Married but alone in this ... you too?

I am fairly new here and not sure if this thread will be helpful or just duplicative (if so feel free to ignore), but I see a few conversations going back a ways about married persons (male and female) either who can't tell their partner, their partner isn't interested, etc.. Thought maybe a consolidated thread for those of us in that situation might be a good way for some us to share our interests and experiences, what we hope to get out of being here, connect with like-minded individuals, etc. Or is there a group for this or should there be (I have no idea how the groups work lol)? Or feel free to message me directly if you want to discuss. My preference is to discuss not so much what's wrong with our current situation or partner (some people just aren't into it) but focus on more on what we can do to feel more fulfilled living with this interest. Hopefully that makes sense to someone out there. :)
 
I feel in the same situation but in a lapse of courage I told my wife that I was in a whatssapp group that had sent a video of a dog fucking a woman. she said: "what a horror, go out and denounce this group". it was a cold water bath.
I wouldn't say a lapse in courage but just testing the waters. But yea, I can understand the water was cold and offered not much in the way of hope for including her in your interest. As was said in another thread, some (many) are not into this and you can't force them to be. So hopefully you can find people here and other places to support your interests. You are NOT alone.
 
I wouldn't say a lapse in courage but just testing the waters. But yea, I can understand the water was cold and offered not much in the way of hope for including her in your interest. As was said in another thread, some (many) are not into this and you can't force them to be. So hopefully you can find people here and other places to support your interests. You are alone.
Thank you for your support.
 
I am fairly new here and not sure if this thread will be helpful or just duplicative (if so feel free to ignore), but I see a few conversations going back a ways about married persons (male and female) either who can't tell their partner, their partner isn't interested, etc.. Thought maybe a consolidated thread for those of us in that situation might be a good way for some us to share our interests and experiences, what we hope to get out of being here, connect with like-minded individuals, etc. Or is there a group for this or should there be (I have no idea how the groups work lol)? Or feel free to message me directly if you want to discuss. My preference is to discuss not so much what's wrong with our current situation or partner (some people just aren't into it) but focus on more on what we can do to feel more fulfilled living with this interest. Hopefully that makes sense to someone out there. :)
My wife would leave me in a second. There’s no bringing up at all. I would love to see her knotted but that would never happen. I left to my own devices dreaming about it.
 
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