Was all set to meet someone off here, but he was a flake

Gsd4ever

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I talked to a guy on here for weeks. All hours of the day, lots of no face photos, etc. He had a dog who was experienced and he loved watching and getting sloppy seconds. Lot of kinks matched up for us. I was so excited! We kept planning to meet but things kept coming up- occasionally on my side, constantly on his side. He would say alright we are meeting tonight! And then I wouldn't hear from him until the following day with an excuse.

We were supposed to meet last Friday night. Last I heard was 8pm. He would normally answer my message within about 5 hours, and if we were both online then it would be a contonous chat for a while. On Saturday I messaged him "Honestly I'm starting to think you don't wanna actually meet and it's just a fantasy. If that's it, that's fine. I can start looking elsewhere for a guy and a dog and just dirty talk with you. I'm cool with that. I just wanna know if that's what it is."

I havent heard from him since. Message still isn't saying read, but I'm pretty sure he has read and he bailed after realizing I know what's going on.

I was so excited :(
 
I'm sorry ...really sorry I know exactly what your going through.... people here are total flakes or stright fakes.....I've only ever had one great experience with meeting a fellow zoo and I'm truly hoping I can make more great connections but on so many accounts people talk themselves up then do not deliver.....or I'm cast aside without so much as a sentence because I'm male.....or if I meet a zoo they turn out to be very odd and nothing like they were online.

One day I hope things work out for you man. It will, it may take a long ass time but your luck will get better :)
 

It's super frustrating- I wanted him to tie me down and have his dog fuck me, he fuck me afterwards, swap until my pussy is gaping and messy. Isn't that kinda the dream for a lot of guys lol
That is a big fantasy of mine.
 
I think the same thing has happened to most of us.

I had two different women seemingly crawling out of their skin to have a get together with my pup and at the last minute both seemed to get cold feet.

I think it scared them when they came to the realization that I was for real and was not going to back out.

I have had some very good meets in the past but there have been a few disappointments as well.

You just take it for what it is.
 
I think the same thing has happened to most of us.

I had two different women seemingly crawling out of their skin to have a get together with my pup and at the last minute both seemed to get cold feet.

I think it scared them when they came to the realization that I was for real and was not going to back out.

I have had some very good meets in the past but there have been a few disappointments as well.

You just take it for what it is.
Yeah I hear you. I'm sure he is a real person with a real dog- I requested some very specific proof photos. But it's like when he realized that I'm serious he was like oh shit it's just a fantasy
 
I talked to a guy on here for weeks. All hours of the day, lots of no face photos, etc. He had a dog who was experienced and he loved watching and getting sloppy seconds. Lot of kinks matched up for us. I was so excited! We kept planning to meet but things kept coming up- occasionally on my side, constantly on his side. He would say alright we are meeting tonight! And then I wouldn't hear from him until the following day with an excuse.

We were supposed to meet last Friday night. Last I heard was 8pm. He would normally answer my message within about 5 hours, and if we were both online then it would be a contonous chat for a while. On Saturday I messaged him "Honestly I'm starting to think you don't wanna actually meet and it's just a fantasy. If that's it, that's fine. I can start looking elsewhere for a guy and a dog and just dirty talk with you. I'm cool with that. I just wanna know if that's what it is."

I havent heard from him since. Message still isn't saying read, but I'm pretty sure he has read and he bailed after realizing I know what's going on.

I was so excited :(
What ever you do, don't suggest there should be some system for members to verify they are who they claim to be.
You'll be burnt at the stake for suggesting such heresy!
 
I wish people like you were near me! I love to meet others and share the "love". I many....many....many ways! :husky_happysmile:
 
Sorry to hear that, that must have been really frustrating. I know I'd be really disappointed if I had experienced the same thing. I hope you don't let it bother you too much though, TBH it sounds like his loss. I hope you get a chance to meet someone more genuine and have better luck next time. Wishing you luck! 😄
 
He sounds like a real person with a dog and a WIFE. Probably kids, as well. Very uncool to have led you on like that. As a guy, I find that sort of deception to be a sign that you’re better off living the fantasy rather than actually meeting.
 
My goodness talk about all that wasted time you deserve better then someone leading you on then dropping you.

That kinda behavior is inexcusable. You dodged a bullet however whoever that ghoster was.

Im sure your a amazing individual you will find someone absolutely capable of doing great prolonged pleasurable activities. Based on your energy levels of how hyped you are theres no reason to be sad.
 
The reality of online- generated beasty relationships is this....Very, very few people are willing to take the chance of a realtime meet. It seems most of the dwellers in this world are convinced that there are plants in the ants, ears in the woodwork and reds under the beds. The type of fear that describes is mostly ego...." of COURSE theyre all out to get ME!". Some are of course, but its likely an inverse number to the belief of most people.
The need for instant or quick gratification is a big part of the issue. It takes time to develop any relationship, but only worthwhile people will do the work. You will find people that seem interesting and interested but when challenged to meet, they tend to revert to type. Add in the incels of all stripes, the burnt out, the basement dwellers and all the other possibles, and the pool is shrunken considerably.
Still, for those who ARE willing to do the work, the rewards are sweet.
 
most people online are fantasy-driven. we can remain anonymous and live out our most desired and deepest fantasies without any judgement or recourse.

to the OP... live and learn, plus you get the added benefit of being female so there are no shortages of men on here that will be spamming your inbox. just take your pick from the litter. good luck with the next venture and maybe vet the new guy up front with the expectation of meeting sooner than later or move on.
 
It's super frustrating- I wanted him to tie me down and have his dog fuck me, he fuck me afterwards, swap until my pussy is gaping and messy. Isn't that kinda the dream for a lot of guys lol

And that's the problem. If you are searching for a dream Szenario, you only get in contact with dreamers. If it soundslike it is to good, it probably is.

If you really wanna meet a zoo, the first meeting should be not about sex. If he's trying to get you with sexy pictures, and kinky promises, he's probably just a keyboard wanker, or a fake.
 
Typical online bullshit. Sorry it happened to you, but for whatever it's worth, judging from my experience, I'd say this happens a LOT more from the other side of the coin. It's a double shame when there ARE females willing to meet and some phantom online asshole jerks them off like this. I've met folks from here, but I've NOT met a whole lot more, 99% of those are just plain fucking fakes, flakes, and jerk offs chasing written fantasy bullshit. That's why I don't fuck around at all any more, I put that shit right on the table in front of them early on, that way when the excuses start, I can cut my losses sooner and save myself the time and frustration of wasted effort supporting some asshat's online fantasy.
 
Honestly....a flake isn't the worst that could happen....at least they just flaked and didn't backstab you and create lies about you. Shit that happens to me and these aren't even people I tried to meet on this site. It's abysmal how some people can be
 
That's totally true, and something folks need to think about. I don't worry too much about it because my window of acceptable personality compatibility is pretty small, but the possibility does exist. Not to put too fine a spin on it, but there are certain traits that get a person bounced from my list of possibles pretty fast. But, I chalk that up to experience mostly. That's hard to gain without doing, and the learning curve there can and sometimes is, BRUTAL.
 
That's totally true, and something folks need to think about. I don't worry too much about it because my window of acceptable personality compatibility is pretty small, but the possibility does exist. Not to put too fine a spin on it, but there are certain traits that get a person bounced from my list of possibles pretty fast. But, I chalk that up to experience mostly. That's hard to gain without doing, and the learning curve there can and sometimes is, BRUTAL.
That's totally true, and something folks need to think about. I don't worry too much about it because my window of acceptable personality compatibility is pretty small, but the possibility does exist. Not to put too fine a spin on it, but there are certain traits that get a person bounced from my list of possibles pretty fast. But, I chalk that up to experience mostly. That's hard to gain without doing, and the learning curve there can and sometimes is, BRUTAL.
Yea there are things on both sides that can turn a conversation...you can tell when someone is fishy ....and you can tell when someone is in it for the real deal....just sucks Because some people are good at playing a damn act...

It's not all bad though I've had one good experience one good meeting with a zoo who I concider family at this point. We met three times so far...I'd love to find more connections like that..but location and the shit nature of most people kills that idea...... hopefully some day.
 
I would say maybe it was for the best. Move on and try to find someone else. Take your time, don't rush it either. This kind of life style is something which is kind of hard to live up too. Good luck!
 
"If you find a starving dog and make it prosperous, it will not bite you. This is the principle difference between a dog and man."
— Mark Twain.
 
It's super frustrating- I wanted him to tie me down and have his dog fuck me, he fuck me afterwards, swap until my pussy is gaping and messy. Isn't that kinda the dream for a lot of guys lol
i mean it's going to be one of my dreams now ;)
 
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