Why is zoophilia such a sexualized community?

[bayareacpl]

Oh yeah, definitely seen some of those lol, always a fun read.

Yeah, but sometimes there's new stuff, never anything new with the niche stuff though, it's unfortunate

are you able to explain the dichotomy of being asexual on a sexuality oriented website while consuming pornography?

Nothing rude. I legitimately don’t get it.

 

[BrotatoChip]

are you able to explain the dichotomy of being asexual on a sexuality oriented website while consuming pornography?

Nothing rude. I legitimately don’t get it.

Maybe labeling myself as asexual to some degree I can jump in here a bit. Asexuality doesn't necessarily preclude sexual urge entirely, and large portions of attraction may be more from solo mental than cooperative physical interaction. This is where I'm at with it.

It's also exceedingly helpful as a shorthand when talking to people, because "It's complicated" raises many questions that "I'm asexual" does not. Sometimes I feel like a "fake" asexual, and I might be, but shit be messy out here homie. The label tightens things up quite a bit.

I also don't fly the flag, don't consider myself part of the LGBT crowd, and don't lean on it as a large part of my identity personally.

 

[Ginger_Ale]

are you able to explain the dichotomy of being asexual on a sexuality oriented website while consuming pornography?

Nothing rude. I legitimately don’t get it.

Yeah, no problem at all, I enjoy sating people's curiosity about me. While I am on the asexual spectrum, I'm not sex averse in any way, I just don't feel sexual attraction like most people, like if I were to go with a more specific label, it'd be demisexual or greysexual if you'd care enough to look them up lol, most don't.

To sum it up, I have aesthetic attraction rather than sexual attraction, I see things that I find pretty, but don't wanna fuck them, I'd be fine with sex if the opportunity presents itself, but I don't actively seek it out or desire it.

 

[bayareacpl]

Maybe labeling myself as asexual to some degree I can jump in here a bit. Asexuality doesn't necessarily preclude sexual urge entirely,

I thought that’s exactly what it means. That’s the reason for the confusion. I guess there is a spectrum, as with most things of this sort.

and large portions of attraction may be more from solo mental than cooperative physical interaction. This is where I'm at with it.

I feel that. The older I get, the less interesting it becomes.

It's also exceedingly helpful as a shorthand when talking to people, because "It's complicated" raises many questions that "I'm asexual" does not.

I understand that part for sure. When I tell people I’m a woman that dislikes being penetrated their fucking heads explode. It just cannot be!

Sometimes I feel like a "fake" asexual, and I might be, but shit be messy out here homie. The label tightens things up quite a bit.

Makes sense

I also don't fly the flag, don't consider myself part of the LGBT crowd, and don't lean on it as a large part of my identity personally.

Neither do I. It’s nobody else’s business and it isn’t a personality aspect.

 

[BrotatoChip]

...like if I were to go with a more specific label, it'd be demisexual or greysexual if you'd care enough to look them up lol, most don't....

Yeah, this is the thing largely as well. I feel like I probably could find a hyper specific niche category that describes me more accurately, but I'm trying to use this a shorthand to trim down a conversation that I honestly find pretty boring, and as soon as people need to start googling stuff to keep up it's gone in a direction that is really inane. Asexual is the closest thing that's at least on the periphery of understanding for folks.

Like, I like electronic music a LOT, but people looooooooove to use microgenres that like, one group is making music in. Yeah, yeah, I get it. This isn't house music. It's dark ambient minimal micro tech house. Fantastic.

 

[bayareacpl]

Yeah, no problem at all, I enjoy sating people's curiosity about me. While I am on the asexual spectrum, I'm not sex averse in any way, I just don't feel sexual attraction like most people, like if I were to go with a more specific label, it'd be demisexual or greysexual if you'd care enough to look them up lol, most don't.

It’s unlikely to enter my life often. What you do shouldn’t matter to anyone if you aren’t hurting anyone. I just wondered about the dichotomy.

To sum it up, I have aesthetic attraction rather than sexual attraction, I see things that I find pretty, but don't wanna fuck them, I'd be fine with sex if the opportunity presents itself, but I don't actively seek it out or desire it.

Hmmm. I totally understand. Are you very young? This is naturally how it becomes as one ages and hormones change.

 

[Ginger_Ale]

It’s unlikely to enter my life often. What you do shouldn’t matter to anyone if you aren’t hurting anyone. I just wondered about the dichotomy.


Hmmm. I totally understand. Are you very young? This is naturally how it becomes as one ages and hormones change.

Yep, I'm 19, but been this way since I noticed my peers felt very differently about things.

 

[bayareacpl]

Yep, I'm 19, but been this way since I noticed my peers felt very differently about things.

You got that old lady sexual outlook welcome to the club. Let me hand you your official crochet hook.

To be frank, you just fast traveled past 25 years of bullshit. Congratulations

 

[Ginger_Ale]

You got that old lady sexual outlook welcome to the club. Let me hand you your official crochet hook.

To be frank, you just fast traveled past 25 years of bullshit. Congratulations

DUDE I LOVE CROCHET! My grandma taught me how, I even made a whole blanket, thinking about making it bigger though...

 

[FordLannock]

I think it's just a sexual thing. So much can be a "fetish" if looked at it from the outside. We all pee, but what makes it more exciting to watch someone else do it? At least for me liking to watch women. Driven my exes crazy wanting to watch and they just wanted to do what we all do everyday. Why as a young boy was the Victoria Secrets catalog exciting, it's just clothing, and then hitting a jackpot if we stumble on a Playboy in Dad's closet! Heck, I remember my friend and I stumbling on a Playboy in the bushes when we were in middle school. We went through it with a fine toothed comb splitting up the pictures between us. lol

It's probably partially wired in our head as exciting, could be because it isn't what people see or experience everyday. If you're on the outside, it's a fantasy, but maybe different if it's in your life. I want to win the lottery too. But maybe I'll be bored being rich! And I think I might have better odds with that fantasy than this one.

 

[Dogdaddy69]

I thought that’s exactly what it means. That’s the reason for the confusion. I guess there is a spectrum, as with most things of this sort.


I feel that. The older I get, the less interesting it becomes.

I understand that part for sure. When I tell people I’m a woman that dislikes being penetrated their fucking heads explode. It just cannot be!

Makes sense


Neither do I. It’s nobody else’s business and it isn’t a personality aspect.

My head didnt explode, but you did just make me spit coffee thru my nose.....does that count?

Seriously, the way you said that part about not liking being penetrated made me laugh pretty damn hard.....peoples reaction to the news, I mean.

And on your last point.......I just do not understand people who are a sum total of any one single aspect.........people like that are just so fucking shallow and I find them very tedious....I would say I pity them, if I actually suffered from that affliction, but I only use that word because I have no better description for how I see them.....unless that word is maybe....non-entity........

 

[bayareacpl]

My head didnt explode, but you did just make me spit coffee thru my nose.....does that count?

Seriously, the way you said that part about not liking being penetrated made me laugh pretty damn hard.....peoples reaction to the news, I mean.

And on your last point.......I just do not understand people who are a sum total of any one single aspect.........people like that are just so fucking shallow and I find them very tedious....I would say I pity them, if I actually suffered from that affliction, but I only use that word because I have no better description for how I see them.....unless that word is maybe....non-entity........

It’s wild. All the women I’ve told have said some version of “meh. makes sense.”

Every man I’ve ever told has either told me I’m lying/joking/wasting his time or he just stares at me like I’m a fuckin alien . Or <insert ACME Brand “you haven’t had mine yet” dick joke> Every. Single. Fucking. Quagmire. Time. Heh heh heh…. All riiiiight.

/kms

 

[BrotatoChip]

Or <insert ACME Brand “you haven’t had mine yet” dick joke> Every. Single. Fucking. Quagmire. Time. Heh heh heh…. All riiiiight.

/kms

Goddaaaaaaaaamn yes. This comes up with the ace thing all the goddamn time. People are like, cmon, I'll show you, it's fucking awesome. As though I've been waiting for the chance and it just hasn't come up until they came along.

 

[Dogdaddy69]

It’s wild. All the women I’ve told have said some version of “meh. makes sense.”

Every man I’ve ever told has either told me I’m lying/joking/wasting his time or he just stares at me like I’m a fuckin alien . Or <insert ACME Brand “you haven’t had mine yet” dick joke> Every. Single. Fucking. Quagmire. Time. Heh heh heh…. All riiiiight.

/kms

Honestly, I dont find it any type of challenge to MY manhood. My thought there is 'How the fuck could it possibly be?'

Its not like you tried mine and then decided none of that worked for you, lol

And I also dont seem to be single source wired straight from brain to dick either, so to me, looking at it rationally, I dont actually understand what these guys are actually thinking honestly.

To my thinking, having THAT view of things is right there with the whole and ENTIRE concept that anyone anywhere who is lesbian is just not being exposed to the correct (magic) cock and thats the reason why.......total fucking lunacy propped up entirely upon either an over-inflated ego or a severe lack of common fucking sense, or both.

 

[bayareacpl]

Honestly, I dont find it any type of challenge to MY manhood. My thought there is 'How the fuck could it possibly be?'

Its not like you tried mine and then decided none of that worked for you, lol

And I also dont seem to be single source wired straight from brain to dick either, so to me, looking at it rationally, I dont actually understand what these guys are actually thinking honestly.

To my thinking, having THAT view of things is right there with the whole and ENTIRE concept that anyone anywhere who is lesbian is just not being exposed to the correct (magic) cock and thats the reason why.......total fucking lunacy propped up entirely upon either an over-inflated ego or a severe lack of common fucking sense, or both.

Without a doubt. It’s so cliche and stereotypical, but this thing actually happens.

 

[Juan T]

There may a few things to do with this.

In my opinion, it could be because in forums like this, people want to share their sexuality with their partners; others come to see the content people upload. People don't usually talk first about how much we love our partners or how we enjoy sex and how it makes us feel happy and fulfilled, with a more loving perspective.

Sexual focus also varies between owners and non-owners, as the first can freely enjoy sexual with their partners and have the opportunity to experience happiness outside of sex.

This was my case. My mindset changed over the months with my dog. My sexual focus diminished, and I began to enjoy other activities a lot.

 

[BrotatoChip]

This was my case. My mindset changed over the months with my dog. My sexual focus diminished, and I began to enjoy other activities a lot.

Yes, yes. The wholesomeness my heart craves.