BDSM and Bestiality: Some thoughts on psychology and emotion

ArcherNorth

Tourist
I have had Power Exchange as a part of my sexuality from the very beginning. My first relationship was power imbalanced, and all of my important romantic/sexual relationships since have also had that element (and I am over 50). I am a very long time Dominant, and when I have a counter-part, a "Master" in the sense that I control my partner's sexuality completely and change/modify/mold it to my liking. Please note that this post is only my opinion and perspective, and while I am writing from a M-Dom/f-sub perspective, these dynamics also come into play in other combinations, and I'm using that perspective for my writing convenience. This is also primarily from the perspective of the submissive being on the receiving end of a male's attention. This is also distinct from an actual "Zoo" as I'm talking about the animal partner as an aspect of a D/s relationship, and while one can have deep feelings for the stud (I love my dogs), the romantic dynamic is primarily between the "human" parties rather than the dynamic of an actual Zoo-romantic relationship. The title of this forum, "Bestiality as a Fetish", applies nicely here.

Now the practice of Bestiality in a Power Exchange can have several branches, some practice one, some blend several. As I have seen it, there is the "branch" of using it as erotic humiliation, the branch of finding someone's more "primal" sexuality, and as part of regression of the human bitch/mare/furry/receiving party to an animal/pet. I have had submissives desire all three types of branches, and also see it in the fantasies presented here on this forum.

The idea of bestiality as one of the "ultimate" taboos can have both the attraction of a submissive/slave giving something very private to their Master/Mistress, and of making that submissive very vulnerable. This can be an extension of the "humbling" or even "breaking" aspect of erotic humiliation. The submissive is shown as completely compliant to their owner's wishes, to the point that bestiality is often at the far end of "I'll do anything". This can foster a sense of dependence of the Dominant, this can also foster a sense of deep intimacy as well, as the two now share something so "forbidden", with the Dominant ordering the act and the submissive complying.

The idea of bringing a submissive to such as sense of desire and "wantonness" that they will fuck Anything is a related sense. The submissive takes the risk of rejection by their Dominant when they are seen in such a state, that they'll be "too slutty" for the Dominant to handle. This is where a Dominant ordering the act, or even more so if the Dominant turns it into a program where the submissive is brought along slowly and in stages can foster further intimacy. The submissive progressing through states of viewing porn, keeping a journal about their feelings related to becoming a "bitch" or "mare", finding or specifying a partner type, and the progressive training and conditioning. This can become very elaborate, with signals and conditioning on both sides, such as edging or only being allowed orgasm when viewing acts or when reading certain types of stories, conditioning the stud to know when the human "bitch" is available, making up rules and protocols around when/how the act is permitted, buying toys that allow for stretching or getting the submissive used to their new duties, etc. This can tie into a desire for structure for a submissive as well as the sensual feelings that only an animal partner could provide.

In my mind the branch of a submissive who wants to be a "pet" in the sense of no human responsibilities is the simplest. If a girl is a "puppy", then obviously Master takes care of her, but she's fucked by a more Dominant dog or other stud. It's a last link to her being a "not human".

Blending all or some of these aspects is rewarding to me. Beyond the physical, it's the mental and ritualistic aspects that I enjoy so much.
A few of the practices that I've found rewarding:
* Specifying an outfit or type of lingerie for when she is expected to be in "bitch" mode. This is also useful for the stud as he'll know when he can "push" sexually vs. when the submissive needs to be in control as it gives the stud a visual cue.
* Creating a new protocol manual for this "mode" of service. If the Dom wants the submissive to be available to the stud, maybe a different name can be used to tell them that they are now under these different rules and protocols. This can also be used as a key-word for the stud to again know that the submissive is "his" at that time vs. when they are in a normal power structure.
* Adding other controls to a submissive's sexuality. For example, she is given a period of time when she is ONLY allowed to cum when being fucked by her stud. Further along in the training, maybe a restriction of only being allowed to cum when her stud has mounted her and she is also servicing her Master/Mistress orally at the same time, etc. Making these conditions conditions the submissive to relate pleasure to when she is serving her stud.
* Bondage and service. This can become another visual cue for the stud, although expect to have to take some time training the behaviors and customizing the bondage table/rack/etc. to the stud's physical dimensions so that he can mount easily and successfully. Leaving a submissive in a "breeding rack" for a period of time allows them to entirely sink into the "I had no choice but to enjoy it" mind-set that can allow highly repressed personalities to finally relax into their sexuality. The fact that the stimulus is, again, "so taboo" can give an interesting push to the scene. The Dominant walking away and possibly filming the time for later viewing can also be used as a erotic lever when viewed with the submissive ("Just look at how you started to want it, to move with him, to encourage him....")

Just a few thoughts that I'll leave here for the community to enjoy and comment on.
-Archer North
 
Wow that was fascinating and hot to read! Hope to find a master like you someday that can lead their sub along one or all of these branches. I definitely would want to be a breeding bitch that is at the very bottom of a household power dynamic.
 

Bucephalus

Tourist
Very interesting, I can definitely see the parallels and the way the dynamic could evolve in a fun way. However, I do believe it is very important that enthusiastic consent is maintained at all stages, and that play with an animal of any kind is something the sub wants before, during and after while in a sober, uncompromising state of mind. Unless previously discussed I do not believe it should be teased or used as any kind of punishment. So just be sure that is accounted for as well in the dynamic.
As I'm sure you already know, just be sure to practice safe words and go slow. For long term happiness and success with you and your sub it needs to be established that you guys' goals all match up in this way.
 
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