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Hiding zoo from partner.

bayareacpl said:
So he’d have been your boyfriend and not your spouse. Also, you went from “I’m thinking about breaking up” to “we broke up” in twelve hours.

You’re totally full of shit 🤣
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He's trans and prefers to be called my spouse and not my boyfriend. And 12 hrs or 12 weeks doesn't change anything. You're unaware to any other processes or conversations outside of this post. But again that's your opinion. If you feel it's bull shit congratulations to you. Trying to discredit a Randoms person's post is weird but again that's your perogative. I don't owe you anymore information than what I have already provided. Hope you have a good day.
 
Lickmypussy said:
He's trans and prefers to be called my spouse and not my boyfriend.
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That deceptive language tracks. I’m glad we can agree on something.
Lickmypussy said:
And 12 hrs or 12 weeks doesn't change anything.
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It does when you’re actually married.
Lickmypussy said:
You're unaware to any other processes or conversations outside of this post.
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Only aware of the deceptive language here
Lickmypussy said:
But again that's your opinion.
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Words have objective meanings outside of my opinion, soooo nah.
Lickmypussy said:
If you feel it's bull shit congratulations to you. Trying to discredit a Randoms person's post is weird but again that's your perogative. I don't owe you anymore information than what I have already provided. Hope you have a good day.
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Appreciate that, Stacy Bullshit.
 
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Can you possibly find some friends on here that have male dogs that can help you with your desires? We have 3 of them and would be more than happy to help you. We are in Texas. That would be your best plan for now. I actually have girl friends who do come visit for that very reason.
 
If you’ve been with him for awhile and he isn’t into kinky stuff or mainly vanilla I wouldn’t try to ask, you know him better then anyone, but do you feel like your dog is a better lover? Like maybe just being zoosexual and just having your dog as a partner is an option?

I didn’t read the entire thread so sorry if this is like other questions
 
bayareacpl said:
That deceptive language tracks. I’m glad we can agree on something.

It does when you’re actually married.

Only aware of the deceptive language here

Words have objective meanings outside of my opinion, soooo nah.

Appreciate that, Stacy Bullshit.
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Dude what’s your problem?
 
bayareacpl said:
Im not a dude, and there’s no problem. We learned there was no spouse or marriage, and just deceptive language instead. It’s done.
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Agreed, OP made it sound like they basically got divorced because they couldn't find 30 minutes of alone time to get licked by their dog.
 
Does your partner know you’re a zoo? Are they ok with it or are they a zoo too?

I’ve always kept this part of me super secret until recent. My partners and I were talking about our tastes and kinks in art we like to consume, and one of my partners got nervous and shifty when seeing my feral stash. They nervously stammered out that they like dogs like that, and my heart stopped. I couldn’t believe it.

We talked for a few days about it, and decided to tell our other partner together, we decided we should be open about who we are. And… they were a zoo too??

It’s making exploring my identity and who I am as a zoo a lot easier but it’s boggling my mind how this happened.
 
Lickmypussy said:
I'm just wondering if there are people who hide their desires from their spouse? How do you find time for your desires? My dog has been begging to eat me out. But my spouse is always around. He doesn't know about this. I'm afraid if he found out he would out me to everyone I know. So I want to keep it secret. But I also want my boy to get what he wants.
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My wife don't know about my kinky side.. I have the same fear.. So I completely understand you
 
If you have a spare room find an excuse to sleep alone occasionally. I'm a flight attendant with an erratic schedule and I don't want to disturb my husband's sleep with my comings and goings. The dogs sleep with me.

My advice is to keep sex to a certain place and to initiate it with the same routine. If you do that your dogs won't sniff after other women or arouse suspicion by trying to mount you randomly.
 
CollieMom said:
If you have a spare room find an excuse to sleep alone occasionally. I'm a flight attendant with an erratic schedule and I don't want to disturb my husband's sleep with my comings and goings. The dogs sleep with me.

My advice is to keep sex to a certain place and to initiate it with the same routine. If you do that your dogs won't sniff after other women or arouse suspicion by trying to mount you randomly.
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Does your husband know?
 
Lickmypussy said:
I'm just wondering if there are people who hide their desires from their spouse? How do you find time for your desires? My dog has been begging to eat me out. But my spouse is always around. He doesn't know about this. I'm afraid if he found out he would out me to everyone I know. So I want to keep it secret. But I also want my boy to get what he wants.
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luckily we work different schedules so plenty of opportunity
 
Lickmypussy said:
Im

Not sharing this with him at all. I dont trust him nearly enough. I wish I coukd find someone into this. It would make me life so much easier.
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I was in the same situation, had filed for divorce and now live alone. Better this way than continuing as before. Maybe I"ll find a partner who accepts my fetish or likes to be active herself.
 
Lickmypussy said:
I'm just wondering if there are people who hide their desires from their spouse? How do you find time for your desires? My dog has been begging to eat me out. But my spouse is always around. He doesn't know about this. I'm afraid if he found out he would out me to everyone I know. So I want to keep it secret. But I also want my boy to get what he wants.
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I understand your feelings perfectly.
I'm a married man and I love being with male dogs. For women to understand this is even more difficult, which is why I've always kept it from my partners.
This has always gotten in the way of my love for my dogs. I thought about divorce several times. I got divorced a few times. Today I am married to a woman who accepts this form of love and she is starting it. We are happy. And That is incredible.

But if you don't feel safe revealing this secret to your husband, keep it a secret. If this marriage is fundamental to you, stay married.
The important thing in this case is to reconcile your two loves, keeping one a secret. Which is also exciting ;)
 
MasterWhipYoAss said:
Im sure it's already eating you up inside, and you say you can't trust him.
Relationships are meant to be built on trust.
Both of my long term relationships in life, including my past marriage were open honest and zoo. It feels great being able to be yourself and speak your mind on such subjects.
It's also very nice to share the experiences with someone you love and trust.
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It is indeed incredible. I agree <3
 
Most important question is: why hiding?
Why people have to hide their preferences from life partner? It make no sense to be with someone who don't accept us with our fantasies and experience.

But its a fact. Most of people are too desperate to not be alone, they have to be with someone even if that means keeping secrets and lying partner.
 
Lickmypussy said:
Its my apartment so he will be leaving but I'm going to be careful thank you
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Well as your a single vunerable woman now, as a decent pevert, i think its only safe I now take you to the park for your walkies collared and leashed!!

In all serious though, I wish you all the best and if you're ever in the midlands, UK, would love to meet for a drink :)
 
Now that you have taken the next step in being unencumbered, I would spend quality time with your boy . You may decide to be exclusive. Good luck!🐾
 
Just to stand up for @Lickmypussy. Shes a genuine lass we speak voa voice notes and shes a belta lass. So shame on ye of little faiths thinking shes fulla shit.
Dont go adding her all at once now. Yous will get in the way of our jacket tatie chats 🤔😂.

Lovley lass x
 
gameazz said:
Just to stand up for @Lickmypussy. Shes a genuine lass we speak voa voice notes and shes a belta lass. So shame on ye of little faiths thinking shes fulla shit.
Dont go adding her all at once now. Yous will get in the way of our jacket tatie chats 🤔😂.

Lovley lass x
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Damn it who let this fucker in the comments. ❤️❤️ I appreciate you for standing up for me that's so kind. And ya what he said.
 
Meg97 said:
Most important question is: why hiding?
Why people have to hide their preferences from life partner? It make no sense to be with someone who don't accept us with our fantasies and experience.

But its a fact. Most of people are too desperate to not be alone, they have to be with someone even if that means keeping secrets and lying partner.
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well why hiding? When I think about it from a rational point of view, I cannot see anything wrong in having fallen in love with my boy and in giving each other the sexual pleasure nature has made us so well capable of giving to each other. Still, the stigma from society is so strong, I think I would not have the strength to be singled out as a perverted bitch. so, since I started my love relationship with my boy after quitting my relationship with a moron of a man, I have become zoo only and I am very happy with it and I think I will stay like this for the foresiable future.

I am confident that in the future we will be accepted in society like normal decent people, like it has happened for gay people, but I am not sure this will happen in my lifetime
 
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