How many times have you nearly told someone

Fuckin eh 👌👍👍

I def have found that dudes (whatever their self-declared interest/orientation) tend to either say 'no worries, but hell no, not my thing man.' Or, hmmm.. that's funny **CHUBB** 🍆🍆🍆
Yeah I mean I only ever met a girl into it but that was a whole other thing.
 
Sober me ? Never been close.

Under the influence ? It’s becoming more difficult to keep the lid on it the older I get.

Not sure who can relate.
 
Sober me ? Never been close.

Under the influence ? It’s becoming more difficult to keep the lid on it the older I get.

Not sure who can relate.
100% bud. More and more recently

But i think part of that is realising that quite a good chunk of sexually curious / independent (men in my experience, but all genders/nonbianry orientations i suspect) have come across some - and a decent chunk of those got turned the fuck on, even of theyve pushed it away, ignored it etc
 
Have not told anyone but nearly considered telling once. the other person mentioned it first and not in a full joke way so I thought maybe but I laughed it off, pretended to be normally appalled and never thought about it again.
 
I'd love to know how many people like myself get so close to opening up and then remembered if they reach wrong your life could be fucked
I have nearly mentioned something about my zoo life accidentally without thinking about it, but I always have caught myself. Purposely, only once, with a GF. That was a mistake. She told all my friends.
 
I was seeing a girl a while back and made a joke about watching dog porn, she called me out on it so I tried to play it off as "it was seriously only a joke" but she wouldn't drop it so eventually I caved and said yes I like to watch girls with dogs her response was "well show me" out totally caught me off guard and blew me away... we were kinda long distance so this was all said over texting etc.... I ended up sending her the best clip I could find (at the time) of a girl getting mounted and knotted while enjoying it.... I very sheepishly asked if she liked it wholeheartedly expecting her to never reply to me again but she replied with "i don't want too like it" we ended up role playing her being mounted..... after that we kinda went back and forth with her liking it one week and being disgusted the next we drifted apart but occasionally still talk and she claims she never did anything with a dog but who knows! the only other person that knows told me she was into it first but that's a longish story!
 
my inner friend circle probably knows. Im an open, honest, no judgments peson who has no qualms about saying the most offensive things i can think of to delight and challenge my friends. They know i love animals and that i never talk badly about zoophilia in random conversations it comes up in. They must have at least a strong hunch but they love me lots anyway.
 
a few times specially after she died, i was in a bad place, i have told my friends the truth, as a joke though, i hope they have not taken it to heart
 
My cousin knows and is also bigtime into Zoo like me. I burned him some Zoo porn to watch a few years back. Hes the only person I know into it besides me IRL.
 
I've told at least 4 people IRL.

As far as like accidental slip ups? 0, but I've had a few close calls when stoned and friends make bestiality jokes, which happens way more often than I'd ever imagine it would.
 
I’ve only ever told one person that I’m extremely close with, and they were fine with it and even a little into it themselves. I consider myself lucky in that regard. There have been a couple times where the vibe seems right and it feels like a friend might be cool with that, but I hold my tongue because the potential consequences could be awful.
 
I’ve only ever told one person that I’m extremely close with, and they were fine with it and even a little into it themselves. I consider myself lucky in that regard. There have been a couple times where the vibe seems right and it feels like a friend might be cool with that, but I hold my tongue because the potential consequences could be awful.
wise choice, it's really hard to open up to someone and you'd only do it if you feel really sure you'll not get a throw-back reaction and get in trouble, or lose a friend
 
As someone who mostly dates messed up women, those with issues, 4 of my partner's know.
The 1st found an instance in my search history and was just weirded out. I played it off like weird porn Links pop up sometimes.
The 2nd was into it before me, but it came up late in our relationship, but we still shared links and talked about it.
The 3rd I told that the ex was into it, she was also weirded out, but I didn't pursue it.
The 4th is the wife, who's into weird stuff but not dogs, mostly tentacle stuff. I share links and she's kinda, note: KINDA warming up to it.
Again, all of them are weird and into weird shit, and they knew I was into "women in distress" porn, which fits right in. I don't think I'd mention it to a normal woman. Lol
 
Four people in my life know. I've been very fortunate in that they've all mostly understood. The only one I regret telling is my crazy ex-wife [the very first person I told]. But fortunately, she didn't hold it over me or tell others, or if she did then no one believed her. The other three being my current long term partner of nearly 10 years, an extremely close friend who was struggling with a certain taboo thing as well, and my 2nd partner of 1.5 years. The 2nd ended up being a bit of... happenstance. I had a dream with them, and I was mounting them as a feral canine. They reacted very intrigued and interested in more details. Turns out, they are into it, but not willing to practice [I'm on the fence on that regard as well].
 
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