it's the best
We were playing a lewd game that had a sub story that had bestiality themes.
In the game, there was a knotted dildo you could purchase, and she asked me if I would buy something like that. I explained to her that I always wanted one. After a Google search for "realistic dog dildos" we found the knotted dildo by bad dragon, but it was sold out. After some digging she found the elypseart dildo. I explained to her that it was exactly what I was looking for but I didn't have the money right this second to buy it. So without asking me, she purchased it for me as a gift.
A few days after her ordering the dildo for me she explained how she was into animated antho/fury/zoo type of porn.
To keep our relationship fresh and exciting, we love to randomly send porn to each other durning the day. It's just a kinky thing we do 😅 vids/pics
The next day she started sending me tons of drawn antho/zoo style porn, so I could tell she was really into it.
So it really seemed like, she was trying to hint to me that she was into bestiality in some way... I guess??
So I kinda took a risk and decided I wanted to tell her but I was too shy, and from the screenshot above, she had a good idea on what I wanted to tell her.

I believe I just got really really really lucky.

Both of us are lesbians so we always talked about a three sum with a male but it just never worked out, the 3rd party was either busy or weird so we kinda gave up.

Since this post we have talked about maybe getting a animal love of our own (dog), but we are not sure yet. we both are "virgin" to bestiality and don't really know what to do.

Also, thank you for teaching me the correct spelling and how to remember it!

PS:
I am typing this on mobile during a work break in my car, so forgive my spelling mistakes and rambling mess.
 

Rottynme

ZooVille Philanthropist
Very happy for you that it worked out. My ex girlfriend found out long before I was ready to break the news to her and it went sour overnight. Best of luck to you both!!
 
Glad that went well! No way I'm gonna be telling anyone close to me unfortunately, way too risky 😅
Really happy for you two! Hope it all works out!!
 

DaneLover1

Citizen of Zooville
I have one really good friend that I have been hinting at it for a while. He’s never straight up asked me about it, but he jokes about me being a zoo all the time. I’ve considered telling him.
 

Pillar

Prized Citizen of ZV
We were playing a lewd game that had a sub story that had bestiality themes.
In the game, there was a knotted dildo you could purchase, and she asked me if I would buy something like that. I explained to her that I always wanted one. After a Google search for "realistic dog dildos" we found the knotted dildo by bad dragon, but it was sold out. After some digging she found the elypseart dildo. I explained to her that it was exactly what I was looking for but I didn't have the money right this second to buy it. So without asking me, she purchased it for me as a gift.
A few days after her ordering the dildo for me she explained how she was into animated antho/fury/zoo type of porn.
To keep our relationship fresh and exciting, we love to randomly send porn to each other durning the day. It's just a kinky thing we do 😅 vids/pics
The next day she started sending me tons of drawn antho/zoo style porn, so I could tell she was really into it.
So it really seemed like, she was trying to hint to me that she was into bestiality in some way... I guess??
So I kinda took a risk and decided I wanted to tell her but I was too shy, and from the screenshot above, she had a good idea on what I wanted to tell her.

I believe I just got really really really lucky.

Both of us are lesbians so we always talked about a three sum with a male but it just never worked out, the 3rd party was either busy or weird so we kinda gave up.

Since this post we have talked about maybe getting a animal love of our own (dog), but we are not sure yet. we both are "virgin" to bestiality and don't really know what to do.

Also, thank you for teaching me the correct spelling and how to remember it!

PS:
I am typing this on mobile during a work break in my car, so forgive my spelling mistakes and rambling mess.
You're always going to find a lot of weirdos with anything sexual. I'd just recommend trusting your gut with this anytime you want a third party involved.
 
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