Met my soulmate 10 years ago. About 7 years ago I started realizing I might be into horses and their various ungulate cousins. The big reveal was kind of a mess.... I didn't say anything until I was actually going to "try it," showed her a picture of the horse dildo that was coming in the mail in a matter of days. That was a tough conversation and a very tense few days afterward.
But we learned a lot about each other, even after all those years. Turns out my fiancé (yes it took forever for me to propose lol) is demisexual--she's attracted to me on the condition that she loves me, and doesn't find random dudes attractive because they're strangers. I'm oversimplifying but thats the gist.
On the other hand she is attracted to things that turn me on, so that works out pretty well. Now she wants to fill me up with horse toys and cum lube and talk dirty to me about my little mare cunt lol. Even wants a (small) horse for herself.
I think she has major hangups about me doing anything with actual horses though. I absolutely would given the chance, but not sure where that chance would come from anytime soon. But that'll probably be another tough conversation down the road. Who knows, she might be helping me lick the cum off a horse one day. One can only hope lol ?