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Everytime a man disappoints me it makes me want to become a zoo

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phantasyencore

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Im 24F currently single, am pretty attractive, but the men that get attracted to me just want a no-strings attached relationship. They only want to hookup and not bother with getting to know me. Chat with a guy, seems like it's going well, then he ghosts me or can't commit and it's supperrrrrr frustrating. Dating apps make me depressed too so I avoid them.

I value having connection and if I end up not being able to find a committed partner then my backup plan is to get a male dog as lover. Never done zoo before but the current dating scene is pushing my thoughts into doing more.
 
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phantasyencore said:
am not ugly and pretty attractive
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That is an intriguing sentence.
I am not ugly, that is ok, you are not ugly but the second part and pretty attractive means you are both not ugly and at the same time not pretty attractive. :p

phantasyencore said:
Dating apps make me depressed too so I avoid them.
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That looks to be the default state of their operation.

phantasyencore said:
I value having connection and if I end up not being able to find a committed partner then my backup plan is to get a male dog as lover.
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While having an animal partner is amazing, it is not the same as having a human partner.
So unless you understand the implications of that, you will not be satisfied either.
 
phantasyencore said:
Im 24F currently single, am pretty attractive, but the men that get attracted to me just want a no-strings attached relationship. Chat with a guy, seems like it's going well, then he ghosts me or can't commit and it's supperrrrrr frustrating. Dating apps make me depressed too so I avoid them.

I value having connection and if I end up not being able to find a committed partner then my backup plan is to get a male dog as lover. Never done zoo before but the current dating scene is pushing my thoughts into doing more.
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Sorry to hear you are having such a bad time with it! :( But if they want that kind of relationship you just have to accept that hes not the right one for you anyways, when the right man presents himself its gonna fly sparks and feel right :)
 
phantasyencore said:
Im 24F currently single, am pretty attractive, but the men that get attracted to me just want a no-strings attached relationship. They only want to hookup and not bother with getting to know me. Chat with a guy, seems like it's going well, then he ghosts me or can't commit and it's supperrrrrr frustrating. Dating apps make me depressed too so I avoid them.

I value having connection and if I end up not being able to find a committed partner then my backup plan is to get a male dog as lover. Never done zoo before but the current dating scene is pushing my thoughts into doing more.
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Why not do it anyway. You could be sexually fulfilled at home while you wait to find the right guy 😉
 
I didn't end up in the stables or with a dog in the bedroom because the women disappointed me. It just went the way it went, and the mares and female dogs have never been substitutes. Perhaps you haven't met the right guy yet. Perhaps the guy that want commitment is too shy to ask you. Or perhaps the dogs can give you what men cannot give you. Whatever it is, love the dogs for who they are in their own right.

And yes, dating apps suck big time.
 
phantasyencore said:
Im 24F currently single, am pretty attractive, but the men that get attracted to me just want a no-strings attached relationship. They only want to hookup and not bother with getting to know me. Chat with a guy, seems like it's going well, then he ghosts me or can't commit and it's supperrrrrr frustrating. Dating apps make me depressed too so I avoid them.

I value having connection and if I end up not being able to find a committed partner then my backup plan is to get a male dog as lover. Never done zoo before but the current dating scene is pushing my thoughts into doing more.
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they got plenty good guys out there. where exactly are you meeting these guys?

maybe pm me. im an owner. would love a gf if you can deal with me working a lot. maybe even help me watch my dog whiles im out working. that would be beneficial. but i dont think bad luck should determine a decision like that to give on men.

ive had bad luck and good luck i never gave up on looking for a gf even though i haven't found one yet.

but if you want best of both worlds pm me lets chat im an owner.
 
Flµff said:
Go to to dogs if you like dogs.
Don't go to dogs if you have had enough of men.

Personnaly, I've always prefered dogs and got bored with STIs.
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why were you getting sti? ive only gotten a few in my early years when i first bacame sexually active. never after that. at some point you have to learn to be responsible and not just have random sex without talking about it.
 
Are you really attracted to animals? I mean, there is a risk that dogs won't be your thing. I would encourage you to keep faith in men, at least for a little more time. There is still a chance to have a good, healthy, normal same-species relationship. There are good specimens out there (not me tho 😄).
 
We're not getting the whole story here... if you're going for the Chads, then you'll get a Chad. That could be a reason. Also, if a man notices you that might have stability issues of some kind, financial, mental etc, that could be a factor. There are many reasons a guy would not want to stick around with a woman. Age range you're dating in is also a factor, the younger the guy, the higher the chance he won't commit. Take it form a guys who's seen and experienced a lot.
 
phantasyencore said:
Im 24F currently single, am pretty attractive, but the men that get attracted to me just want a no-strings attached relationship. They only want to hookup and not bother with getting to know me. Chat with a guy, seems like it's going well, then he ghosts me or can't commit and it's supperrrrrr frustrating. Dating apps make me depressed too so I avoid them.

I value having connection and if I end up not being able to find a committed partner then my backup plan is to get a male dog as lover. Never done zoo before but the current dating scene is pushing my thoughts into doing more.
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Dating apps are used to get sex, not relations.
Feminists and metoo women are ruined relations for everyone for years, so no wonder you can't find a good man. Men don't want women who adds nothing except problems, don't listen them, and in the end take out their money and children.
 
phantasyencore said:
Im 24F currently single, am pretty attractive, but the men that get attracted to me just want a no-strings attached relationship. They only want to hookup and not bother with getting to know me. Chat with a guy, seems like it's going well, then he ghosts me or can't commit and it's supperrrrrr frustrating. Dating apps make me depressed too so I avoid them.

I value having connection and if I end up not being able to find a committed partner then my backup plan is to get a male dog as lover. Never done zoo before but the current dating scene is pushing my thoughts into doing more.
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Maybe try church or look for someone that cares about his career. You are looking on dodgy places designed for hookups lol
 
phantasyencore said:
Im 24F currently single, am pretty attractive, but the men that get attracted to me just want a no-strings attached relationship. They only want to hookup and not bother with getting to know me. Chat with a guy, seems like it's going well, then he ghosts me or can't commit and it's supperrrrrr frustrating. Dating apps make me depressed too so I avoid them.

I value having connection and if I end up not being able to find a committed partner then my backup plan is to get a male dog as lover. Never done zoo before but the current dating scene is pushing my thoughts into doing more.
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I would love to get to know you. Let’s talk the dog thing we can explore together but I am very interested in knowing you inside and out. I’m single and very open for anything.
 
Real.

Side note: I see many girls post “the only man I need videos” and the man in question is their dog. Typically these videos are jokes, but I wonder how many have opened up to zoo because of this.
 
😄 😄 I'm imagining what would happen if she gets the dog. "So I totally got the dog,it only wanted to hook up and not bother getting to know me which is superrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr frustratinggggggggg. If I can't get a commited partner out of him, then my backup backup plan is to get a snapping turtle."
 
phantasyencore said:
Im 24F currently single, am pretty attractive, but the men that get attracted to me just want a no-strings attached relationship. They only want to hookup and not bother with getting to know me. Chat with a guy, seems like it's going well, then he ghosts me or can't commit and it's supperrrrrr frustrating. Dating apps make me depressed too so I avoid them.

I value having connection and if I end up not being able to find a committed partner then my backup plan is to get a male dog as lover. Never done zoo before but the current dating scene is pushing my thoughts into doing more.
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A dog can do things for you that a man cannot but it's still not a committed relationship that you're looking for. I don't understand the younger generations I'd love to find someone.
 
phantasyencore said:
Im 24F currently single, am pretty attractive, but the men that get attracted to me just want a no-strings attached relationship. They only want to hookup and not bother with getting to know me. Chat with a guy, seems like it's going well, then he ghosts me or can't commit and it's supperrrrrr frustrating. Dating apps make me depressed too so I avoid them.

I value having connection and if I end up not being able to find a committed partner then my backup plan is to get a male dog as lover. Never done zoo before but the current dating scene is pushing my thoughts into doing more.
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You are so young, there's no rush, the right guy will cum along. In the meantime a handsome energetic dog will keep you very happy. 🤗😘
 
Most guys are only looking for sex, especially at your age. I wouldn’t give up hope yet lol

Like someone else said being zoo isn’t the same as having a husband. To me, there is always a piece missing without a human companion. Yes I’m sexually fulfilled but not emotionally. With horses at least they aren’t loving. They’ll seek your company, be playful, love enjoying time with you, but they won’t comfort you after a bad day any more than a stuffed bear would. They can emotionally stabilize you but they can’t help you work through a personal issue at work. They can’t go out to dinner, or to a movie. There’s a lot they can do but like I said, to me, there’s always a piece missing. Doesn’t help that my colt is an asshole. But he’s fun to be around and super playful. Dogs are a bit different. They’ll comfort you when you’re upset but again, they can’t sit down and help with a budget, make dinner when you’re exhausted, share how your day went, give you a ride to the mechanic when your car breaks down. They’re amazing creatures and are great to have around, but a well rounded relationship they are not.
 
phantasyencore said:
Im 24F currently single, am pretty attractive, but the men that get attracted to me just want a no-strings attached relationship. They only want to hookup and not bother with getting to know me. Chat with a guy, seems like it's going well, then he ghosts me or can't commit and it's supperrrrrr frustrating. Dating apps make me depressed too so I avoid them.

I value having connection and if I end up not being able to find a committed partner then my backup plan is to get a male dog as lover. Never done zoo before but the current dating scene is pushing my thoughts into doing more.
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this is hook up culture in action, sadly welcome to the cess pool that short sighted fools built for us under the guise of "revolution"

The left has demonized any idea of having a family for so long, it is harder to find a serious partner who is intent on having a normal family any more.
 
0verfl0wz said:
Maybe try church or look for someone that cares about his career. You are looking on dodgy places designed for hookups lol
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or she can try farmers and long term workers.

Serious people are not flashy, or what current society considers sexy, We're usually tired, covered in dirt, grease, shit (Especially doing live stock).

In the end though there is food on the table, a roof, and a quiet peaceful place.
 
offgridk9lover2 said:
this is hook up culture in action, sadly welcome to the cess pool that short sighted fools built for us under the guise of "revolution"

The left has demonized any idea of having a family for so long, it is harder to find a serious partner who is intent on having a normal family any more.
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Whoa there bud. “The left” wants a family just as much as anyone else. Let’s leave the politics to the dumpster.
 
kyhorse said:
They’ll comfort you when you’re upset but again, they can’t sit down and help with a budget, make dinner when you’re exhausted, share how your day went, give you a ride to the mechanic when your car breaks down. They’re amazing creatures and are great to have around, but a well rounded relationship they are not.
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Thanks for saying this portion. Not to say anyone can't go it alone, I'm sure, but I see what a lot of people write and I get a sense of lots of magical thinking around this. I think the userbase skews young, from what I can tell, so I'm sure there's heavy romanticism at play. I'm not even saying there's an objective right or wrong choice, it's just with every possible combo there are inherent plusses and minuses like with everything else, so it's best to acknowledge them to be able to balance best. I'm really trying to figure out a way to structure my shit where I can still get the deep intellectual connection of a person but the physicality of an animal with some overlap between that I'm still unsure of. Shit ain't easy and it's sometimes frustrating to read people that have simplified the considerations into cartoonish nonsense.
 
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