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What's Your Biggest Barrier To Meeting Others

Living situation, and most of all trust. On every level trust is the barrier. I don’t know the person, their intentions, their tendencies, hygiene, punctuality, etc. i would have to know the person irl and find out they are a zoo and that is the only way I’d ever do zoo with someone else. Otherwise it’s just a fantasy
 
it feels to me the fact that im a male in what seems like a majority male community where it seems only a small fraction are gay or bi is a pretty big barrier. i feel like if i had a pussy i think id have already gotten knotted a few times. but maybe the grass is just greener on the other side of the fence. to be very clear this isnt me being sexist just me sharing my personal experience as a bisexual man in zoo
 
labluv658 said:
it feels to me the fact that im a male in what seems like a majority male community where it seems only a small fraction are gay or bi is a pretty big barrier. i feel like if i had a pussy i think id have already gotten knotted a few times. but maybe the grass is just greener on the other side of the fence. to be very clear this isnt me being sexist just me sharing my personal experience as a bisexual man in zoo
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Haha you are definitely right there, if you had a pussy there's tons of simps on here that will pimp their boys out in no time. That also gives some women here a sense of empowerment i guess and just demand only owners talk to them. It makes me laugh because to me a hungry female is just as bad and cringy as a hungry dude. However I guess it is a bit of a double standard because women get away with it all the time but if a dude posted something like "only message me if you have a pussy for me" he would get roasted.

Anyway to the original post its trust for me and no one seems to want to put in the work to gain that trust.
 
Jester said:
As an owner, the only problem I have meeting is.... who. My state has almost nothing to offer. 90% of interactions I've had here are other men asking for "a turn".
When i had my male I had a few women that turned up, but for the same. Wanting to try their first dog. I even humored a few of the men. But it's never a friendship they are looking for. Just a chance.

Now I'm a bit more picky about who I let actually get close. I want to chat for a while. If we hit it off, a meeting is cool. If I don't feel it there, that's where it stops.
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This!!!
 
Knutshack said:
As the thread title says, what's your biggest barrier stopping you from meeting other zoos or getting experiences?

I know most people here aren't owners and are looking, but I mean providing you had the regular opportunity to have sex with animals, what would be the biggest barrier preventing you from meeting?

For example, parents? Family? Work? Not living alone? Etc
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I have my own dog who loves me a lot and is emotionally attached to me, so I don’t need another one. Moreover, it is illegal, the law is strict, and there is always a fear of getting caught. In India, society also doesn't accept it, so it becomes a question of reputation—what people, including my parents, will think of me.
 
I live alone and have my own dog. Although, I don't play with my dog, I allow other to. It's just about knowing who to trust. Don't allow any "proof" like pics or videos. At the end of the day it would be your word against theirs and what idiot is gonna go out themselves in order to out you. Use common sense and be careful. Don't advertise and don't tell others who are not directly involved.
 
CamoCowboy said:
Exactly what I was going to say.
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Second issue is hook up mentality, I don't waste time with hook ups, I want to find a good friend that we can help each other hands on, whether that be figuring out how to do a DP with a ewe, or pulling the box of a 30 year old truck that will require the plasma cutter for the bolts!

Add that to the distance issue, well I sleep very good at night and go through a lot of soap, doing it alone sucks.
 
labluv658 said:
it feels to me the fact that im a male in what seems like a majority male community where it seems only a small fraction are gay or bi is a pretty big barrier. i feel like if i had a pussy i think id have already gotten knotted a few times. but maybe the grass is just greener on the other side of the fence. to be very clear this isnt me being sexist just me sharing my personal experience as a bisexual man in zoo
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kinda wanna make this its own thread topic
 
Sophia_26 said:
I have my own dog who loves me a lot and is emotionally attached to me, so I don’t need another one. Moreover, it is illegal, the law is strict, and there is always a fear of getting caught. In India, society also doesn't accept it, so it becomes a question of reputation—what people, including my parents, will think of me.
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Besides what you said, and I said earlier, I 100% agree with you. I too have my own pup. So way take the risk when I too have a very caring and loving pup.
 
Definitely trust, not everyone is who they say they are especially on the internet. I’d love to meet someone that has the same interests as me, sexually or not.
 
Trust, too much to loose, if I’m caught my animals will get gelded or slaughtered, reputation, loss of job… lots. Would I like lots of friends? Sure. But not worth the risk. And those I talk to aren’t interested in a long conversation they just want an invite and done. I lay out basic rules and so far everyone disappears. (Rules like I want to get to know you and build trust, meet in a public place and see if we click, no one time visits, no bartering or bribing, etc. don’t think they’re crazy rules!)

At least I’m more open to both sexes lol would I love a responsible hot skinny young woman? Sure lol but I’m more open than that. It’s nice being bi, but tbh I’ve never even had more than a 5 line conversation with a zoo woman.
 
Geographical location.

Noone life's here. There are almost twice as mamy people in my country's capitol Berlin than in my whole state. 2/3rds of it is just forrest, the rest are little villages and maybe the occasional small "city".
I life in one of the biggest city's here.... 26000 people, and this city includes some villages that are not even connected and 20km away....
When I go on a dating site, and set the radius to 70km, and +/- 10 years, there is not even a second page of availible people. Swiping through tinder takes 5 minutes bevore it literally runs out of options.

Zoo people? In my age group? Nonexistent.
 
My biggest hold up about meeting someone is the fear of being known, both in a vulnerable sense and also in a 'what if I'm being set up' sense. Especially in regards to zoo stuff. I'm also shy and awkward. I can talk a big game online and posture, but when it becomes real life I end up losing all of my confidence
 
my problem is people do not plan or they dont follow through they are too damm lazy. they flake or are more scared then they are motivated. even after vetting they are still too scared. at some point it becomes a burden or annoying when some only think they want to try it. the idea sounds good the fantasy is arousing but in reality they are not certain.

but i just wish it was easier to meet woman closer to me that would follow through with plans. im lucky a few have.
 
IcerMora said:
My biggest hold up about meeting someone is the fear of being known, both in a vulnerable sense and also in a 'what if I'm being set up' sense. Especially in regards to zoo stuff. I'm also shy and awkward. I can talk a big game online and posture, but when it becomes real life I end up losing all of my confidence
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this is the problem i run into. its a bit annoying. but i use fake names and never use my real number. if you dont take measure to protect yourself then no one will. no face no case. but me personally i dont care about who someone is outside of the zoo world its strictly to fulfill our zoo fantasies and then leave until we schedule to do it agian. nothing more to it.
 
AirBender101 said:
this is the problem i run into. its a bit annoying. but i use fake names and never use my real number. if you dont take measure to protect yourself then no one will. no face no case. but me personally i dont care about who someone is outside of the zoo world its strictly to fulfill our zoo fantasies and then leave until we schedule to do it agian. nothing more to it.
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Works well till you have to give an address lol defeats the purpose of the secrecy.

Doesn’t apply if you bring your dog somewhere, but somewhat mandatory for horses.
 
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