How do I tell my partner im a Zoophile?

Porn, if you watch porn together “accidentally” stumble upon it and see what he thinks. If you two are drinking maybe say that you heard someone at work talking about this video of a woman and a dog. Then ask if he’s ever seen anything like that see how he responds. It’s def a tight rope walk, one false step and down you go. I will never bring this up with my partner for fear of how she will react.
 
I mean it can go both ways either he's into it as well or not into it. You have to take into consideration how long have you guys been together what kind of kinks he likes and what nots. Maybe try telling him but in small clues or hints about you being into this topic. I mean it also depends on the person whether there are open or not to almost anything. Hopefully, you open up one day and tell him, and hopefully, a good outcome would come out of that. Best of luck! and enjoy the site
 
bigdog35 said:
Porn, if you watch porn together “accidentally” stumble upon it and see what he thinks. If you two are drinking maybe say that you heard someone at work talking about this video of a woman and a dog. Then ask if he’s ever seen anything like that see how he responds. It’s def a tight rope walk, one false step and down you go. I will never bring this up with my partner for fear of how she will react.
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I might be able to do that. Definitely worth a shot
 
kk0girl13 said:
I'm a female 21 and I have no idea how to go about this. I feel like if I ever told him it would just end badly. How do I test the waters to find out without fully exposing myself?
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Porns the best way. I never mentioned it to my partner but she figured it out eventually and mentioned it offhand that she once has a dream about having sex with a horse, so that gave me something to work with and we went from there, I actually never admitted anything for a very long time, I kept it private and I still do, it's my business. That's not to say she isn't for it, she is and has been since almost day one, I'm very very lucky, she's not like you or I would be, but she's open minded and knows I like that she does it and she respects that it's a big part of my life. I kept it from my first partner for 3 years because I offhandedly mention it and she flat out said that's disgusting (showed her porn or a picture it was back then), so I knew where I stood with her and it was definitely a no go, but I was and still would be miserable with her. Good luck ❤️
 
kk0girl13 said:
I'm a female 21 and I have no idea how to go about this. I feel like if I ever told him it would just end badly. How do I test the waters to find out without fully exposing myself?
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For instance... "geez look at this video of a dog doing it with a girl", don't say it like you are grossed out by it, or he will react to your reaction (because that's the cultural "norm" to not like beastiality), mention it like you are kinda turned on, something like that, you'll know how to please or "flirt" with him, see how he reacts, if you know him, you'll work your way through his emotions and reactions. Never admit anything, unless you know he's 100% cool, people have been charged (by the law) because they jumped the gun or got caught (another thing to be very careful of, obviously lol).
 
Don’t tell him, but you can ask him if he has ever watched girls with dogs and then you can ask him if he likes it and then depending on his answer if that’s something he likes you can just say would he like to see a dog have sex with you and you can act like you’re just joking if he says no but don’t really tell him you’re into it just ask questions and kinda lead the conversation down that path basically tell him without actually telling him through asking questions. Maybe even be watching some videos with him and be like that’s hot I could imaging myself as the girl and like see what his reaction would be
 
Jamesmarko2.0 said:
Kind of juvenile but you could play "truth or dare" or "would you rather" to test where he stands with the topic.
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This is actually a genius idea I’m gonna try this idea one day. Also there is an episode of fear factor where they have to drink donkey cum and maybe you could put that episode on and then ask them if they would do that challenge lol
 
If you're at the point where you think it's possible that you can tell them.
Just make sure that you completely and totally trust this person.
If you're not together at some point in time after you might worry that he will tell your mutual friends.

Also if he decides to not see it for the blessing it is that's not your fault.
 
I feel like you could covertly make a "Kink Test" either in quiz/video format where it asks a series of questions/shows a series of clips. Sprinkle in some zoo content and then gauge the reaction. Imagine watching a video compilation of various kinks, (Be sure it has a range of hardcore content) and when the zoo clip comes on just be like "Dang could you fuck me like that?" it might start a dialogue, could even comment about how fast the dog can thrust or how intense the pullout must feel. Lots of ways to spin it
 
As an old, wise man, my advice follows. Unless you KNOW that you can talk about anything with this other person, and that the worst answer you would hear is, “well, that’s really not my thing but, if you like it, go for it,” then I would keep my mouth shut.
 
kk0girl13 said:
I'm a female 21 and I have no idea how to go about this. I feel like if I ever told him it would just end badly. How do I test the waters to find out without fully exposing myself?
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Ask if he would be willing to try and animal shaped dildo in the bedroom and see how he reacts
 
If I'm not mistaken like 70% of fetishist are male. And like 70% of people are fetishist so... Chances at least he'd be curious are high. Don't just drop it tho. Leave hints like little comments every other day to awake his curiosity. And one day you may be able to talk about it.
 
kk0girl13 said:
I'm a female 21 and I have no idea how to go about this. I feel like if I ever told him it would just end badly. How do I test the waters to find out without fully exposing myself?
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I dont think there's a "right" way to approach a partner about this. Everyone is different and it could go really good or really bad and anywhere in between. My girl is a pleaser and was sending me pics one day and decided to stick a banana in her pussy and sent me a pic of it, then asked if that pic was a too kinky for me. I figured it was now or never so i said "i've watched way worse"...it took about an hour of questioning before id eventually tell her exactly what i was talking about. Now fast forward a few months later and we have two dogs that lick her and she's decided to try a knot. Luckily mine was best case scenario
 
I'm assuming that you and he are entering a serious or semi-serious stage of your relationship. It probably wouldn't be worthwhile to broach this topic if you're still in the early phase or if you just can't see him as your life partner.

If you don't often watch porn together, then I suggest sharing a news article that touches on the subject of zoophilia some way, maybe one not involving someone being prosecuted for it. Don't comment on it other than to say something like, this is wild or thought you'd get a kick out of this. This will help you judge his reaction in a way that is quite safe. Of course if you do share one of someone being prosecuted it also gives you the opportunity to start a discussion about so long as it's not abusive, but consensual that it shouldn't be a crime and that it wasn't too long ago that people had the same reaction to gay relationships that they still do about zoophiles. That's assuming your partner isn't opposed to other people having homosexual relationships. Keep in mind that the more often you bring it up the more likely he's going to put two and two together. The idea is to keep plausible deniability and to remain in image he has created of you.

Hopefully you are rather spunky (no pun intended) and frequently argumentative so that if he gives push-back, that will give you an opportunity to do some online "research" and present him with more detailed facts. Of course his personality is the important factor here and only you know anything about him. If you and he have your share of arguments then that is good. But do your arguments end with one of you genuinely changing your mind or does he just stop bringing the issue up without changing his mind in order to avoid renewing the argument?

It's difficult to give much advice without knowing something about your partners personality.
 
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I told my ex . I was into watching. something about the submissiveness of a person taking a k9/horse It just gets me going lol. Also told her I'm a furry an then week later she was gone an the kids. To somewhere 3000km away. An got rid our dog..

I'll keep this to the grave.
I don't wanna lose anyone again...
 
crevan said:
I told my ex . I was into watching. something about the submissiveness of a person taking a k9/horse It just gets me going lol. Also told her I'm a furry an then week later she was gone an the kids. To somewhere 3000km away. An got rid our dog..

I'll keep this to the grave.
I don't wanna lose anyone again...
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Telling someone is a dilemma. You don't want to tell someone too early, before that trust has developed and you don't want to tell someone after you've built a big part of your life around them as in your case.
 
Is my BF giving me hints?

He showed me a pic of his dog with his red rocket poking out and specifically mentioning it. And he’s made comments about not nurturing my dog.
 
knotty_little_slut87 said:
Is my BF giving me hints?

He showed me a pic of his dog with his red rocket poking out and specifically mentioning it. And he’s made comments about not nurturing my dog.
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Possibly, but if he should be, is he doing it for good or nefarious purposes? Does your BF have a cruel streak?

He may have intuitively picked up on some of your desires or he may have seen something without you noticing. Do the two of you have a history of kink or fetish behavior? What is the state of your relationship?

There are quite a few things to consider before introducing this aspect of your sexuality into your relationship.
 
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