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Have you ever told anyone?

Knottycouple9 said:
Admitted it cautiously, as I had a suspicion it might be mutual. It was. Now we both know and don't have to hide from each other, and it's so hot! I feel extremely lucky, and I am glad I was right! We share a lot of common kinks, so it wasn't that far of a stretch from some of our roleplay sessions.

Has anyone else come out to their partner recently, and what was your result?

We heard about this site and decided to give it a try. So here's my first post!
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It really is amazing isint it. Sharing this with your partner. Feels so validating and just connects you more. Been awhile since it came out. Been together awhile. But the moment it's revealed and all is good is joy. Wish you two the best! Keep exploring. And watch some good porn related together ;)
 
cooople01 said:
It really is amazing isint it. Sharing this with your partner. Feels so validating and just connects you more. Been awhile since it came out. Been together awhile. But the moment it's revealed and all is good is joy. Wish you two the best! Keep exploring. And watch some good porn related together
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We have and will.
 
bigstretch said:
It's a big leap of faith to share with someone and I'm glad it's worked out as brilliantly as it has. It adds a whole other bond to your relationship. Have a great time exploring together!
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It comes kinda slowly. Through just hints and things. You feel it out.
 
Knottycouple9 said:
We already had tails hehe
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It's usually a good hint while innocently deniable ;)

cooople01 said:
It's usually a good hint while innocently deniabl
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just_do_it said:
Does he know your on this site?
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Surely? We don't do anything without the partner sees it later or is there at the time. Ain't ruining this connection :)

cooople01 said:
Surely? We don't do anything without the partner sees it later or is there at the time. Ain't ruining this connection :)
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What's there to hide when this has been accepted. Other than cheating. Which is just.....just shit

HotFinStud said:
I hope everyone finds partner to share their taboos♥️
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Just find a partner that doesent care if you got a taboo. I litterly wouldt blink if she wanted to have me shit on her chest even if I find it in nice words non appealing. Don't judge if you don't want to be judged

cooople01 said:
Just find a partner that doesent care if you got a taboo. I litterly wouldt blink if she wanted to have me shit on her chest even if I find it in nice words non appealing. Don't judge if you don't want to be judged
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Would man up. Drink quite bit and treat on her birthday. If that was the case. ? Good it's not though but points being made.
 
cooople01 said:
It's usually a good hint while innocently deniable ;)
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Yeah lol

cooople01 said:
Just find a partner that doesent care if you got a taboo. I litterly wouldt blink if she wanted to have me shit on her chest even if I find it in nice words non appealing. Don't judge if you don't want to be judged
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Lol

cooople01 said:
Would man up. Drink quite bit and treat on her birthday. If that was the case. ? Good it's not though but points being made.
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Good on you! You're a bigger person than I... Lol

just_do_it said:
Does he know your on this site?
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I told him that I was trying to connect with people for us, not the exact name of the site though, didn't come up.
 
Knottycouple9 said:
Good on you! You're a bigger person than I... Lol
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Best friends as well as lovers. 10years. Seen n talked bout everything. We will die old together. So yeah easy would. But thankfully all of it is shared taboos :)

Knottycouple9 said:
I told him that I was trying to connect with people for us, not the exact name of the site though, didn't come up.
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Iv had plenty of connection tries. Good at weeding out the fakers. So these days fine if I show potentials. Trust is built

cooople01 said:
Iv had plenty of connection tries. Good at weeding out the fakers. So these days fine if I show potentials.
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Trust just build trust. She wants my phone she has it. But comes with time. Reading every word not really but got to make partner fully aware what you are doing imo. Why etc.

The problem always is trust you would tell your partner your fetish if knew it would be kept secret even in breakup. Establish that properly rest comes easy

Cheat on them and sorry but revenge is dish best served cold :) :) :) I'm gonna be like marmite. Either love it or hate it
 
cooople01 said:
Best friends as well as lovers. 10years. Seen n talked bout everything. We will die old together. So yeah easy would. But thankfully all of it is shared taboos :)
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Congrats!

cooople01 said:
Trust just build trust. She wants my phone she has it. But comes with time. Reading every word not really but got to make partner fully aware what you are doing imo. Why etc.
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Same

cooople01 said:
The problem always is trust you would tell your partner your fetish if knew it would be kept secret even in breakup. Establish that properly rest comes easy
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He would

cooople01 said:
Cheat on them and sorry but revenge is dish best served cold :) :) :) I'm gonna be like marmite. Either love it or hate it
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Lol
 
i finally opened up to my partner about being a zoophile after some hints from them and it went great! they are a little interested, but not that much and it’s not really their thing, but they don’t judge me whatsoever and are just happy we can be open and see it as a bonding experience. IM personally ecstatic and over the moon lol. their one stipulation is just for me to never actively partake in it, unless we decide to do it together. fingers crossed they decide to try it out with me lol… but i respect their boundaries 100%, as its more of like a they don’t want me to fuck anyone but them thing lol, not bc they judge me.

IM just happy they’re so accepting!! i thought id take this secret to the GRAVE before they ever found out, but on new years they jokingly called my dog fucker (since we are into petplay, i’m the pet lol) and me being very drunk was a little *too* into being called that. the pet name stuck (pun intended!) and i’ve been steadily testing the waters since then, making comments subtle and not subtle to see their reaction (all with the intention of writing it off as a joke if they reacted poorly.) but tonight the jokes became not a joke LOL and they basically told me they didn’t care and had a hunch for a while.

so i’m just wondering if anyone else has had such a positive experience? i’d love to hear! and any advice on how to tread the waters of being able to express my interest in zoophilia to them without making it seem like i’m *only* into animals? cus i’m not, i veeeery much am sexually into them. they did admit to watching mare porn on occasion and getting off to it, though they don’t explicitly consider themselves a zoophile (maybe i can help them explore that side more?)

anyways yeah, would love to hear others experiences!
 
Here goes my experience with my soon to be wife ... Well after 2 years of relationship I've felt that something is missing in our sex life. I can tell it wasn't from my side as I'm very open minded and lots of things goes, so I've asked her what are her fantasies,her kinks, what did she heard about or saw on porn that perhaps made her curious or something that she would want to experience. I've told her that I'm very open and I can understand a lot and won't judge . So we've talked and talked and I was asking about fetishes about kinks and also mentioned bestiality and zoo... At first she was surprised to hear about this . I've tried my best to explain her that for some people this is normal and a way of life for some, in other cases it makes the bond between the partners even stronger so she was a bit intrigued and hooked...tried to explain as much as I could from my experiences and what I've learned here on the forum... This made her curious... After a while I was away with work in other country so we were texting and sexting and video chatting... One evening while sexting I've made a small throwback related to the discussion we've had and I've sent her the link to a video where a women gets licked by a male dog and I've received a positive answer to that video an emoji of some kind (perhaps the one with drooling ??) so I've kept showing her videos it was one video where the lady is getting licked by the doggy while performing oral on her partner again a positive answer, after that I've sent the link to a video where the couple is having sex and the dog is licking clean the passion juices from from the wet pussy but also from the cock this is where she asked if I'm down with this . Ofc I've told her yes and then she said that she would want to experience this also ... I was very happy to hear that ... Once I've came home from
abroad we talked even more regarding this we've even watched videos together... She definitely wants to experience the licking part but she is a bit hesitant with mounting or knotting ... Perhaps with time patience and no pressure that will come also... We are now looking to get a small dog however a bit hard because of our work and time , but will see what the future brings.
 
One of my ex bf's friend was into it and we watched some video's together because her and I was into it and my bf wasn't. Only a few times though and I've lost touch with her. Another female friend was into it for the cocks so liked dogs and horses but then she got out of it. My wife found an old CD I had thought I destroyed years ago about 7 years ago and almost ended things. Thankfully she stayed with me but very clear she is NOT into this.
One of the reasons I'm here is to by the off chance of meeting someone to talk to IRL. Pretty hard to do though.
 
kitty.bows said:
Yes actually, my ex bf but I'm pretty sure he forgot
I really want to meet people irl who I can be open about my zoophilia and fantasys, maybe one day a person like that will pop up in my life ??‍♀️
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i hope u find someone! it can be really nice to talk about it
 
I’m mostly terrified of anyone knowing, except I’ve told 2 of my closest friends. One suggested I get help for it immediately and stay away from animals entirely… so as far as they know now I am working through it in therapy and am “doing better.” However, my other friend, truly didn’t care. Although we debated on the ethics of it, they’re supportive and truly don’t care as long as I’m not forcing myself onto any animal (that goes for any animal anyways, human or nonhuman).

Overall I’d say being open about sexuality in a safe space does have a positive impact on my self acceptance. Yet, you should definitely still be weary with whom/what you share.
 
EmmySlut said:
We're not in touch anymore but I was dating an older domme girl a while ago who had a dog cock dildo that eventually led to us watching k9 porn together. We talked about doing it together but neither of us had a dog and we stopped seeing each other before we had the chance
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Damn too bad you did not had that chanche.
 
Emily L. said:
Nobody in my "real life" knows. I think back in the day, some of my friends had suspicions. I was less discrete back then, I suppose.
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It's a sad fact that it's important to be so careful, I do sometimes wonder how many of us encounter each other in life and never have a clue.
 
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