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Have you ever told anyone?

My wife knows I have a passing fascination with it. She definitely doesn't know the true extent to my desires, though to be fair I'm not sure I do either. I'm not really all that interested in telling her or letting her in on any of it. So I keep my proclivities to myself as I always have. I believe people live to experience things, so a melancholy does from time to time envelop me at the thought of fantasies unlived.
 
Meg97 said:
Cool topic!
It happened when I spotted my BF's folders with sketches, drawings and graphics. I wasn't shocked but really surprised! Lot of scenes showed women having sex with dogs and apes. I asked him about artworks and he admited is his favourite sexual fantasy. He had no choice because I had a proof in my hands haha ?
After revealing truth I felt it's time to uncover my secret. And just told him what happened few years ago. That was huuge massive relief for both of us.
After coming out I started giving him new fresh ideas about new scenes, cartoons and artworks because he was stubborn with drawing girls dogs and apes only. Most of new artworks was my concept but his execution. This is one of reasons why I like upload his artworks, graphics and AI's.
Also our life changed a little after that conversation. Is much better than before ?
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Best case scenario! You got lucky and I’m happy for you.

I’ve told 3 partners. They were all patient and listened, but only one expressed interest in taking it further. Further was only watching videos together, but that’s not nothing!
 
most of the time with swinger couples or girls friends, i spocked about: do you like dogs, what would love to do with them ?
then i say for exemple my ex girl friend had, had a good relationship with her rotweiler. I find it strange because some time he came and taked her leggs and masturbate. She stayed passiv all the time and became his cum on her jeans. A other time i so her mastubating him, she deosent so me.
 
I told my girlfriend recently, we're in a new relationship and have been slowly unpacking our complicated sexual histories and i took the plunge, admitted to starting young and enjoying it with 2 male dogs i later owned. She was very accepting and curious, we watched some porn, talked a lot and after much discussion decided to make an account here. We're thinking about trying it together, maybe meeting others.
 
why do u guys hide it? i can say honestly that i found it extremely disheartening and offensive for my partner to hide a sexual interest from me, especially when agreeing not to 😪 i understand that a lot of society/people in general aren't keen on the idea of bestiality/zoophilia but then wouldn't that go to say that isn't the person for you, if they don't accept you for you through & through without passing judgement/ shame? genuine question. i don't think i can wrap my head around why my partner hid such a thing when i myself have some deviant kinks/perversions, like do you guys ever consider your partners in this, and how they feel/would feel or is it just more of a selfish shameful need to stay hidden? idk. hurts when ur person feels they can't trust to be honest about themselves when you've given them no reason to be, i can understand that not everyone is as open minded or accepting, and maybe not telling them, but why be in a relationship if you can't be yourself?
 
Havent seen this question asked before. Sorry if i post it again. I try to get along with my feelings but somehow i cant. I tried to talk with people about Zoophilia. My family doesnt know i am a Zoo. Probably never going to tell them. My closest friends know. They dont tell anyone and are mostly fine with it. Most people would probably turn away from you if they knew because its disgusting and evil. But noone really talks about it just because its a taboo topic with that stigma. How about you guys? Do people know you are a Zoo? How did you tell them or did they find out? Do they "support" you?
Cheers
 
I wouldn't be surprised to learn if someone expected me to be a zoo but hell no I ain't telling nobody. That could land me 10 years in jail.
If there wasn't a life ending consequence of being found out as a zoo I'd probably tell everyone I know and educate them about the true healthy lifestyle and guidelines all proper zoos follow.
 
WalkingStarFish said:
I wouldn't be surprised to learn if someone expected me to be a zoo but hell no I ain't telling nobody. That could land me 10 years in jail.
If there wasn't a life ending consequence of being found out as a zoo I'd probably tell everyone I know and educate them about the true healthy lifestyle and guidelines all proper zoos follow.
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I haven't really thought about the punishment honestly. I mean, it's not something I don't have to think about but ist not a huge deal either. For me the bigger issue was being an outcast in society.
 
NahtanoJ said:
I haven't really thought about the punishment honestly. I mean, it's not something I don't have to think about but ist not a huge deal either. For me the bigger issue was being an outcast in society.
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If I'm living the life I want to live, the life that fills me with wonderlust and soul, then being an outcast means nothing to me. I learned a long time ago to live without caring what anybody thought, as long as it doesn't land me in a cell. I do what makes me happy and gives me purpose. I am a character from a storybook, something that nobody understands. We only got this one life, so I'm gonna live it the way I want to.
 
Tons of threads on this topic. Just because you feel it and there is this community here, don't think it is something widespread accepted. Being too open or thinking it is like "coming out" or something you expect people should "accept you" for has ruined lives and even put people in legal trouble.

Be happy you have shared with friends who have kept it quiet. I'd leave it at that unless you have some damn good reason to believe whoever you do tell is a zoo first.
 
Hello, guys!

General question: Does you relatives, close ones know about your fetish? Just a part? What have you told them and how did they react?

😇
 
kippinitreal said:
I am currently married to my spouse and I love them so much and they do not know about my zoo life. I believe there is never a good time to tell them. Anyone else live like this? How do you cope? Are you ever worried that they will find out and what their reaction would be? Tell me I’m not alone
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Hey, I did told my girlfriend and she was super cool about it. We watched videos together and she kinda like it, but i think she is in that stage where she still is a bit ashamed. However she is cool about me beeing into zoo.
If my experience in open up with my partner does mean anything, I think firstly you should try to understand how does your spouse feel about fetishes and stuff. Me and my girlfriend always talked a lot about sex, so that helped when I told her.
And yes, I was drunk when i told her :ROFLMAO:
 
littleblonde said:
My fiance knows as it was all his idea for me to do it, however none of my friends or family know.

I really struggle to cope with this aspect of it all. I wouldnt tell your spouse xx
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And how did he gave you the idea?
My girlfriend watched some videos with me and I could tell that she was really into it. She even told me after watching some videos how excited she felt.
However she got a bit cold feet from watching some videos because she had some valid concerns about how the dogs might be treated by who produces those videos. Another thing she told me is that even though she felt excited and understand that a lot of woman feel the same way, she was unsure about how some of those videos ended up online, like if the women did because she wanted or because she was trying to please someone.
I say all of this to ask you if you had any similar concerns and if so, how did you adressed then
 
H_U_S_K_E_R said:
So, my entire family knows, but they hope I'm inactive. My mom, caught me with the family dog when I was 16 and I was sure I was dead if not going to jail. She then told the whole family. My uncle, my grandparents, my stepdad, my dad, my stepmom. They think I stopped. In truth I just got better at timing and hiding.

My best friend knows, but I think he doesn't think I'm serious.

My boyfriend's best friend knows, he finds it hot but only because we had a sexual attraction to each other and he likes the idea of me naked. (I'm polyamorous, just to clarify I wasn't cheating on my man with his friend)

And I always come out to my boyfriends/girlfriends if I get a good vibe from them. My boyfriend knows and is a... We'll say "retired" zoo.

Aside from that, no, it's not information I share willy-nilly. I'm VERY selective of who knows.
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So sorry for that! Must have been though
 
Amandatoosweet said:
Well it was very nerve racking for me but heres context ive been married to my husband for 5 years weve been dating for 7 and known eachother for 9 years ive had an attraction to dogs since i was in my teens i told my husband revently like maybe a month or two ago i was scared and very stressed about telling him but i couldnt hide that side of me any longer it was like a dog scratching at the door wanting to be let in i wanted that side of me to be let in so i planned a date night with my hubby and waited till we got home i asked him to sit with me on the couch i snuggled up to him and rested my head on his shoulder i asked him if hed ever judge me if i was into strange stuff he said no hed never judge me and he jokingly said babe i accepted everything about you like your need to sleep to crime documentaries and he laughed very heartedly i told him babe listen to me we need to have a serious discussion right now he said sorry and asked me whats wrong whats on your mind i asked him if he would judge me if i was into so weird stuff sexually he told me hes open minded but he draws the line at scat and pain related kinks at this point i was so scared i almost backed out i guess he sensed my stress so he told me to relax and talk to me so i took a deep breath and started crying he held me tightly running his finger over my head and through my hair til i calmed down i then told him that ive always been attracted to dogs and i would like if we could explore that part of me together he got quite i started to cry again and he took a deep breath and began asking me questions about like in what way was i attracted to dogs i told like bf and gf he asked if i was sexually attracted to them i said yes he asked me if i truly loved him or is he just a placeholder i held him closely and told him hes the love of my life i cant see my life without him i married him for a reason and thats because i love him with every fiber of my bieng he kissed the top of my head he then said that he is open to the idea and hes willing to explore this lifestyle with me i spent alot of time crying and thanking him for accepting me for not leaving me and for joining me and that he is willing to explore this side of me

Sorry everyone for the running sentence and the long read
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Goodness I really enjoyed reading this. Would listen to anything else you’d say about it. Thanks for sharing
 
Hey all!

I’m struggling on if (or how) to tell my partner I’m into zoo… we’ve been together about two years for context. He works at a pet food store and I don’t know how he would take it.

Now, I do have a knot dildo that he uses on me pretty frequently, but when I first bought it, I told him it was just a “fantasy dildo”.

None the less, I don’t know how or if I should tell him. I don’t know how he would take it. Any advice or input would be greatly appreciated❤️
 
Hi Rose, to use a dildo, in my opinion and to be into zoo I think would be a difficult hard time for him to understand or accept your lifestyle. He might need time if you do open up bit by bit about your affections or he might feel uncomfortable. In my perspective view how deeply I want a guy, but to date a non-zoo guy would end up with devastating consequences or worse, so I stay exclusively zoo
 
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