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Acts of love are for mutual security

MarlinCatch3

Zooville Settler
I don’t have experience with dog love and I don’t know a zoo lover I can ask. This forum of all places on the web has made me contemplate why we love. Let’s consider the example of a single woman loving and mating with her male dog partner.

Her pawed partner lives with her in her home and she provides shelter, nourishment, medical treatment, grooming, hygiene and sex for him. All of his basic needs are cared for. He gives up social interaction with a pack, knowing his exact hierarchy in the pack for survival and perhaps the romantic freedom that comes from the call of the wild. However, in a pack, the dog would be lucky to mate unless he is the Alfa male and even then only rarely when the bitches are in heat. He would also find himself in serious contention with competitors. Also in a pack his individualism is neutered. It seems to be a favorable trade for the dog and hence we’d say moral.

The woman receives much in return. Her partner is loyal beyond imagination. He protects her against intruders.He becomes her companion welcoming her home from work. They have play dates at the park or beach and he provides her with a healthy social lifestyle outside the house. He becomes an ice breaker, or even stirs the pot when conversation is lacking. He gives her purpose and meaning in life. Her life is fulfilled. These are basic human needs she gets from her mate without any baggage, drama or bullshit. I’m saying the woman benefits already from the meaning her lover brings to her life even without the sex.

The bargains laid out above benefit the woman and her dog lover but the bargains do not provide security. People find security through marriage, contracts and trust from social connnections/shaming. A woman and dog need sex to secure the bargain. A dog cant sign a contract or know he is married. In a pack his position is secure. He knows he wont be abandoned. The pack needs him for survival and he needs the pack. They hunt together and the feeble and young are secured, they share in the spoils. The dog doesn’t have this guarantee when he is adopted by a person. When he ties with his lover he is securing his contract with her. She is writhing and moaning in response to how he possesses her. He knows he owns her. At the same time he becomes dominant in the relationship and knows she cant abandon him. Heck she cant even get away from thim. And as far as he is concerned his mate is now being bred. He knows instinctively she needs him around to protect their offspring. He feels secure and the bargain is sealed.

Now think about the woman. She no longer needs to worry about her husband becoming drunk, abusive, or abandoning her after she has children. She doesn’t even need children, her dog has already brought meaning to her life. When she is in need of copulation as she ovulates he is there to sense her out, mount her, thrust within her and satisfy her mating urge. When she is tied she is fulfilled sexually and safely. She remembers him the next day at work as he continues to leak from her. She is bonded to him psychologically through the act of sex and cant get him out of her mind. His roughness leaves an impression on her that he needs her more than anything and if she provides her womb to him he will commit to her. Some weeks will be rough as he seals the bargain frequently and other times that may relax in the park. Either way the couple breaks the tie knowing they are mutually secure in their relationship.

I see the knotting as a psychological bonding, it’s like a contract or marriage is being signed between the woman and her dog.

I hopeI’m not too far off.
 
i like how you still describe the woman as "single" despite having a partner.
don't think there's any need to read past that in this iteration of "zoo-wife seeker's ramblings"

let me guess, "something something the male is or becomes dominant" because you are unable to grasp that it's the bottom that let's the sex happen?, maybe "something something he fulfills her "urge to breed"" because women only exist to get fucked?
 
I’m not claiming my analysis comprehensively covers everyone’s experience with dog-woman relationships. Everyone of course has a unique way they experience their relationship. I do think the tie is going to be a deep psychological bonding with one’s partner. And I do think it can reinforce the relationship. Fwiw I dont typically comment on a post unless I’ve read the post. I try to learn, understand and not be presumptive.
 
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