DogWhore4U
Citizen of Zooville
There is a barrier between men and women when it comes to the whole social factor. This is primarily because of the different ways our brains function from the other biological sex. Without getting too scientific and complex here, we'll sum up the result of brain functionality and the result that differs. Women's brains primarily function on emotional response, while men's primarily function on logical initiative. This does not mean that men aren't intuned to emotion or not capable of it, or even indulge or express themselves, and it doesn't mean women can't function on logic, it just means this is the scientific default of brain operation.
In general interaction between men and women, especially an intimate connection, there's usually a gap here, which is defined by the scientific differences of our default brain functionality. A woman's appeal to a man may be subject to dismissal and overlooking, while a man's appeal to a woman may be likewise.
It becomes even more complex with Zoos, particularly those seeking a zoo-compatible relation. The social restraint giving way to a social barrier on top of the one that already exists. Furthermore, I have found that there is an anti-social norm among Zoos in general. We will not be getting into psychology here on this, but I wanted to get this thread up to help bridge a social gap between women and men here. A thread where men can learn from women, and women can learn from men, and where they can apply it to their real lives for a better success in relationships. Helping each other understand some of the universal factors of the opposite gender from a social-perspective.
Through my personal experiences, I have found most of the women I've been with to interact with body language and eye contact, something most men are oblivious to. I have had an encounter with a zoo girl also, where the social interaction was several times harder than your average relationship, and most of her appeals to me were in cat talk...Meow. Something that as a dominant man, and insecure to express myself in such ways (including animal role play, pet play, dance - even if masculine) found myself struggling to get to know her, and my manly straight forward approach of socialization was too much for her.
I'd like women and men to post here openly and honestly, on their dos and dont's with the opposite gender. Share your struggles in communications with the opposite gender. Share your struggles and barriers with other zoos and opposite gender, and what would be a struggle in socializing with the opposite gender if they were a zoo. Explain how you would go about it, and take insight from the opposite gender-Zoo on how that may be accepted and indulged, resented or altered so we have a better understanding of each other's universal social norms.
I think the hardest thing for me personally, is when I'm with a lady, i need to know if she's a zoo right away. Because I'm only interested in a zoo-compatible woman, and I don't want to waste time or money for some unforeseeable time, only to find out she's not a Zoo. It's happened to me many times. The other issue I have, is that when I do find out we share zoo interest, it then becomes too sexual or fast-paced, where I'm now getting very sexually aroused by her sensual body language, gestures, and flirts when I want to get to know her better, because I'm afraid to fuck her right away because I know id get her pregnant, and I'd be destroyed if we later found out we don't work together and she tries taking my kids from me, or my kids have to live without mommy or daddy. But in her mind, of I don't fuck when she wants, then it's over.
In general interaction between men and women, especially an intimate connection, there's usually a gap here, which is defined by the scientific differences of our default brain functionality. A woman's appeal to a man may be subject to dismissal and overlooking, while a man's appeal to a woman may be likewise.
It becomes even more complex with Zoos, particularly those seeking a zoo-compatible relation. The social restraint giving way to a social barrier on top of the one that already exists. Furthermore, I have found that there is an anti-social norm among Zoos in general. We will not be getting into psychology here on this, but I wanted to get this thread up to help bridge a social gap between women and men here. A thread where men can learn from women, and women can learn from men, and where they can apply it to their real lives for a better success in relationships. Helping each other understand some of the universal factors of the opposite gender from a social-perspective.
Through my personal experiences, I have found most of the women I've been with to interact with body language and eye contact, something most men are oblivious to. I have had an encounter with a zoo girl also, where the social interaction was several times harder than your average relationship, and most of her appeals to me were in cat talk...Meow. Something that as a dominant man, and insecure to express myself in such ways (including animal role play, pet play, dance - even if masculine) found myself struggling to get to know her, and my manly straight forward approach of socialization was too much for her.
I'd like women and men to post here openly and honestly, on their dos and dont's with the opposite gender. Share your struggles in communications with the opposite gender. Share your struggles and barriers with other zoos and opposite gender, and what would be a struggle in socializing with the opposite gender if they were a zoo. Explain how you would go about it, and take insight from the opposite gender-Zoo on how that may be accepted and indulged, resented or altered so we have a better understanding of each other's universal social norms.
I think the hardest thing for me personally, is when I'm with a lady, i need to know if she's a zoo right away. Because I'm only interested in a zoo-compatible woman, and I don't want to waste time or money for some unforeseeable time, only to find out she's not a Zoo. It's happened to me many times. The other issue I have, is that when I do find out we share zoo interest, it then becomes too sexual or fast-paced, where I'm now getting very sexually aroused by her sensual body language, gestures, and flirts when I want to get to know her better, because I'm afraid to fuck her right away because I know id get her pregnant, and I'd be destroyed if we later found out we don't work together and she tries taking my kids from me, or my kids have to live without mommy or daddy. But in her mind, of I don't fuck when she wants, then it's over.
