Feeling guilty

Chfr707

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I feel guilty for liking this. What is wrong with me? Why is is so hard to find someone to talk to about this. I need som kind of a mentor who can guide me. Please help me accept this part of me
 
I apologize if it is in the wrong place in This forum.

I feel guilty for liking this. What is wrong with me? Why is is so hard to find someone to talk to about this. I need som kind of a mentor who can guide me. Please help me accept this part of me
I feel the same. I feel maybe a little guilty, but more dirty to be honest. I would like to share with my spouse about this fetish but he will not like it. So right now I'm reading and learning and starting here.
 
I feel the same. I feel maybe a little guilty, but more dirty to be honest. I would like to share with my spouse about this fetish but he will not like it. So right now I'm reading and learning and starting here.
I used to feel the same but I met a guy 4 years ago and we become good friends and still are now and we have been so open with each other and when we realised we shared the same interest it felt so nice to be able to talk openly with someone. This seems a good outlet to talk to people I for one am happy to chat to people
 
I used to feel the same but I met a guy 4 years ago and we become good friends and still are now and we have been so open with each other and when we realised we shared the same interest it felt so nice to be able to talk openly with someone. This seems a good outlet to talk to people I for one am happy to chat to people
Thanks! I am happy to chat. Im a little shy as I just found this site and am getting out of the shell a little. My little dirty secret I am admitting to.
 
Where i live, all things zoo are social suicide, so it is even hard to find friends with simmilar interests.
 
I completely agree with Tennisballs24. Human society looks upon itself as an apex species with all other 'animals' being inferior. This thinking began centuries ago when animals such as horses and dogs were kept for a purpose and not for companionship. What we as humans forget is that we TOO are in the kingdom animalia and are animals as well. As long as your interest involves consensual feelings between you and your 'partner', simply enjoy what they offer you as they TOO are benefitting from it.
 
I've had the same guilt. I think I might be over it now. No idea what to do about it though. It feels like I've had a weight lifted but a void is left also. Don't know where to fill it
 
Honestly same. I've never done anything before but I get off to porn and that makes me feel disgusting. I keep coming back though and I don't know why
 
So we Are a support group for each other. I would like to have someone to guide me and help me understand and identify more of this side of me
 
I feel guilty too. Specially when I watch porn, Cuz in some videos I feel that those animals don't want to be there, but I can't stop
 
I feel guilty too, even though I've wanted to have sex with dogs for a very, very long time. I want to have my first time with a dog but I'm also afraid of how I'll feel about myself after.

I wish I could live in a community of people that all share and encourage this interest. It hurts to feel like I always have to keep this part of me hidden.
 
I feel guilty too, even though I've wanted to have sex with dogs for a very, very long time. I want to have my first time with a dog but I'm also afraid of how I'll feel about myself after.

I wish I could live in a community of people that all share and encourage this interest. It hurts to feel like I always have to keep this part of me hidden.
hopefully you can find your community here
 
First of all, no regrets about liking this, or whatever you like in the past or in the future.
We are not able to control what we like or what we are atracted to, we can only control how we act about it.

Then, what is difficult is deciding if you accept it and keep it as a fantasy, or even if you act on it or else try to forget and unsee.

To myself, the third option is great... if you can do it. Personally, I would not be able and additionally trying to force it would drive me mad on my inhability, but I suppose this will depend on how strong that is on you.

Keeping asa fantasy, watching videos and so is not really that bad even if someone knows. Just a "kink" and a fantasy you would never think of doing yourself. If you are only curious it is possible you just move away from it all after me time and the first thousand videos :D

And going live on it... Be careful. Be very careful. If you like it, you may not have enough of it and "fall the pit" as to say and things will never be the same. But if you cometo dislike it. Ever.... THEN you will feel dirty and gilty for sure.

In my case, when I want to do something I feel could count as a turn in life. O feel like something stupid, for the matter, what I do is tryto calculate all the possible outcomes, specially the worst case possible, and the risk and consequences. If all in all I am ready to accept it even if things turn out for bad, at least there is no regret to have. I knew and accepted.
Or to say it differently. I think... "This is the worst possible case and is not probable. If things go wrong and I could go back with only the knowledge I have now, would I still be taking the same decision, or am I aware NOW it is a very bad idea?

Yes, I also use this because I can put measures to try to cut losses or reduce risk for the worst outcome I could imagine.

So. No regrets on wishes and tastes, but pave your way upfront to avoid feeling guilt for any acting on impulse.
 
I feel guilty too, even though I've wanted to have sex with dogs for a very, very long time. I want to have my first time with a dog but I'm also afraid of how I'll feel about myself after.

I wish I could live in a community of people that all share and encourage this interest. It hurts to feel like I always have to keep this part of me hidden.
I think the most Important is to do It in a safe way
 
I think the same.

Sometimes I just want to found "normal" videos, one in were the animal doesn't seem to be forced to do what It's doing. :(
I highly recommend checking out the porn threads on here! Videos can sometimes take a while to load but usually they’re worth it, I’d never seen animals enjoy sex so much until this site! I avoided most zoo porn on the internet for a long time bc I can’t really enjoy it if I feel like the animal might be in pain, but I’ve realllyyy liked a lot of the stuff posted here
 
I feel guilty too, even though I've wanted to have sex with dogs for a very, very long time. I want to have my first time with a dog but I'm also afraid of how I'll feel about myself after.

I wish I could live in a community of people that all share and encourage this interest. It hurts to feel like I always have to keep this part of me hidden.
Just keep in mind to be careful while you search likeminded people. Finding partners can be truly fullfiling, but it does entail a risk.
 
I feel guilty for liking this. What is wrong with me? Why is is so hard to find someone to talk to about this. I need som kind of a mentor who can guide me. Please help me accept this part of me
@Chfr707 I have been zoo for over 50 years, yes I have felt guilty, ashamed and weird over the years, have I been able to change or stop my love or lust for animals, no! have I tried to repress my sexuality yes has it worked nope. Has Zooville helped me yes a lot, wish we had ZV 40 years ago my life would have been way different. Accepting who/how I am has been a long process, knowing that I am not the only one on the planet also helps. there are lots of good people here, we are all only scum in the eyes of most societies, we are not that, just misunderstood, I do not condone any cruelty or forcing of animals. Stay safe have fun and good luck learning who you are
 
I have had these feelings As long as I can remember. I am almost 70...yes I am glad I found about others 20 years ago.....but sad to see the changes in the laws.
It used to be no big thing legally, years ago most people grew up on farms and it was part of life. People looked down on it because of religion....but not because of present day thinking of animal abuse. I have never abused an animal in my life...I contribute to several horse rescue places....I do not eat beef because I am attracted to cows...being a zoo is part of my life....i can’t separate from it...it is the love of horses, dogs, deer, cows...etc....and yes sexual desire but that is only a small part of it.
I feel bad about what people think about us.....I am very sad and hurt about the laws that make us criminals.....the internet brought us together....but sadly it mobilized the animal rights groups to falsely put zoophiles in the same category of animal abusers....all because of zoo tourism....and the porn industry....
This is normal for me ......I do not know how to feel any other way.
So instead of guilt.....I feel extreme hurt for being different and misunderstood.
So we all have to learn to live with these feelings.
Our sexuality does not define us.....it is just an element of our personality just like a normal person sexual attraction to another human. Our love and deep caring is the same as anyone else who shares their life with an animal....only ours includes sex.....mutual sex...as we would never treat someone we love, respect, care for and cherish, with any less that how we would want to be treated, because they are a different species.
 
I always feel guilty, talking to people here has helped though x
while you feel guilty... Are sexual gratification and orgasm the only reason to have sex with a dog? Is it that satisfying and addicting?
English is not my mother tongue.
Because gender is a sexual minority, it is oppressed by the logic of the majority. Even if a social consensus that can come out is not formed, there is no need to feel ashamed or guilty of yourself.
 
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I apologize if it is in the wrong place in This forum.

I feel guilty for liking this. What is wrong with me? Why is is so hard to find someone to talk to about this. I need som kind of a mentor who can guide me. Please help me accept this part of me
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